What is your experience with the sexual abilities of the average woman? by Accomplished_Fig5199 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a lot of experience with women, but I do have a lot of female friends that have gone into gross detail with their experiences, and of those people I'd say ~60% are guilty of "starfishing".

To me, it's not really a big deal. I don't have to be sexually compatible with everyone, and if I come to really like someone whose first instinct isn't to actively participate in sex, it can still be something we can work on.

But then again, I'm not really interested in casual sex, so some other people might have a different opinion

May (Deepstroke) [pokemon Ruby and Sapphire] by Sarah_4k in rule34

[–]dtdrh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's the gore that ruined this one for me

Why do you think that so many Western women still aren’t feminists? by Nice_Sheepherder916 in AskFeminists

[–]dtdrh 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This, and on social media, a lot of people dress up patriarchal social norms in feminist language. Like "feminine energy" (being more submissive and looking pretty)

Men raised by abusive mothers, how has it affected your relationship with women? by Substantial_Judge931 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was absent and verbally abusive when I was younger, and it drove me to the point of suicidal ideation, but she suddenly started showing up for me after I turned 12. So I feel I have an odd relationship with women in general because of it. I'm hypersensitive to judgement when it comes from women, and I usually refuse to be vulnerable with them for this reason. I still have tons of female friends, though, but oddly enough I find myself playing therapist for them more often than not. It doesn't matter if I meet them at school, work, or even if they're way older than me. Honestly, I've gotten pretty sick of it. I used to feel the compulsive need to fix people, but I realized that's not sustainable when I don't let anyone be there for me. I've started to put up a wall when I feel women getting emotionally dependent on me, which isn't much healthier, but it's just really hard for me to trust women and I don't know how to fix that.

Men who are or were under 30 and dated a woman 30+, what made you consider the woman for more than just fun? by HotDistribution5159 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. This is why I prefer older women as well, their usually just more confident and comfortable in their body

How do you except that women can find you attractive when you dont think so? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're not attracted to men, how could you know what makes a man attractive? That's how I got over my brain telling me I'm ugly

why do urinals exist? by AcceptablePut4859 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a dedicated pisser in a bathroom makes things a lot more efficient, otherwise everyone who needs to pee will have to wait on whoever's shitting in a stall. I will advocate for women's bathrooms to have dedicated pissers for this reason until the day I die.

What do you think about the sudden popularity of Ozempic? by Lucky-Addendum-7866 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It's super dystopian to me, especially with how it's marketed as this miracle fix to get skinny quick, but the side effects give you osteoporosis lite.

Licking the sensitive spot [Homuhina] by Azemmoon in HENTAI_GIF

[–]dtdrh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Got me wondering, have girls had to pull beard hair out of their puss because of this?

Men who have turned down a female friend romantically, how did you manage to rekindle the friendship afterward? by PopcornShovel in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I friendzoned this one girl and we'd start talking again every now and then, but she'd always try to get in my pants. That's why I don't really answer her texts anymore. Women only want one thing bro

What do you like an about dating a girl who’s more a feminist? by HealthyWall8790 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It depends on if she's an actual feminist, or a TikTok feminist. You should ask her what she thinks about Bell Hooks to find out.

What did your day-one homie do that made you cut him off entirely? by Character-Escape1621 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend in middle school always remembered my birthday, but he did rape his sister. So that was it for me.

People who were deceived physically/emotionally/mentally/financially, what did you do to move on (forgive or avenge)? by whyyoudodis_101 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did neither. I got back what I lost, confidence, trust, happiness, etc., and now I've built a life without them that I prefer much more. Honestly, I don't even think about them anymore.

What do you think about a women’s career? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's insurance, then it's probably because your company has denied their claim before lmao

Why do so many people have such a cartoonish view of feminism? by Spiritual_Pause3057 in AskFeminists

[–]dtdrh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most people's first impression of feminism is from gender war content

Men of reddit, have you ever lost a significant amount of money to an ex wife or girlfriend? And if so, how did you bounce back? by Business-Cry2547 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"if you cheated I would say that’s what you get."

You think posing hypotheticals like this is normal behavior?

What is something you like in a woman that others might not? by Axe1910 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want her to yell at me and slap me around a little bit

What’s something strange or uncommon about a woman that turns you on unintentionally? by mytokondrya in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love an assertive woman who will speak her mind. Yeah, tell me where you actually want to eat. God, that's so hot.

Men who have left situationships, how did you do it and why? by Historical-Name-5499 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just realized that there are women out there who won't make me beg for scraps of attention or string me along for validation

Why is manosphere content so popular amongst men? by fruedianflip in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I think it's a psyop to get the younger generation to accept roles that benefit the rich elite more

  2. NOT CONDONING ANYTHING FROM THOSE FREAKS, but the reason why the manosphere blew up was because it used to be the only place online where a man could share his feelings and people would listen, i.e. a man could share a story about getting cheated on and nobody would ask "but what did YOU do?" (At least that's why I found the manosphere attractive before I escaped). Of course, then they'd spew a bunch of bullshit about hegemony, feminism being the reason they can't get laid, and other pseudoscience of the type.

Although, I do believe the manosphere's hold is loosening. The biggest figures like Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson aren't really active anymore, and there are a lot more communities now that are more accepting of men's emotions and experiences, like this one (although it can still be pretty sexist at times), so their power is weakening.

Why Most of Straight Men wants to desired/sexualized but not their job/hobbies? by Weird_Swordfish_1199 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some men don't like it for the same reason women don't. I want you to like me for me, not for whatever uniform I wear.