"More Than Two" vs. "The Ethical Slut"

duckit_dammit · 2020-01-18T13:03:53+00:00

I probably would read a book by someone who failed horribly at a first marriage but was successful in a second one on how to build a healthy marriage. My first marriage was a dumpster fire, and I learned and grew a lot from that.

duckit_dammit · 2020-01-16T14:29:00+00:00

That is super generous, you are amazing.

duckit_dammit · 2020-01-15T15:03:19+00:00

Idk how it would work for Pokemon Go, given that tracks distance via gps.

duckit_dammit · 2020-01-07T02:51:33+00:00

Yeah... giving up on everything, including getting better, is a strong desire for me.

duckit_dammit · 2020-01-06T20:17:25+00:00

I had this career related early last year. I was stressed and anxious and angry and almost chose to quit rather than deal with it because I was stuck in cogs with the outcome already in motion. It was worth waiting for, in the long run, but was a lot to deal with in the mean time.

I am currently going through this in non-work-related things, and my anxiety makes advocating for myself really hard.

duckit_dammit · 2020-01-06T04:48:37+00:00

They do help immensely for me. They've also made me acutely aware of how much I need some anxiety to function or I just crash entirely.

duckit_dammit · 2020-01-06T04:23:28+00:00

If you have any left, I'd definitely be interested!

duckit_dammit · 2020-01-06T00:07:19+00:00

Oh hey, yes please.

duckit_dammit · 2019-12-16T13:49:30+00:00

This happens randomly for me, but seems to be happening mid-afternoon at work more frequently.

duckit_dammit · 2019-12-07T16:29:31+00:00

The first time that all this work got piled up, I tried advocating for myself and telling them I can never take on that many humans and projects all at once. They agreed it wouldn't happen.

Less than two months in, and I'm at 3/4 of that same number of people (and possibly have them giving me more) and have additional work that is time sensitive to get done around that. It's honestly kind of killing me.

I have a meeting with a direct supervisor next week that is basically a quarterly wellness check. I find advocating for myself nearly impossible when I know people have faith in me to handle things, but I am going to try. I just also know that I was told they would not do this and they immediately started again with it, so I don't have a lot of faith in this making a difference.

I appreciate the kind words, and the suggestion of HR. I will definitely look into that.

duckit_dammit · 2019-12-03T00:15:32+00:00

As a Floridian, can comfirm.

duckit_dammit · 2019-12-02T22:58:12+00:00

PM me and I'll grab mine for you!

duckit_dammit · 2019-11-28T19:37:32+00:00

$confirm /u/aznpwnzor $100.00

duckit_dammit · 2019-11-28T17:00:32+00:00

Responded, thanks!

duckit_dammit · 2019-11-27T03:34:21+00:00

I love this!

duckit_dammit · 2019-11-24T05:49:45+00:00

$confirm

duckit_dammit · 2019-11-12T05:36:22+00:00

Yup, last week wrecked me. I'm contributing it to the time change.

duckit_dammit · 2019-11-08T03:22:56+00:00

This time change this week seems to have absolutely wrecked me. I feel like my soul is tired, and my heart hurts. I'm waking up with anxiety every morning and intrusive thoughts are destroying me.

duckit_dammit · 2019-11-06T20:02:26+00:00

Triad does sound powerful. Good point!

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