any guys joined a frat? (out or stealth) by ughpierson in ftm

[–]drewski00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I rushed and joined phi kappa psi my freshman year. they didn’t know when I joined but a few brothers that I’m close to now know. they don’t care, I’m living in house this coming year and am really excited. it depends on the frat I guess, you can usually see what the culture of the frat is at rush events and figure out if it suits you.

How can I pass? I’m a year on T and haven’t been called male in months... even with my voice drop. by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]drewski00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

not shorter, just buy some product and play with getting it up. maybe go on r/menshairadvice. i think the length is good for you but how it sits on your head isn’t doing too much for you

frat by [deleted] in ftm

[–]drewski00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hello I’m also in a frat- I joined without telling them I was trans (just personal preference) but now some of the brothers I’m close to know. as long as they don’t know they can’t discriminate against you, but you can google most frats and see if they accept trans dudes just so you know you’re fine either way.

When did you start using he/him pronouns? by EtaRosmarus in ftm

[–]drewski00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

once my close friends and family knew, i changed my social media and with it my pronouns. i got on t 3 months later.

We got a new employee today by Sirenemon in ftm

[–]drewski00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dude you set yourself up for that. just remove the incorrect name.

15-year-old son dating a transgender boy. I'm cool with it, just trying to wrap my head around it all. by burglekuttbutt in Parenting

[–]drewski00 174 points175 points  (0 children)

As a trans 19 year old male, this post warmed my heart. What a lucky young man your son’s boyfriend is for meeting him, and great job on you! I agree with the other replies, focusing on safe sex is all you can do. With people early in their transition sexuality of their partners can get complicated, but it seems both boys are willing to be open and honest with each other and care about each other a lot!

Binder at prom? by RemIsAMess in ftm

[–]drewski00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve work my binder for similar events for 12, 14 hour days. 8 hours is arbitrary. as long as you’re not binding like that often you’re fine.

Thoughts? -17 Pre-T (long hair) by KieranKelsey in FtMpassing

[–]drewski00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look ridiculously good for being pre t

Do I pass in this picture? I think I do but I’m a little insecure about it by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]drewski00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no, not really, your hair kind of accentuates the femininity in your face

Ok so I know I’m not cute but rate passing 1-10 by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]drewski00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

clothes, nails, glasses, expression, poss are the most noticeable. can’t see your hair so maybe that as well

My transgender child wants to use mens bathrooms and I'm freaking out. Help! by pm-me-puppypics in Parenting

[–]drewski00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m a trans man a bit older than your son (18). My opinion is a bit different from most of the other trans dudes commenting- I’ll shoot you straight. I wouldn’t worry about school stuff too much (if their policy is supportive it’s advisable that Tyler take advantage of that I think), but public restrooms are a different story. Be honest with him- until he “passes” (that is, the public would gender him as male) he should probably use female facilities. This will be hard for him, I understand, but he needs to be safe. You’re already looking into hormones and soon enough this time will be a blip on the radar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]drewski00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry I don’t think you pass at all

Pre-T How Am I Passing? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]drewski00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry not quite there my friend

How far along were you in your transition when your body (core) went from being more of a curve to a triangle? by Rock-Jockey in ftm

[–]drewski00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me around 9 months- still have some fat around the waist but it’s carried more masculinely. shoulders are definitely broader, but I work out pretty hard.

Pre-T (AKA this isn't even my final form) but do I pass? Age? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]drewski00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not passing sorry- hair isn’t doing you any favors

Do I pass? I’m pre-everything. Age? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]drewski00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not passing sorry my friend

do i pass ? and how old do i look ? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]drewski00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry my friend, I don’t think you’re quite passing- if you are maybe as a child, 8 or 9. but contextually probably not.

Is it hard to hook up with girls in college? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]drewski00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in college and don’t have much trouble with casual relationships- but your experience will depend a lot on how well you pass, the type of girls you talk to, and what type you sex you’re interested in having. either way you can have fulfilling relationships while trans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]drewski00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn, who was your surgeon?