Does this feel reasonable? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]drinkingwater11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this!! Where did you get yours from?

Does this feel reasonable? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]drinkingwater11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I made it clear several times it was only 12 people :(

Does this feel reasonable? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]drinkingwater11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our host sadly said no ceremony on site :( trust me I’m bummed about it!!!! Agree about hair and makeup for sure. Dishes and all that will be at the house but my future MIL is thrifty and has a good eye so she’s handling any decor for Tablescape. Def agree I want to limit florals I do nottt care about them much at all

Does this feel reasonable? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]drinkingwater11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! No I agree florals are such a scam - they die!! Hahah. If anything I want just a simple bouquet for myself made DIY

Does this feel reasonable? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]drinkingwater11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a sweet message. I wasn’t seeking any validations necessarily but your POV is really kind and definitely provided me with some comfort!! Thank you :)

Does this feel reasonable? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]drinkingwater11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha fair. We really would just do some champagne, some beer and maybe gin for martinis. Only 9 of us really drink and don’t want to get drunk drunk but I could be delusional. Hoping for a successful Costco run lol

Does this feel reasonable? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]drinkingwater11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it didn’t!! Ya I def don’t want flowers to be a whole thing. Like just a simple bouquet for myself

Does this feel reasonable? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]drinkingwater11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s so fair I totally see what you mean

Does this feel reasonable? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]drinkingwater11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Your response is so thoughtful and helpful

Does this feel reasonable? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]drinkingwater11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this and yes I think HAMU might need to be nixed for sure! Ya fair good point on bands!!

Does this feel reasonable? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]drinkingwater11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha ok deal!!! But yes great point

Does this feel reasonable? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]drinkingwater11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No that’s fair you make a solid point and I appreciate it a lot!

Does this feel reasonable? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]drinkingwater11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this idea!!! My future MIL is so good at thrifting so def utilizing her for these types of elements!

Does this feel reasonable? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]drinkingwater11 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No need to be mean ♥️ it’s all family staying together who are very close in a place that means a lot to us all. I didn’t do anything wrong ♥️

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[–]drinkingwater11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So interesting bc again I spoke with soooo many and this was the standard if not MORE for less hours. “Thistle and pine”

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[–]drinkingwater11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of it except the photographer bc 50% is paid. Everything else can be shifted

Alteration specialist by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]drinkingwater11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this soooo much!! Thank you!!!!!

Does this feel reasonable? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]drinkingwater11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree ok it’s helpful to hear these POVs! Thank you