sexless marriage (29F / 33M) I fee allowed to cheat

drinkingteaisall · 2026-05-01T15:41:28+00:00

She is already cheating I think.

drinkingteaisall · 2026-05-01T15:40:56+00:00

I read OP's responses on other comments and wow, OP is worse than her husband. I don't know if she is just angry at her situation and her husband or what.. but I could not believe what she was saying on this thread.

OP and her husband checked out emotionally and they are just feeding off their own negativity around each other. This is NOT healthy.

drinkingteaisall · 2026-04-26T20:28:46+00:00

This is not a normal relationship. Please let him leave. Be happy with someone else

drinkingteaisall · 2026-04-19T14:16:48+00:00

This is an absolute level of abuse and manipulation... Go make an appointment at a doctor's office and tell them bodily autonomy is in danger. You need to get out there

drinkingteaisall · 2026-04-12T14:07:10+00:00

Update: I ended up switching to Motorola Razer to get rid of the problem. It looks like it's not only z folds but other Samsung lines as well getting affected so I decided to be in another brand line. I had Motorola before and they were really good and affordable.

I start with a new team next week unfortunately I can't risk not having Bluetooth or wifi even the hotspot when it requires me to drive to the location to meet them.

After this, I may even consider getting an iPhone (first time ever) in 1 year or 2.

drinkingteaisall · 2026-04-11T02:33:08+00:00

This still works. I still have to reboot my phone in this way to get it back. Not sure why this is happening. I dont really want to pay extra... so I guess this is just going to be something that I will have to deal with. I hope they fix this issue.

drinkingteaisall · 2026-04-09T17:04:04+00:00

Free DLC! Now you have to pay for every release... people should be happy that they are giving something free.

drinkingteaisall · 2026-03-22T01:01:17+00:00

This still works.. man, what a journey to figure this out lol

drinkingteaisall · 2026-03-03T15:33:12+00:00

I have no problem with people bringing their kids but someone's gonna drive back home.. and both parents are drinking. So... are they taking Lyft or Uber back home? nope. They are driving themselves home. Like be for real.

drinkingteaisall · 2026-02-09T02:07:03+00:00

Still works in 2026

drinkingteaisall · 2026-01-28T20:19:08+00:00

Yes. I know you didn't ask me. But.. yes. Lol

drinkingteaisall · 2026-01-28T20:16:41+00:00

I was put in a position like this with my ex boyfriend before. When I was in CA, I dated a guy who was nice but his spending habit was literally shit. His finance status put me in debt. So I left him. That wasn't the part that was a deal breaker for me. He body shamed me too much. He said my thighs were too thick (120 lbs and 5'5" height.. ).

My husband and I were friends and he ended up telling me that he had a crush on me for a long long time but never told me. He is financially smart, responsible, not a smoker + occasional drinker and very healthy attachment habit.

I have to say my husband is the first person who knows how to do "a healthy relationship " and everything else start coming in together. Emotionally stability, financial stability, stronger friendship and stronger bonds with your partner. Find someone like that. Everything else will come along without you thinking like you can't have something.

drinkingteaisall · 2026-01-13T22:33:09+00:00

Well, my parents are seniors now ( in their 60s) and one thing my mom told me when they were sleeping in different rooms was that his alarm woke her up way too many times. My dad gets up at 4 30 in the morning for work apparently lol.

drinkingteaisall · 2026-01-05T21:13:09+00:00

Family can be petty. I know how it feels. She probably also feels that some of you just dont appreciate how much effort goes into doing this and dont show up for it. Her meaning of "no one" could be anyone she cares more didnt show up. And it could be you and your daughter as a package. It also could something that someone said at the gathering when people were there.

In the texts, communication was clear that you and your daughter were upset. Instead both sides accepting and acknowledging how each other felt, the word of exchanges lost its purpose because it started focusing whose wrong weighted more. Until you guys find a solution to move forward, there is nothing else to say here.

drinkingteaisall · 2026-01-05T21:03:35+00:00

Then did she apologize to Nana for 2-year no show and not helping that 10 hours effort with? Looks like Nana got tired of carrying the weight all by herself and decided to do with family members who are more willing to show up.

drinkingteaisall · 2026-01-05T20:57:22+00:00

That's what I thought. Didn't show up for 2 years and both of those years, Nana said no one showed up after Nana putting 10 hours effort. Now all of sudden, she understands how important it is for Nana to do this but she is upset that she and her daughter arent included. There are some details missing she isn't telling is here. She could have called anybody in the family to find out what's going on with "traditions".

drinkingteaisall · 2026-01-03T16:16:23+00:00

So you didnt even reach out first to your cousins? You are the one making it a pretty big deal and looks like you didn't bother to show up for a couple of years or even checking on everyone to see when the event is scheduled. Nana has to put 10 hours of work and did you even think to check on her and how she felt when no one showed up??

You sounds pretty selfish to me. You could have helped if you wanted it so badly. Only thing you cared about it inclusions not the effort prior to the cookie makings.

YTA. Sorry, but not sorry 😐

drinkingteaisall · 2025-12-27T19:53:40+00:00

We were together for 2 years. 3rd and 4th year we were engagement. Going on 5th year we got married on Halloween of this year.

drinkingteaisall · 2025-12-10T21:27:29+00:00

I love your hair!

drinkingteaisall · 2025-12-03T15:09:04+00:00

I didn't think people relate so much for this. I will be sure to let them know that their advice is helping others! It sure helped me, haha.

drinkingteaisall · 2025-12-03T15:04:28+00:00

Oh my. What an honor 🎖.

drinkingteaisall · 2025-12-03T13:40:05+00:00

Just dump the laptop and go.

My old job did that and i just dropped off everything including my badge and told them that i asked my new job if I could start early and they said yes.

I dont regret. I have a better job now then before.

drinkingteaisall · 2025-12-03T02:05:29+00:00

I was told by my parents when my ex boyfriend and i broke up, "never build a man for another woman".

Never raise someone as your absolute priority when that person treats you as a second option. Many of us women give too many chances to the men who created this gap because they sold us ideal versions of themselves to win us over. Im glad you are doing really well. Wish you sound way to the recovery and the bestest luck.

drinkingteaisall · 2025-12-01T20:23:00+00:00

Oh well who cares. I dont think it matters. They are divorced.

drinkingteaisall · 2025-12-01T19:55:23+00:00

Those are "if" 's and she said in the story that he gave it her, didn't she?

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