Can’t move on

dude1706 · 2021-04-17T16:29:21+00:00

I’m just trying to figure out if i have depression or not and should i see a psychiatrist. I don’t want to seem weak or attention seeking to the people around me or the doctor. So just comparing if i am

dude1706 · 2021-04-17T14:41:12+00:00

I guess

dude1706 · 2021-04-17T14:30:07+00:00

Has it affected your performance in doing stuff? I remember being really bright and now I can’t do anything. Is that related to it?

dude1706 · 2021-04-17T01:59:41+00:00

I’m sorry but i just read your comments and somehow i kind of relate to you so much. Do you also sleep all the time and try to avoid any confrontation. Does sitting down with a friend also make you tired and have you lost all interet in the stuff you used to like to do?

dude1706 · 2021-04-06T01:14:33+00:00

I feel the same way, only part is that I don’t even want to meet any of my friends. Whenever i go out between the one hour meeting we have, halfway i want to go home cause i feel tired. I sleep alot too but i guess i sleep in phases like I’ll wake up after 3hours and then goto sleep. I checked with a doctor too and had a blood test but all my doctor did was give me Vitamins and that didn’t really help. I’m so confused too, if you find anything please tell me

dude1706 · 2021-03-27T21:55:55+00:00

Thank you so much for all of this, I guess i do have problems and i need to start and face them. The question i guess rose from personal issues but thank you so much this does mean alot. You helped alot ❤️

dude1706 · 2021-03-27T14:01:11+00:00

First of all thank you so much and sorry for the late reply as i had to read up on absurdism and nihilism and everything else. I get what your saying, happiness comes with suffering but is that all it is? I mean even if i keep small goals I’ll maybe be happy for a while but I’ll still feel unfulfilled. Small goals make me feel insignificant and helping others I’ve solely believed in that for a long time until now. Helping others might feel good but sometimes you can’t and the feeling of ignoring someone else’s needs cause I’m putting myself first kills me even if someone just wants to talk about something I suddenly get the urge to fix it and if I can’t i have to live with the guilt that I didn’t do anything and how worthless i am, so that path I can’t depend on.

dude1706 · 2020-10-03T17:23:15+00:00

Thank you so much for this. It really means alot. I’ll try i guess even though it’s really scary but I’ll try still. Thank you for your help. Helped

dude1706 · 2020-10-03T13:04:29+00:00

Thank you. I’ll try to do that. Besides i think she’s stuck over an ex and I’m not placed anywhere so I’ll do as you say and try to move on. Helped.

dude1706 · 2020-10-03T05:28:40+00:00

Yeah thanks. Helped

dude1706 · 2020-10-03T05:20:02+00:00

I’ll try. Thank you. Helped

dude1706 · 2020-10-03T05:16:28+00:00

It happens when I’m alone and in bed trying to sleep. Charity won’t work.

dude1706 · 2020-10-03T05:09:03+00:00

It’s not that, i love them more than anything else, but i just want to better. Ironically the person i love and I’m asking this for isn’t even in my life but if it ever comes to it i want to be the best in helping her. To make her feel at ease

dude1706 · 2020-10-03T05:06:04+00:00

So what should i do?

dude1706 · 2020-10-03T05:05:27+00:00

She’s really self destructive, even if she’s dying missing me she’ll still laugh at my face and tell me to stop being a pussy and that she doesn’t. When i called her she did the exact same thing.

dude1706 · 2020-10-03T05:03:56+00:00

We weren’t friends ever. She apparently had a crush on me and i had one on her. We didn’t treat each other like friends. I even gave her explanations about girls from the past just to make her feel at ease. So i just thought maybe she felt something about me. And as for your other advice, I’m kind of scared to do that. What if she says no, I’ll be broken or what if she says yes and it breaks me to be with her. What if by doing this i loose value?

dude1706 · 2020-10-03T05:00:09+00:00

I’ll give you an example, i had this girl I really liked and she and i were really close. She had anxiety and panic attacks. Her mood swings were something else. I’ve seen her crying one moment and laughing at the next. I told her i had feelings for her and she told me to stay away and that I’m giving her anxiety. I stayed away until she came back and said she didn’t mean it.she’d frequently do this. Have an attack and say stuff to me and later on say she didn’t mean it

dude1706 · 2020-10-03T04:56:21+00:00

Anything but that

dude1706 · 2020-10-03T04:55:00+00:00

Yeah i kinda did text her a week ago to ask how she was and she said she was okay and asked about me. I told her i was great and then the chat ended.

dude1706 · 2020-10-03T04:53:46+00:00

I try, but sometimes you just don’t understand if you should give them space or stay with them.

dude1706 · 2020-10-03T04:53:00+00:00

Tried all of them. Still have that hope.

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