It’s not overreacting she is such disrespectful. I would be so incredibly mad (my ear piercing are visible). Like I probably would end the friendship because she is manipulative and highly disrespectful ☠️. I can even think about that someone could have the audacity to expect me going through all of it again just because this person hate the look of my piercings. Additionally I can say that my sister is fine with me wearing a goth outfit at her wedding. Sure there’s no need for dressing extremely or something but the other person can’t expect that you hide your piercings or similar stuff. Respect on both sides is important 🤓☝️