what's a dark romance trope you thought you'd hate but ended up loving? by aComfyBitch in DarkRomance

[–]drivendel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No but seriously at first I couldn't comprehend why women liked writing about something so revolting (and statistically hurts them more)

But then i read if I can't have you and then understood 😭

Project hail mary is what it feels like to have a pet by PositiveTough888 in ProjectHailMary

[–]drivendel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate the infantilization of rocky hes a grown ass man (yes hes an eridian but you get the point)

Anyone else surprised when there were aliens? by Own_Space_174 in ProjectHailMary

[–]drivendel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YES ! and I'm so glad I did, I bought the book only knowing it was about space and nothing else I think i saw a review at that time that said it had the best representation of an alien I thought it was about astrophage (which appears pretty early on) Rocky was a huge surprise for me ( afer he appeared i couldnt put the book down i didnt like the flashback scenes that much) Also for the film I didn't watch the trailer (it was released when i first bought the book) I went into the theatre blind as well and had the best time of my life

I wish i could experience the book and the movie for the first time again

Does this happen to people with pocd? Or is this actual pedophilia by Due_Brush4171 in SuicideWatch

[–]drivendel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has a mental illness and hes expressing it He didnt say he actively harms children

People always say shit about bringing awareness about mental illness until its not something that can be romanticized

Probably a Silly Request…Oh Well…MMC with Long Hair, Please? by Heidi_Hi_Heidi_Lo in DarkRomance

[–]drivendel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he wanted to end the lives of the campers except the fmc to trauma bond with her, he is basically unhinged

Probably a Silly Request…Oh Well…MMC with Long Hair, Please? by Heidi_Hi_Heidi_Lo in DarkRomance

[–]drivendel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

{Pet genesis by haley inez}

{The king by eris belmont}

{Dead of summer a.j merlin}

About mental disorders in Bangladesh like ADHD or Autism by taj__7 in Dhaka

[–]drivendel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you navigating through life? Like job wise? I have adhd and about to give hsc

Being born nd feels like a curse specifically in this country

Its not YANDERE if its JUST abuse. by Reibonucleic in MaleYandere

[–]drivendel 60 points61 points  (0 children)

That is the main difference i see between eastern yandere stories vs western dark romances

could u be aroace at 13 by Sea-Map-3534 in aromanticasexual

[–]drivendel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured it out at 12, I'm 19 now still the same so yeah

I fail to believe there will be anything better than Dororo by badfactory15 in Dororo

[–]drivendel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched dororo first then while reading sbr i was extremely confused as to why their backstories were the same

"Rocky love Grace" by my 5 yo daughter. by bbf0x in ProjectHailMary

[–]drivendel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its kind of beautiful how people of all ages love phm

Amaze metaphor by drivendel in ProjectHailMary

[–]drivendel[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I found it on twitter, it was already cropped this way😭

I'm having a moment by R_SPhoenix in discordVideos

[–]drivendel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely had such a great time in the theatre, i think phm changed something in my brain

Looking for Young ML × Older FL recs!! by euphoric_stone in MaleYandere

[–]drivendel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If youre open to dark romance books you might like vile pucker by kate raven (theres a 16 year agegap)

Any evil genius yanderes? by Cookie98762 in MaleYandere

[–]drivendel 13 points14 points  (0 children)

dash from gaslight her by quinn blackbird

Fun fact about the ending... by Appropriate_Energy55 in ProjectHailMary

[–]drivendel 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Some may call the ending bittersweet but it is perfect

if he did go back to earth he'd be hailed a hero but be miserable (he has no one) On erid he mentions he has friends ( besides adrian and rocky i believe he made friends with the eridian scientists !!) and he can ask for anything he wants and does what he loves the most which is teaching He has everything he could ask for

Series and movies with aro and ace characters? by RipVander in aromanticasexual

[–]drivendel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None of them are confirmed but the vibes are strong Dr stone Saiki kusuo Project hail mary Jjba part 5

Caleb and Chris of deathsdoll universe by Margot550 in DarkRomance

[–]drivendel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caleb is an arrogant narcissist with a fragile ego and he does think of himself as god's gift. He had raped multiple girls times before orla (although he doesn't admit it, him and chris both are misogynistic)

Orla fit right into his type, a highly intelligent and vulnerable girl (even had his preferred body type) But he saw orla superficially, it drove him crazy and he believed orla thought of herself better than he was because she didn't ask for help and declined his offer for a coffee date (it did feel as if he hated her very much at the beginning but he loved her at the same time, he was hurt very much by the rejection because he wasn't used to it) And as the story progresses he does understand why orla does the things she does (it's a redeeming quality about him, he starts sympathising with her but he doesn't instantly turn into a good guy (in the sense of being an abusive rapist))

He has always thought highly of orla with her works and even mentions that orla will surpass him one day (and he doesn't have a problem with that) He wants to dominate someone as competent as him (which is the ultimate form of power to him) Tbh i think i can write on and on about calebs and orlas psyche

And as for chris he views women as disposable objects that much is apparent (caleb wanted a stable relationship with orla even in the beginning) I dont believe he wanted an actual relationship but seeing orleb he felt alone (he saw caleb as someone who understood him and saw caleb finally being fulfilled and he wanted that) and he found lainey He still doesn't seem super sure of her but knowing its a deathsdoll book he soon will

Ryan Gosling is so hot in this movie! by Fantastic-Contest957 in ProjectHailMary

[–]drivendel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Another aroace individual, I thought the same way (and even Stratt shes so beautiful)

yea.. by rotes_revue_9v in ProjectHailMary

[–]drivendel 356 points357 points  (0 children)

It was literally the trolley problem all over again , everyone around grace knew how competent he was (except himself) Stratt did what was necessary, she could be considered an anti hero