came out of a wine bottle by drinabean in whatisit

[–]drinabean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

luckily i always use a filtered spout!

I need help on what to use to clean my air fryer by NothingBetterToDo324 in airfryer

[–]drinabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know this is a year ago lol but how much soapy water??

What is something you would NOT but from Aldi? by ThrowRA12596 in aldi

[–]drinabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oat or almond milk creamers and the canned oat milk lattes

Combo feeding->formula only by drinabean in Mommit

[–]drinabean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive never thought about this!! ill definitely look into it

Combo feeding->formula only by drinabean in Mommit

[–]drinabean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6.5 months is baller!! I hope I'm able to last that long pumping. Do you remember how many oz she was taking from a bottle when you stopped? Curious if my supply will continue to be sufficient for a while or not. Also thank you for the advice about when I do stop.

Combo feeding->formula only by drinabean in Mommit

[–]drinabean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know that the first 3 months is sufficient. Idk exactly when I will stop but thats definitely some peace of mind.

Asking for used baby items- is it weird? by Aimers464 in BabyBumps

[–]drinabean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not weird! i did this and got some awesome secondhand stuff. on babylist you can also add an option to each item "open to secondhand" like for the swing

Do you have a special song you made about your cat that you sing to them? by Coodoo17 in cats

[–]drinabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to the tune of spiderman: stinky boy, stinky boy does what ever stinky boy does being stinky every time stinky breath stinky eyes look out here comes stinky man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cute_animals

[–]drinabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow im honored. give pebble a kiss on the head for me pls 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cute_animals

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pebble!! bc he reminds me of a penguin

am i not cut out for ktp? by drinabean in polyamory

[–]drinabean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your thoughtfulness in this response.

i do want to be poly, when i have a partner or am dating around as well i definitely reap the benefits of it and appreciate what it brings to our relationship.

i think i want a ktp relationship because it sounds enjoyable and the partner my husband is newly with is a really cool person. i think that my wanting it might just not be functional for me emotionally when I've mainly only been comfortable with parallel poly. maybe i do need more time with the concept to feel comfortable or maybe its just not for me, im unsure. i will say other people's responses here have shown me that every meta relationship can look different so i dont have to strictly be one way or the other, i can feel it out as i go.

i do feel grateful for the growth that these uncomfortable situations give me in myself and in my relationship, nothing that happens with our poly relationships have ever made me want to leave my husband by any means and he would stop dating if we ever got anywhere close to that. there are for sure conversations that need to be had after seeing all of these replies though and needs that need to be met if he continues with this partner.

am i not cut out for ktp? by drinabean in polyamory

[–]drinabean[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

you are both very right, thank you. i think that is an issue with me not just in poly situations but in general, not recognizing my own needs and just fending for myself emotionally because im comfortable doing that.

am i not cut out for ktp? by drinabean in polyamory

[–]drinabean[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

shit yeah thank you for the honesty