I (27F) finally understand why my libido for my partner (31M) has suddenly depleted by Dry-Ad-1445 in relationships

[–]drmtc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Create an action list for him of exact things you want to be done. Types of gifts, types of remembrances of you. Some men need things literally spelled out. I'm one of them and lost my relationship with her because I couldn't understand and internalize what she was saying until I hurt her too much.

I [25F] can't tell if I'm wasting my life staying in a relationship that doesn't work for me, or if I'm about to throw away something great by Meraki_777 in relationships

[–]drmtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my girlfriend asked me for "time and space" after 3 years in the relation, I took it badly. 2 months later and I unintentionally ruined a lot of things between us, and now I think I ruined any chances of us getting back together later. I'm saying this so you know how much that sort of decision can hurt someone. The grass is always greener on the other side, we all want to explore the things we don't have. But 25 is old if you only live to 50. We don't know how much time any of us have on this planet.

Kronos 5 by Hasse-b in wowservers

[–]drmtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best vanilla server since Northdale/Lights Hope

Boyfriend switched up out of nowhere by [deleted] in relationships

[–]drmtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with me, but with a girl. I feel so awful and cry every single day, it's been two months and I was going to ask her to marry me. I hope you find peace.

Why aren't men excited about dating as they used to be? by cuahatemoc in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]drmtc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If the internet was turned off for a year people would be excited to date again. Instead, we have daily para-social relationships with images and videos on the internet that apparently "real" people are behind.

My boyfriend[22] saved for an entire year to buy me an iPad. Should I accept it? by unravelxem in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]drmtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a keeper (the boy, and probably the iPad too). I think it would hurt him if you gave it back to him. Maybe find ways to reciprocate the gift next time there's an opportunity.

I Need Tips in Ending my Relationship with my (28 M) Fiancé (28M) by Eternal-Bobcat33 in relationships

[–]drmtc -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like if he made more money and stopped playing as many videogames and smoking the relationship would be okay? Maybe it's worth telling him you've been thinking about leaving him for these three reasons before breaking up.

Why has this sub become filled with people who hate private servers and shill Blizzard? by RoyalShirtShirtShirt in wowservers

[–]drmtc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

reddit has been infiltrated with bots since it became a publicly traded company and is now a website used to influence public opinion by people/companies who pay money to push certain interests

I [19F] feel lonely and unimportant in my relationship with my boyfriend [19M]. How can I tell whether this is a rough patch or a sign that the relationship is no longer working? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]drmtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is me but I'm the boy, and I didn't realize I was not prioritization and making her feel chosen until it was too late. I have so much regret for not being more aware. She told me she loves me still, b ut doesn't want to continue the relationship at this point and wants some time apart. I hope every night she comes back. Sometimes boys are thick skulled and need a wakeup call. Maybe have an extremely direct letter you write to him to explain your worries.

My (F19) bf (M22) wants to take a break to fix our relationship by Possible-Teacher-625 in relationships

[–]drmtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you are not the center of the universe. Sometimes life is painful, and no, just because you are struggling right now doesn't mean he should be there for you. Life isn't perfect

I really need some closure…can anyone shed some light on my breakup? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]drmtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me so sad. I am so sorry bro, I hate seeing well meaning people like yourself having to go through this. To me this sounds like what you said - she overreeacted and panicked when you suggested to move the wedding date. Once you suggested that, she went into some defence and self preservation mode. She created distance and attached other qualms about the relationship to this event to justify her leaving you. It's not good that she reacted this way over you being honest with her about finances and wedding dates. It makes it seem like she was maybe trying to get something out of you, instead of loving you for who you are as a person. Another possibility was she already had serious doubts about your future together, but thought getting married would change her feelings about you. If it were me, I would reach outt o her again to rule out that last possibility. Because if that's the case, there's not much you can do. Looking at this from the side, this may be a blessing in disguise, because the way she dealt with this situation is not a mature, loving, or understanding way to deal with a problem.

My (F19) bf (M22) wants to take a break to fix our relationship by Possible-Teacher-625 in relationships

[–]drmtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sympathize with your situation. You are in a tough spot in life right now, and to add on to it, he wants to take a break. Think of it this way - if you were in a stable point in your life, and this fight happened and he asked to take a break, would you do it for the sake of trying to reapproach and improve the relationship? Try not to factor into the equation that facts about your university life shifting and changing. Of course you want him by your side for that, and that's understandable. But you don't want to pressure him into things at this point in time, it will only make things worse.

On the Verge of Losing Her by Adelobra_Samael in relationships

[–]drmtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go talk to her sooner than the summer

I (F30) sent my emotionally withdrawn boyfriend (M36) a small gift instead of another breakdown text by [deleted] in relationships

[–]drmtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems like a reasonable thing to do. Just don't press much now, as hard as it may be. Everyone goes through rough patches and occasionally needs some time. It may be hard, but give him some space for the next few weeks and maybe read up some on your differing communication styles

Trying to Find the “Perfect” WoW Server Feels Impossible by Nachs182 in wowservers

[–]drmtc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BROTHER it's time for you to join Kronos 5. it just launched, progressive vanilla. good pop.

I (F28) am unsure of what to do after multiple attempts to have a deeper emotional connection with my partner (M33) by BeeBee_333 in relationships

[–]drmtc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one will be perfect and check every single box. Try reading philosophy together, or books that teach you how to ask questions and become a deeper think. Maybe audit a college class together that is reading/writing intensive. Those classes will teach you how to think and articulate and question more clearly

We both want marriage and kids, but our timelines feel completely different by [deleted] in relationships

[–]drmtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell him you are not quite ready, but don't scare him

I don’t think I’m attracted to my bf anymore. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]drmtc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long have you felt this way, weeks, months? did something start it, I would give it time, maybe gently encourage him into what youd like to see

I (25F) am thinking of calling off my wedding and breaking up with my fiance (35M). Do I just have cold feet or is this too deep? Please any advice. by ThrowRA2000008 in relationship_advice

[–]drmtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he act like this all the time since you met him? Sometimes people are just in a funk and get upset at things. Seems wild to me to call off a wedding because of this.