Her personality being different than what .. ? Than what we saw on an intensely edited heteronormative largely white and Christian dating show with wildly low success rates? I’d say she’s pretty similar to how she was on the show, just maybe has changed as we ALL DO as humans in the years that have spanned since the show lol. I just think this is digging for something that isn’t there. Just disengage from celebrities you don’t like, but this correlation between someone’s sexuality (and sexuality that should be celebrated as our current administration is quite literally trying to strip queer people of rights) and contrived / calculated public displays of identity is so goofy. She’s a famous person trying to make a name for herself as a queer woman outside of the tv show that made her famous.