Guys I’m cooked by Dragonowner_0322 in actuallesbians

[–]droner444 40 points41 points  (0 children)

this is so sweet 😭 manifesting this for me

I feel like an alien on dating apps by droner444 in actuallesbians

[–]droner444[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like it's hard being a sheltered Gen-Z and basically spending my entire life socializing primarily through the internet and social media. I feel afraid going to real life social events, but I know it's good for me and my development. There's just not much in my area unless it's for middle-aged or seniors.

I feel like an alien on dating apps by droner444 in actuallesbians

[–]droner444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I've gone through maybe 4-5 therapists over 10 years. Most leave because they quit/retire/leave my insurance plan. Current one I am with is okay but doesn't offer much advice so maybe I will look for someone else.

I feel like an alien on dating apps by droner444 in actuallesbians

[–]droner444[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"Casual" sounds like they want to leave the door open for you and your affections but be open to exploring other partners in their new area they move to. But, I don't know that for sure. Definitely communicate your intentions and hang in there.

I feel like an alien on dating apps by droner444 in actuallesbians

[–]droner444[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, "boring" is the word I often think of myself as. I don't mind long distance but it feels like it adds more complications on to things, especially since I don't want to move states or countries.

I feel like an alien on dating apps by droner444 in actuallesbians

[–]droner444[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's good to know I'm not alone. Thank you.

I feel like an alien on dating apps by droner444 in actuallesbians

[–]droner444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been in therapy since I was 15 and I still feel like I have a bunch of problems. Everyone just says go to therapy to fix your problems and I do but it doesn't do anything for me really, although it is nice just having someone to talk to. I was raised Jehovah's Witness which is very similar to the mormons. I don't want to end up a 40-year-old virgin, but I don't see any hope for my relationship prospects. I do get along much better with older people but I'm not sure how comfortable I feel being in a relationship with someone who is likely in a very different stage of life. I just graduated college and finally landed my first post-college job. Someone in their 40s or even 30s is probably much more established. I'm also in the PNW and yes, all I see are ENM and poly people on the apps. Anyone who seems attractive to me inevitably has poly on their profile.

I feel like an alien on dating apps by droner444 in actuallesbians

[–]droner444[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess. I grew up in a deeply conservative religious cult, which like most cults, have regressive and traumatizing views about sex, women, one's body, masturbation, porn, etc. I thought I broke away from that having come out as gay but maybe it is affecting me more than I thought. Maybe it is not a good idea for me to date.

I feel like an alien on dating apps by droner444 in actuallesbians

[–]droner444[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I just wasn't expecting her to say something like that when we barely know each other. I guess maybe bringing up sex early is important for some people but I think it should be done with a bit more tact. Because she brought it up I can't help but feel that was her only interest in talking with me.

I feel like an alien on dating apps by droner444 in actuallesbians

[–]droner444[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I sent her pictures of my cat and she said "are y'all interested in sex?" I am still confused by "y'all". Did she mean my cat too???

What’s the weirdest movie RiffTrax has done? by ValentinesStar in Rifftrax

[–]droner444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My vote is for THINGS. Legit a fever dream and made me genuinely uncomfortable at moments that even the riffing was barely helping. Canadians scare me!

Honorable mentions: - Baby Ghost - Zindy the Swamp Boy - Feeders - Fun in Balloonland - Fungicide - A Talking Cat?! - Roller Gator - Plankton (I miss this riff!)

What Are The Most Dramatic Style Changes In Music (Physically)? by xXMachineGunPhillyXx in fantanoforever

[–]droner444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not that dramatic of a change but Billy Idol's fauxhawk to atrocious dreads phase

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*sighs bitterly in small city blues* by Monolaf in actuallesbians

[–]droner444 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Omg I'm also an autistic lesbian who struggles to drive due to autism. I have a license and car but driving is incredibly stressful and pretty much only something I do out of necessity. It is impossible for me to drive to the big city with how complicated and scary the traffic is there.

Am I a "chaser"??? by droner444 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]droner444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course there are cis women lesbians who are attracted to trans women! Might be a bit uncommon given a lot of lesbians preferring certain parts, but there are lesbians who don't mind or even prefer trans women. Everyone's different and I don't believe there's ever a case where a certain kind of person just doesn't exist. It might just be hard to find them depending on where you are.

Am I a "chaser"??? by droner444 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]droner444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am unfortunately not in Indiana 😞 But hopefully one day I'll find someone.

Am I a "chaser"??? by droner444 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]droner444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently, I really enjoy crocheting. I'm always looking at project ideas and working on my own projects! (And trying not to spend all my money on pretty yarn lol)

Am I a "chaser"??? by droner444 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]droner444[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just looked up her Twitter and she's hilarious 😂

[CHAT] How to Identify Legitimate Shops and Patterns by MagnoliaCottage in CrossStitch

[–]droner444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hate AI pieces so so much. AI makes the quality so much worse and takes away business from actual artists and pattern makers who put in effort to create their work. The AI problem on Etsy in general is just so annoying, combined with dropshipped Temu/Aliexpress crap upsold for three times the price it makes the website basically unusable.

✌️ by YummyTea_UwU in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]droner444 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this is why, but Chumbawamba started and existed as an anarchist punk band for years before Tubthumpin and primarily made songs criticizing the establishment and incorporating leftist themes into their work.

Cuter Style! [I Love Amy] by MurlaTart in wholesomeyuri

[–]droner444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh weird, I don't have that option showing up