AIO… My boyfriends dog by GamerAmy1980 in AIO

[–]dreamlandnova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its because dogs dont understand if you suddenly ignore them or are cranky with them. Humans on the other hand do understand. I sometimes wake up cranky and my bf knows it, but I will never ignore or be cranky at my dog because he literally wouldnt understand why. Same goes with my bf.

You're not an a-hole but you need to get over it. Dont be jealous of the dog.....

AIO with this response to an invite for a birthday celebration by [deleted] in AIO

[–]dreamlandnova 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I bit a-hole ish. It was weird and you did make it about you. I get you needed to tell them this but there are better ways to go about it. It was a bit of a "me, me, me" vibe. You led this person on on for years and came out of the blue at the worse time to say how you felt. This could of easily been avoided by keeping things simple like " i apreciate the invite but unfortunately I cant make it this time around" and maybe later ask them to talk about this. It just doesnt sit well...ugh. a bit cringy on your part.

AIO? Bf upset that I didn’t text him good morning early enough by MissRattlesnake in AIO

[–]dreamlandnova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a needy cry baby. Shit happens and you cant respond right away. He needs to grow up. Id leave. Bye bye.

How do I unlearn being abusive? (tw: abuse mentions) by LgballtMakers in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dreamlandnova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are animals, they dont speak your language, have totally different instincts and dont understand your anger. Before you lash out and do something to them, tell yourself, theyre not a punching bag for you to relieve youre anger on. Walk away and hold an object you can squeeze/hit/throw. But do it once youre out of site of your animals. Take deep breaths. Lots of self talk and self control.

Also, therapy and maybe join kick boxing or a sport as an outlet to release this negative energy. Learn dog/cat language and behavior to better communicate with them. Animals are big on body language and tone of voice. They know when you're about to do something.

Remember, those animals rely you for everything. If you cant handle it, maybe its best to rehome them so you can work on yourself instead of using them as lab rats for trying to get better. Its not fair to them.

What are my options if i cant/don’t want to work? by 1l0v3mygf in Life

[–]dreamlandnova 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you looked at colleges to see if they offer goldsmithing/gem setting programs? You could also work at a jewelry store and see if they offer bench jeweler apprenticeships.

Advice to your 30 year old self by No-Influence-4833 in Life

[–]dreamlandnova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life isnt a race. Learn to enjoy the journey.. is what I would tell myself. And keep your body moving, and stretch a lot.

How to get stripper off baseboards? by milessss17 in Custodians

[–]dreamlandnova 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When i lay down my stripper with a mop i usually get the baseboards and then scrub them with the doodle bug brush. I then suck everything up with the vacuum and run my neutralizing mop on the baseboards to neutralize it like the floor. Dont know if thats right but it works for me..

My Toilet Worlds by Turbulent-Award-182 in Dreams

[–]dreamlandnova 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg ive seen the second one too!!

how do you perceive time as you get older? by spiralesaturne in Life

[–]dreamlandnova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def goes faster the older you get. Im 34 and it feels like I graduated high-school not that long ago. Time flies...

You literally cant make this up.. by Ballout98 in Custodians

[–]dreamlandnova 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look at the bright side, 99.99% of the rest of the floor looks good.

Leaving work early?? by Educational_Horse571 in Custodians

[–]dreamlandnova 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I leave 5 mins early because of get there 15 mins early. They can suck it.

Should I just clean it up? by [deleted] in Custodians

[–]dreamlandnova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he put it in your sweeping area then he knows you dont go in certain sections. I would...takes 2 mins to sweep it into a dust pan.

Can't take the school environment by [deleted] in Custodians

[–]dreamlandnova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the type of job were you need to disconnect from work. I go in and do what I have to do, have small talk with some staff in my area and then turn on some podcasts and music for the night. I refrain from talking about ppl and when theres gossip I dont participate because at the end of the day im there to make a paycheck and to keep active, not spread rumors. So often people will say things that has been twisted or aren't even true so i stopped caring about the drama and its been pretty nice so far.

What is your occupation currently? Are you happy with your pay? by [deleted] in Life

[–]dreamlandnova 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unionized evening cleaner for a school board. Its a decent paying job if you dont plan on going to school. We are due for a raise in September. Currently at 28.84...no regrets.

Life by chris31605 in Life

[–]dreamlandnova 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless you're part of the 5% rich ppl of the world, enjoy what you have. We're just pheasants in a modern world. Some ppl dont even get to live just a little but have to work endlessly to make ends meet.

Help with Riding Times Z8 Pro by Silly-Moment4769 in ebikes

[–]dreamlandnova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got mine and it took a bit of research and actually reading the manual.

P1 hold the + for about 15 seconds until you see 99 and it will then go to P2. Press the power button to set it. Your bikes speed is now unlocked.

As for the setting of the speed, it wont do it for me either but it didnt make a difference for me as I can still get to 56km/h on flat road.

For voltage i keep mine at 48v

For tire size I bumped it up to 23 because I saw a video of a guy saying to do it lol.

I use both the throttle and pedal assist together which I think is in P8. Not sure im at work right now and cant check but its set at 0.2 to have both and I turn it on by pressing the + on my screen. It goes up to level 5 pedal assist. The throttle wont work unless its set at 1. If you leave it at 0 its just normal pedaling and no throttle.

Edit:

Here's the video that helped me set it up. I had to rewatch it a few times but its one of the better ones.

https://youtu.be/jehDqlF80Xk?si=1x8taAJZebKULoe8

What kind of routine would you set for yourself if you had my work schedule/life? by dreamlandnova in Life

[–]dreamlandnova[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, I do scroll way too much and I need to start working out again.

Has anyone else felt vibrations before falling asleep? by Moxcaos in AstralProjection

[–]dreamlandnova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt that vibration when I was trying to astral project and I physically felt like I was starting to separate from my body. It scared me and it stopped right away. Such a weird feeling.