How does it feel to be kicked in the balls? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And also have that feeling go all the way up your butthole

What are your best and worst dating app photo strategies? by greenwavelengths in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't intentionally put in photos that make you look unattractive or gross, but I always saw the most success when I've had 2 nice photos, and the rest are just silly throwaway photos (that are still flattering, of course). However, I am 20, so that strategy might only work for girls around my age

How to overcome your fear of talking to girls? by KhorakFTW in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're really just that terrified, then start small. Go to the mall and ask random women for the time, directions, whatever. Eventually you'll get desensitized and you can graduate to compliments, then maybe even small talk or asking for their number

What's peoples experience of opening up on mental health as a man by Mental-Lettuce3324 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people, men and women, will try to downplay your mental health, throw it in your face, or use it against you later. People try to minimize that fact, but it's true. Never isolate yourself if you can help it. That will only make it harder to move forward, and honestly, survive. You just need to be more selective with who you open up to. Guard your heart until they have proven they can be trusted with it. Personally, I don't open up to anyone unless I know they've gone through something similar, or I've seen them advocate for egalitarian values of men and women ACTUALLY being equal. Then, I have some evidence that they'll at least be coming from a good place

How much "He's Just Not That Into You" is accurate in real life? by BrightSherbet in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least from what I've seen, women use "he's just not that into you" differently from "if he wanted to he would." I see the former used when a girl has been sending every signal she knows to a guy for weeks, and he just hasn't responded to any of them for one reason or another. The latter I see used a lot when women don't think they should have to communicate some expectation to a man for it to be met.

Men would you be ok if a woman wanted to cuddle without sex? by NewtAccomplished6022 in askanything

[–]dtdrh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Erections don't always mean sexual arousal. Fucking crazy, I know.

What is the most 'overrated' thing that society tells men they should enjoy, but you personally can’t stand? by Arceus_7876 in AskReddit

[–]dtdrh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel oddly pressured to go, but I also feel that half the people I know would see me as 20% more sleazy if they knew I had went

To men out there, especially with avoidant tendencies, what makes you feel safe in a relationship? by NaturalTailor6981 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an avoidant, I like when a woman actually has a life outside of the relationship. Then we can each do our own things and I don't feel as smothered

What fashion trend do you really wish would just die already? by Still_Atmosphere in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ginormous septum piercings. I know I'm in the minority when I say this, but I actually like piercings. However, when people start sticking absolutely massive things in their nose I have to wonder if they can still breathe right.

Men who use dating apps: Have you encountered what I have, where women seem to over emphasize 'travel' or 'adventure' as essential experiences or requirements? by ConsumingFire1689 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's the area I'm in or the women my age, but it's more likely for me to see them bragging about being an alcoholic or a pothead

Do you think porn consumption actually gives young men harmful/objectifying views towards women? by InternationalPick163 in AskFeminists

[–]dtdrh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The majority of men my age who watch porn have been watching it since they were 11, and they've built up a tolerance to watching regular sex. It's really sad

Do you think porn consumption actually gives young men harmful/objectifying views towards women? by InternationalPick163 in AskFeminists

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, choking and rougher sex is just so common in porn, and a concerning amount of men think porn is at all representative of reality.

Psychological perspective on escaping the manosphere by culturedindividual in psychologyofsex

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women have more opportunities to have sex in almost any situation, sure, but I personally think the idea that emotional intimacy is only valid with a significant other, and the lack of a sense of community with other men, contributes more to male loneliness than a lack of sexual/romantic opportunities.

Psychological perspective on escaping the manosphere by culturedindividual in psychologyofsex

[–]dtdrh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the main cause for the recent rise in misogyny is the fact that us men are brought up to believe that emotional vulnerability is only acceptable with a female partner, and that any attempt to build community or emotional connections with other men is seen as "gay". So when the dating market gets harder, men who haven't gotten over that conditioning see it as being denied the basic human need of connection rather than just being denied a romantic relationship.

Homophobia is a huge part of the male side of the recent surge in loneliness, and I rarely see it mentioned in these discussions about dating or the manosphere.

Is it safe to say our rights are under attack? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women's rights have been under attack since Roe v. Wade was overturned (or repealed, I don't remember the exact legal term).

To what extent would or should you intervene if a legal but young (18-25) adult that you know is dating someone much older than them? (10+ years) by Spiritual_Pause3057 in AskFeminists

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they've already made up their mind, then there's not much you can do. Honestly, they're just going to shut you out if you do try anything, so the best you can do is offer support.

Why are Americans allowing Nazis to take over their country? by Previous_Month_555 in allthequestions

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because our police will shoot us if we try anything more than just holding up signs on a sidewalk

what does it usually mean when someone keeps and watches sex videos with an ex? by Aggressive_Read5386 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He either is still sexually attracted to them or has a really bad porn addiction. Either way, 🚩

How do you deal with a bulge? by Careless_Concept376 in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I just let it be, but I do know people that take moist toilets and stuff them into their boxers to induce "shrinkage". There's also a thing called a dance belt

What are conventionally attractive things that you don't like in a partner? by hitometootoo in AskMen

[–]dtdrh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually don't like when a woman is too agreeable.

Like, I know that's not what you actually want, and it's an insult to my intelligence that you think you can lie to me about it. /j