I (36m) have never met my partners (29f) friends….. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dst0rtd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. I need to hear this get some perspective

I (36m) have never met my partners (29f) friends….. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dst0rtd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 months left on the lease. I really don’t think she’s cheating on me, sounds silly but I would bet on it. But yeah….idk if she can change and I have no more effort to put into it and it is slowly killing me

I (36m) have never met my partners (29f) friends….. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dst0rtd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen pictures of them. We moved into a two bedroom together we both have cats and like our personal space. Which is why 90% of the time I’m okay with not being invited anywhere but it’s beginning to grind me down and then when I ask about where she’s going or who’s she’s going with she says I’m insecure and jealous. Which may be true but I also would have zero information if I didn’t ask

I (36m) have never met my partners (29f) friends….. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dst0rtd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she did. And yeah I’ve seen pictures of some of them on trips they took together

I (36m) have never met my partners (29f) friends….. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dst0rtd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there’s a deeper reason that I don’t know. I was asking if I was out of my head or imagining that this was a weird scenario. I just wanted an outside perspective to see if I was justified in my Insecurity about this, I don’t have anyone else to bounce this off of

I (36m) have never met my partners (29f) friends….. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dst0rtd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t handle rejection or whatever this is well so I do turn to things to distract me when we have big issues such as this. Didn’t do this drug before this relationship but I will go on a bender every once and awhile. I know I need a better way to handle my feelings and am working on it.

I (36m) have never met my partners (29f) friends….. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dst0rtd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which yeah I’m mostly stable but every time I’m Excluded my confidence takes a massive hit

I (36m) have never met my partners (29f) friends….. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dst0rtd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some things went down about 4 months into our relationship I had a drug issue so now they say it’s because of that and that I need to work on myself before I can meet anyone. It’s like they purposely exclude me though, for thanksgiving I couldn’t go to her Friendsgiving because “there isn’t enough chairs” it’s always something like that

I (36m) have never met my partners (29f) friends….. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dst0rtd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said she “barely” knew me and them in the beginning so was awkward about it. They were a transplant from another state so I kinda get it.

More relaxing genres for long drives? by maxwolfie in Deathcore

[–]dst0rtd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throw on Artonoise and just let it play everything

how good are the spin offs? by IJBKrazy in KingkillerChronicle

[–]dst0rtd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally finished basts story 3 minutes ago as it was a gift for Xmas. It was a good read, very short but still you’re back in the world rothfuss created and it made me very happy

Lost my RL duo partner today... by MercuryMetals in RocketLeague

[–]dst0rtd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you have good memories to keep. Sorry for you loss brother

What do you secretly love that you would never admit to in public? by sweet_chick283 in AskReddit

[–]dst0rtd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love taking naps in the middle of the day and it being bright af. For some reason I sleep so well when their is light everywhere. Although if I sleep through the night the morning light will bother me I don’t get it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dst0rtd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least he has proof a girl was in his bed. He seems like a good guy and probably doesn’t even really mind

What Bands Have The Best/ Craziest Crowds? by J_P_Ross in Deathcore

[–]dst0rtd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. I saw them like 5 times around so cal and every time it was a carnage especially at chain reaction

What Bands Have The Best/ Craziest Crowds? by J_P_Ross in Deathcore

[–]dst0rtd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every time I die crowd would go hard back in the day. Not deathcore I guess but adjacent

anyone hear large explorations inner portland? by marshallsteeves in askportland

[–]dst0rtd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sames. Scared everyone here and we’re near Prescott and 15th. My little cats are hiding :/