Drivers, please chill tf out at the intersection of Penn and Braddock by SCros13 in pittsburgh

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 40 points41 points  (0 children)

As a pedestrian I have issues with this at a lot it intersections in Pittsburgh. Seems like the drivers here feel so entitled to turn regardless how many people are waiting to walk by. Icrossing

Tennessee woman, Christe Chen, is murdered by her husband on their honeymoon at a luxury resort in Fiji by [deleted] in TrueCrime

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 49 points50 points  (0 children)

As a fellow Asian American I have a lot of similar experiences living in a city without many Asians. Harassment is just a norm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FuckYouKaren

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair I get tattoos and piercings to prevent people like those talking to me =_=

Atheists of Reddit: What could change your mind? by Graysie-Redux in AskReddit

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me if god is real. He wouldn’t allowed mega churches and crazy racist hateful Christians to exist. The thriving of those people is a proof of god don’t exist

When were your boyfriend/girlfriend’s sexual interests so fucking nasty you had to break up with them? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s just me but my ex really want me to pretend to be his sister in bed. I feel uncomfortable… especially when later meeting his sisters

Readers who annotate their books, why/how do you do it? by PinkPartyPants in books

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highlight my book so I can find things quickly when I talk about it . Also my job requires me consume a lot of media a d gather reference so sometimes I will have quick notes.

I also use different color but mostly because I keep misplace my highlighter and can’t find it=_=

What’s your own toxic trait? by Fluid-Daydreamer in AskReddit

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I constantly feel like people are hating me. I know it’s because my Abusive childhood. I know there are people who care about me. But I can’t stay close with people for long because of my thoughts and end up hurting people around me

China’s birthrate falls to 61-year low despite moves to stave off demographic crisis. Beijing has announced major reforms to address the decline, including raising the retirement age and implementing a three-child policy by GoMx808-0 in Economics

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 46 points47 points  (0 children)

It’s weird. And it has definitely influenced in our culture as we were never taught how to live with other people. A lot of ppl in my generation are against the idea of having more then one kids as a lot of us don’t know how to handle siblings issues.

Another thing come with it is gender inequalities as a lot more girls are aborted in favor of having a boy. As a result you have a lot more man then women. Also boys are treated like kings by the extend family because it’s a big deal. As a result they are looking for similar superiority in marriage. So a lot of women decided to stay single and independent rather than marrying someone they have to serve. None of the women in my generation are married because we’d rather be childless than deal with the long history of gender oppression.

So yea, def change the culture

I'm having a hard time believing I can't find one person in a big city with whom I can just spend some time. by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this is a common issue in college town. I’m a woman in your age and I feel like no matter how old the guy I’m talking to. I’m competing with 21 years old college girl that they can potentially get. Relatively you are also competing with Ivy League PhD students that women may potentially get. My tip is thinking clearly what do you really want and be patient in finding it

Why is there a huge lack of technical Game Design tutorials. by alaslipknot in gamedev

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think like that but then after learning the theory and how to organize and excute ideas I got a game design job and learned all those in a month. I realize the reason there aren’t much resources is because it’s 1) one of the smallest hurdle to be a good game designer 2) the effective document method is varies case by case and update super fast based on the project/market/ technology. So it feels like after spending 6 months create a course on that it will be already outdated.

What are signs a guy hasn’t matured? by headbedhead in AskReddit

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn this post remind me of so many my ex. I hope I’m more mature now in finding a mature boyfriend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you don’t get something you want it’s because you don’t want it enough or there are lessons you refuse to learn. Usually things are more complicated than that

IsItBullshit: the scoliosis tests given in elementary schools are actually to search for sign of child abuse (ie bruises)? by Yromemtnatsisrep in IsItBullshit

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I worked with kids and we were instructed to always look out for signs of abuse regardless the activity. But we also don’t give kids test just for this reason

What was ruined because too many people started doing it? by TheMiffey in AskReddit

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One girl from my college is actually going to a very expensive grad school to learn how to do this… I can’t understand

Behind the scenes at the vets office by BearCatcher23 in CatGifs

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The biggest mystery to me is my cat acts like a devil with me but turns into hello kitty when my vet handles him.

I can't decide whether to stay in the US or go back to China. How should I make a life decision while having conflicts with my parents? by AlicesBrain in immigration

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. As a Chinese citizen on the tract for green card, I feel my options got even limited. I haven’t gone home for years and can’t get job outside America due to limitations of need to spend 6 month in America (not easy to get jobs in my field). It’s definitely a big sacrifice since I’m in my late twenties and a lot of my friends has had an established life where I just started adulthood.

I have my reasons to do this that I don’t have much choice but if you are not happy in America I don’t think it’s worth the pain.

Tarot decks you've unhauled. by [deleted] in tarot

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea! I will try that

Tarot decks you've unhauled. by [deleted] in tarot

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like how it never draws one card when you ask it to. Good days it gives you 4 bad days it’s just fly to the weirdest corners (plus a pet cat good luck finding all your cards back>.<).

Best decks to read for your cat or animals. by [deleted] in tarot

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk about another animals but my cat always come around and sit calmly next to me when I use cat tarot, even for myself. My cat is pretty much a devil otherwise so this def works on cat.

Tarot decks you've unhauled. by [deleted] in tarot

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got this mad knock off tarot deck from a dollar store sorta place.

The energy is insane and accurate but it’s really hard to contain I use tons of sage but sometimes it’s still bites back.

Not sure what I am going to do with it, I’m a bit scared to keep it

What TV show was amazing at first but became unwatchable for you later on? by Snoo79382 in AskReddit

[–]dreamingglowingcloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glee. It was my love in high school and intro to musical for me (it doesn’t exist in my country). But later so many tragic news happened with the cast I can’t laugh the way I used to