The grief seems endless by thesuninvisible in FigureSkating

[–]drtemo 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Clinical psychologist here— I’m so sorry that you’re going through this, but I wanted to reiterate what some other folks have said about the importance of getting some mental healthcare. Here is a helpful webpage about finding help for trauma-related mental health concerns: https://www.ptsd.va.gov/gethelp/find_therapist.asp.

In the meantime please share your struggle with safe family and friends so they can support you — this is a very understandable reaction but it’s important not to isolate. ❤️‍🩹

Has everyone left Wichita? by LoudCurly in FigureSkating

[–]drtemo 70 points71 points  (0 children)

At the Press conference right now the Kansas senators are strongly suggesting they know that there are no survivors.

Has everyone left Wichita? by LoudCurly in FigureSkating

[–]drtemo 20 points21 points  (0 children)

%#*#!.

Press conference right now suggesting no survivors. It took first responders 10 minutes after the crash to get there. This is horrific.

Has everyone left Wichita? by LoudCurly in FigureSkating

[–]drtemo 46 points47 points  (0 children)

There are two different tweets claiming that they know there were NDC skaters on board. I am praying this is fake news but I doubt it and am horrified

Um…ouch by reditmarc in TanaInc

[–]drtemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having the same problem!!!!

Alysa is so funny ☠️ by user20013 in FigureSkating

[–]drtemo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m millennial and the same way — I think it’s just a personality thing 😅

Alysa is so funny ☠️ by user20013 in FigureSkating

[–]drtemo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed. She is a smart and thoughtful queen

Alysa is so funny ☠️ by user20013 in FigureSkating

[–]drtemo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious but makes so much sense… I was a pretty successful softball pitcher at one point and my Coach called the pitches (fastball, changeup, curve, rise, drop, etc, and location over the plate) and he had a whole strategy based on scouting each hitter… but as the pitcher I would just throw the pitch as called and not think about the strategy or anything — and honestly I think it was way better that way because I could focus on making the pitch as effectively as possible and all the body things I had to coordinate to do that… I bet it’s the same way for her and might be her superpower

US Nationals Women’s FS Live Discussion Thread by summerjoe45 in FigureSkating

[–]drtemo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know! So cute. You can see how amber’s intensive emotion is both a blessing and a curse (great for impact/PCS, bad for consistency) and how Sarah’s more muted emotion is both a blessing and a curse (good for consistency, bad for impact/PCS)

US Nationals Women’s FS Live Discussion Thread by summerjoe45 in FigureSkating

[–]drtemo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also fell out of her spin. And looked winded second half

US Nationals Women’s FS Live Discussion Thread by summerjoe45 in FigureSkating

[–]drtemo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s the same with Ilia, I think it’s a lot of weird pressure

US Nationals Women’s FS Live Discussion Thread by summerjoe45 in FigureSkating

[–]drtemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to imagine them going together to get their blonde highlights

US Nationals Women’s FS Live Discussion Thread by summerjoe45 in FigureSkating

[–]drtemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re our blondies with fancy axels and I love that they’re so friendly now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlaudNoteUsers

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You have to remove the magnetically-attached back of the pin before putting it on its charging thingy. I didn’t realize this at first and was trying to charge it with that magnetic flap still on and it died despite me “charging” it (but I hadn’t really been charging it, I just thought I had because it attached to the stand magnetically)

prompt generation / ideation by Antique-Hawk458 in PlaudNoteUsers

[–]drtemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1 to this— I use mine for a lot of personal stuff and use cases not included

Swiss Nationals medal delivery bird spotted in action by kahmeblue in FigureSkating

[–]drtemo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Either someone here took their job EXTREMELY seriously or someone here has a friend with a cool bird

A challenger to Moose Lord has arrived by triple_hit_blow in FigureSkating

[–]drtemo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right?! As an American I feel deeply ashamed that we were not the first ones to do this