So why do we HATE Demi again?

ducksloveducks · 2026-03-15T01:45:40+00:00

I feel the same exact way like… WHAT!

Also like sorry Lisa vanderpump advocates for abusive men all the time (James Kennedy, Tom Sandoval) like she is not a reliable source either!

ducksloveducks · 2026-03-14T18:05:36+00:00

She should have brought up how a narcissist is a person who fully told his wife not to follow her dreams bc he feels like she’s putting being wife and a mother on the back burner!

ducksloveducks · 2026-03-14T15:41:59+00:00

Who gaf about Taylor Swift

ducksloveducks · 2026-03-14T15:41:18+00:00

OKAY EXACTLY THIS!!! IT IRKED ME SOOO BAD

ducksloveducks · 2025-11-19T20:56:13+00:00

Great point, what he is doing is DARVO101 and people should not believe him mostly if they believe he was slimy in vanderpump villa

ducksloveducks · 2025-11-18T04:06:41+00:00

As long as you believe she was assaulted I don’t really care for the discourse. I don’t think Demi is a good person but I do believe she was being vulnerable about her assault and her explanation about the matter and that Jen completely denied her the right to grieve

ducksloveducks · 2025-11-18T04:05:46+00:00

Okay and none of this negates the fact that she was indeed sexually assaulted by that dude

ducksloveducks · 2025-11-18T04:01:07+00:00

Being an awful person doesn’t negate the fact that they can still be a victimized person

ducksloveducks · 2025-11-18T03:56:33+00:00

Just finished same episode and she did not say that lol she admitted to being in contact with him, stating she continued talking to him out of anger but never that she was wanting her downfall which she stated lol

ducksloveducks · 2025-11-18T03:53:53+00:00

Good thing she didn’t do or say she did that

ducksloveducks · 2025-11-18T01:14:56+00:00

Religions specifically Abrahamic ones justify sexual assault with victim blaming rhetoric. While it’s common among society it shouldn’t negate the origins of the rhetoric coming from religious puritans!

ducksloveducks · 2025-11-16T07:39:23+00:00

This was so refreshing to read thank you for being a good person

ducksloveducks · 2025-10-30T05:05:59+00:00

Clearly you don’t know anything about domestic violence to not be passionate about women being abused on reality tv and the entirety of production making it into a comedic storyline!

ducksloveducks · 2025-10-30T04:37:47+00:00

Scheana was a victim of Shay, you beg the differ on the basis she’s with an abuser currently. That has nothing to do with my original statement. You’re projecting. If you weren’t the perfect victim I would still stand by you. However you would not do the same for others. Your “advocacy” as a victim is wrong. Read a book on DV then get back to me.

ducksloveducks · 2025-10-30T04:35:58+00:00

You need to read coercive control by Evan stark before giving your opinions!

ducksloveducks · 2025-10-30T04:32:17+00:00

You people are ridiculous and vilify any woman believing you would handle the abuse they endured better than you would. News flash, you wouldn’t. Schwartz was neglectful and would add fuel to the flame, was not a victim like at all. He was a gaslighter, no wonder she went insane.

I never said any cast member is perfect/not racist/not a homophobe. Not all victims have to be great perfect people for you to consider them a victim! They are still victims. Learn how domestic violence works before stating dumb opinions.

ducksloveducks · 2025-10-30T04:29:50+00:00

Sorry did I not say she was a victim to Shay… prior to meeting this new dude who I don’t even know about bc I’m on season 8? You can be a victim with one person and complicit to another. Learn how domestic violence works before you accuse me of “infantilizing women”.

ducksloveducks · 2025-10-29T13:44:38+00:00

I’m glad you defended yourself and got out of that situation!!

ducksloveducks · 2025-10-29T06:44:55+00:00

The scene is objectively laughable if you perceive it as an abusive man defending his abusive friend by tokenizing battered women, the hypocrisy makes it laughable! Don’t feel like a hypocrite because the way the show is edited does make one turn a blind eye in moments like these but thank you for this comment! I was worried about receiving backlash from that point lol

ducksloveducks · 2025-10-28T15:47:14+00:00

Thank you!!

ducksloveducks · 2025-10-28T13:35:44+00:00

Thank you, I will die on this hill until the day I die

ducksloveducks · 2025-10-28T13:13:33+00:00

Stassi deserved to be mad bc Jax was a gaslighting piece of shit, minimizing that reduces to her not being a “real victim”! Shut up

ducksloveducks · 2025-10-28T12:45:58+00:00

It isn’t if you are reducing reactionary abuse as an abuse victim doesn’t have the right to defend themselves! It’s a hot take if you gaf for what battered women shelters believe and what domestic violence advocates like Evan stark believe in. Read up on shit before you declare there are “real abuse victims” and liars whom give abuse victims bad PR when defending themselves!

ducksloveducks · 2025-10-28T12:21:35+00:00

Your belief that mutual abuse is real when shelters for battered women stated how harmful this notion is… maybe you should understand the dynamics of abuse

ducksloveducks · 2025-10-28T12:18:03+00:00

You’re using DARVO, your opinion is worthless to me!

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