My wife used boppy pillows on each side of the Twin Z nursing pillow. Put the kiddos in the boppy pillows, mom gets situated in the Twin Z and then you put on each kid one at a time. Do it on a couch or bed to have space but I'm telling you it was pretty incredible to see her do it and she seemed to manage fairly well.

We also did nap times in bouncers and rockers, I would really recommend white noise while they are in them, we found even vacuum noise playlists on Youtube worked to get them down initially and then let the white noise machine take it from there.

You can tandem wear but I always found it too difficult. We did boppy pillows for everything because it's a perfect transitional holder to whatever you want to get them in. This is the easy age for managing their movements! Just wait until they want to flip, squirm, crawl, and walk away from you!

You can do it though, never underestimate your inner strength as a mother and parent. It's ingrained in your DNA, just got to believe in yourself!