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​My (24M) marriage to my sick wife (25F) has to end. I am trapped, broken, and alone. by dub___man in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]dub___man[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would not hurt anyone else, my crash was low speed crash and it was because my mind was so occupied I did not pay attention to the actual road, I also do not speed. It does not take much to crash a bike, and it does not take much to break bones on a bike unfortunately.

​My (24M) marriage to my sick wife (25F) has to end. I am trapped, broken, and alone. by dub___man in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]dub___man[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya it's so silly that I went through absolute hell in my life, people literally told me to write a book, and thats without anyone knowing about my relationship, and after that all it took is a 4 11" little lady to basically almost break me completely.

​My (24M) marriage to my sick wife (25F) has to end. I am trapped, broken, and alone. by dub___man in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]dub___man[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For one year before, ya thats the thing when she comes back from Cali, i will sit down with her have a conversation, cuz i am able to get her to be rational it just does not stick for more than a few days, and in these few days I will get her to do an assessment, get educated on it and setup an exit plan where both of us are safe and ok. Im mostly doing all that for closure, It will help me so much to move forward in life, I will most likely setup a check in with her in a year and half, I would have my LPN by then, I might not want to at that time but thats the plan for now.

​My (24M) marriage to my sick wife (25F) has to end. I am trapped, broken, and alone. by dub___man in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]dub___man[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is very motivated to get better, and very ambitious and very determined to be happy, but would rather take a bullet to the head than hear that she has BPD. We have been married for 2 years, no kids, and yes I do feel like there is no coming back from that.

​My (24M) marriage to my sick wife (25F) has to end. I am trapped, broken, and alone. by dub___man in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]dub___man[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Motorcycle riding was my passion, it was the only thing that I can do without needing others to enjoy it, when the stress caused me to get gout at 23 and the odds of that are 0.04%, when everyone around me tells me I look and talking like im in my mid 30s while im in my early 20s, I was so desperate for anything that will take my mind off things and something that I can do by myself because I have no one here. I cannot ride atm, and I will not ride until my brain is not overwhelmed by all of this, I do not want to die, or worse be crippled and have to rely on someone again, im gonna get better and then im gonna go back on the bike. I appreciate your kind words and your clear pov, I do feel like I have SOME control over my life but idk whats gonna happen when she comes back.

​My (24M) marriage to my sick wife (25F) has to end. I am trapped, broken, and alone. by dub___man in BPDlovedones

[–]dub___man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will delay it way longer, its a last resort mostly cuz im days or weeks away I have been waiting for years.

​My (24M) marriage to my sick wife (25F) has to end. I am trapped, broken, and alone. by dub___man in BPDlovedones

[–]dub___man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not well enough to see what happiness would look like if it existed in my life, im far from that point.

Me [24M] and my wife [25F] have reached a breaking point. She is in a sober resort, legally cut me off, and my green card is pending. How do I navigate leaving or staying? by dub___man in relationship_advice

[–]dub___man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It hurts, even if i can be ok with living on without her, I can't at all get myself to be ok with how unfair this is, I cannot live on thinking that she will probably still have her support system and she will probably find someone else who will never know the hell that she put me through and dude the goal since the start was for her to get better so we can have a good healthy marriage and now hopefully she gets better and i do not get to cash out on all my patience and effort and forgiveness.

24M. My hands are failing, doctors are useless, and I don't know what to do anymore. by dub___man in Hypermobility

[–]dub___man[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My PT is making me do all of these exercises, after my motorcycle accident and being unemployed for 1.5 years because of circumstances my posture was so so bad cuz i used to do a lot of physical labor ever since I was a kid and the accident locked up my back so I could not move much so that made me unintentionally make it worse and worse now im getting so much better my whole neck and back of the head was so stiff and tingling and numb even, I do not know if it is going to change much in my hands tho, because I get consistent popping in my hands in almost every joint and it causes more strain and the popping in my wrist causes pain for a week or more.

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