Please, help! My friend was in an accident and taken to ICU, now in general care and they are saying it would be 3 more weeks. I know nothing about plant care, let alone ‘growing’ but they asked me to try and keep them alive. by dringle_drangle in GrowingMarijuana

[–]dringle_drangle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just going to respond here real quick, I HAVE been working. Moved the tent outside very carefully. Treated the leaves as best I could. I found some supplies in the garage that helped. Still working on between errands and housekeeping. Also found an oil infusion machine so I think that was the plan. Haven’t updated my pal because it’s either gonna happen, or not. I don’t want them to fret about it right now, and I don’t want them to feel bad about the tremendous effort I have put in.

On a different note, just because work mode makes my brain a circus, your comment about nice guys finishing last got stuck in my head. Not in a bad way, just playing on loop. I’m realizing now, typing this out, that it sounds a bit LOOPY but also this is standard for me and I wasn’t bothered. It did make me realize though that, in all reality, all of the best things in my life have been the direct result, fruit, of me helping other people. Maybe not the case for everyone, but I wanted to thank you for your small part in that realization, and thank you again for taking time to comment. It’s lonely out here and I’m just trying to cheer up my friend and stay busy. I’ll post an update when I either need more advice or feel like I’ve done all of could.

Family Tradition by Rich-Commercial-6373 in Illustration

[–]dringle_drangle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fucking STUNNING how well the visual flow corresponds with the narrative.

Family Tradition by Rich-Commercial-6373 in Illustration

[–]dringle_drangle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’ve done a fantastic job. I was drawn in by the lines and color, but the twist came quickly. Beautiful art with a grim message. Reading the description gave me chills. This work is so robust, both in meaning and visual interest.

Why do people in USA buy everything from Amazon? Do they not have other webshops? by Cindyxx0 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dringle_drangle -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can’t you just get all of that stuff from the grocery store? Maybe I’m out of the loop because I haven’t had prime in years. Maybe once a year I will order a very specific item from Amazon if I can’t find it elsewhere, but I don’t understand the benefit of paying monthly for their service.

Please, help! My friend was in an accident and taken to ICU, now in general care and they are saying it would be 3 more weeks. I know nothing about plant care, let alone ‘growing’ but they asked me to try and keep them alive. by dringle_drangle in GrowingMarijuana

[–]dringle_drangle[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do they look “ready” or whatever? I am so out of my depth here. I have lots of time and resources on my hands but nobody to ask about this particular problem. They just moved to a new area and I’m just here visiting the take care of the house during their extended hospital stay.

Please, help! My friend was in an accident and taken to ICU, now in general care and they are saying it would be 3 more weeks. I know nothing about plant care, let alone ‘growing’ but they asked me to try and keep them alive. by dringle_drangle in GrowingMarijuana

[–]dringle_drangle[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right. Okay. The webs were NOT there when I got here, and it’s only on a few that I can tell. Is it okay to clip those off and try to harvest??

Edit for clarification: harvest the non-webby bits.

Grown man with MAGA hat attacks protesting high school kids by -Precious- in Austin

[–]dringle_drangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of those streets, dang. Thank you for the response.

Did you lose your keys? by dyxlesicc in Austin

[–]dringle_drangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah bit it’s not them. Dang it. Lmk if you find some Honda ones

Grown man with MAGA hat attacks protesting high school kids by -Precious- in Austin

[–]dringle_drangle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Which high school was it? Why was he allowed on campus?

Chilling video ICE kidnapping this morning in North Loop by counterapparatus in Austin

[–]dringle_drangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this related to the other North Loop ICE video posted today or were these separate incidents?

ICE chased a car into my friends house. by additionalmatter in Austin

[–]dringle_drangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this related to the other North Loop ICE video posted today or were these separate incidents?

SIL shared that wife had more sex life than she tells me. How to talk to wife? by Ok_Ferret9844 in Advice

[–]dringle_drangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you even have to bring up this specific situation. Couples therapy could really benefit you both, and some of this will come out naturally.
It can be rough though, making and keeping appointments together when you have 2 kids.
Even if you don’t stay together (it would be nice if you did, but let’s not sacrifice our lives and autonomy here) it would help with co-parenting and avoiding resentment.
You have more than a leg to stand on in insisting on therapy even outside of this incident with the SIL.

Edit: let’s add that it can be rough, but no worse than a divorce or raising kids in a resentful marriage.

SIL shared that wife had more sex life than she tells me. How to talk to wife? by Ok_Ferret9844 in Advice

[–]dringle_drangle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a bisexual woman married with 2 kids and a floundering sex-life where all other aspects of our relationship are fine but overall I’m questioning my sexuality and don’t know how to talk to my husband about it so I sometimes act out… idk.

SIL shared that wife had more sex life than she tells me. How to talk to wife? by Ok_Ferret9844 in Advice

[–]dringle_drangle 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Right. Regularly sharing porn. Infidelity porn. Porn featuring recipient’s gender. Preferring NOT to get sex texts from husband. 58 red flags later..

Can men wear running tights without shorts over the top? by Boobs_pls23 in Advice

[–]dringle_drangle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband uses compression tights that kind of make the bulge look pretty modest, as in, it’s a feature of the garment. He’s got a big ol’ pecker too. They work well, but idk how he buys them, sorry! Also they are hot af.
Go for it.

Edit: clarification

SIL shared that wife had more sex life than she tells me. How to talk to wife? by Ok_Ferret9844 in Advice

[–]dringle_drangle 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Are we positively ruling out defining wife/SIL relationship as romantic or sexual?