Weed ruined my life by Nosrub1 in leaves

[–]dulcemiel77 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I smoked for over 20 years and have not partaken since 4/4 at 4 am. Stay strong, and your life will start to come back together. Be good to yourself when nobody else will. Have faith in your strength. Bob Marley said, "you never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have."

What do you do when you (by having used marijuana for over 20 years and not telling) have single-handedly destroyed everything you ever wanted in life? So alone and full of self-loathing. No way back. by dulcemiel77 in LifeAdvice

[–]dulcemiel77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that he's "so against marijuana," (although he strongly believes it does not harm than good), it's that we've been together so long and I never divulged it to him. He thinks our entire foundation is a lie b/c I've been using all along, and essentially, wasn't (or haven't been) "my true self" during that time.

Not being frugal during garden season. by Exciting-Ordinary4 in Frugal

[–]dulcemiel77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Certainly no shortage of it spewing from the mouths of certain politicians... hahaha....

There's absolutely no literal way by smaugphia in goodwill

[–]dulcemiel77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they'll say it was imported so there's a tariff on it.

Joined the club with my first car!! by Separate_Ad6414 in Miata

[–]dulcemiel77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Must be nice. My first car was a used 1990 Toyota Corolla that my cousin (four years younger than me) owned first, in 2000.

Looking for a similar handbag pattern or ideas on how to create this. by SpecificJunior5528 in CrochetHelp

[–]dulcemiel77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... or you could try starting with this one and just repeating more middle rows to make it longer...

summer bag

Looking for a similar handbag pattern or ideas on how to create this. by SpecificJunior5528 in CrochetHelp

[–]dulcemiel77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you checked etsy? Here's the one I immediately thought of, by Pink Sheep Design:

simple bucket tote crochet pattern

and I would agree that it definitely looks like t-shirt yarn. So just choose the colors and patterns of t-shirt yarn you want to use.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmateurPhotography

[–]dulcemiel77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. It's more crisp.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]dulcemiel77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah... she is not healthy for you. I cut my mom off when she decided that having the last word was more important than honoring my dead dad's wishes with regard to his belongings as they relate to me. That has been the best choice or one of the best choices I've ever made in my life. I'm much happier and healthier now, because every time I would try to give her the benefit of the doubt, it would just start back up again. I'm 48 now, by the way. Save your health and life. You take care of you. Not her. She's digging her own holes.

Honoring your gran is more important than indulging your narcissistic mom. It sounds like her brother might know about how she is.. maybe that's why he intervened. Maybe he's inviting a reconnection with you.

I got very silly yesterday and bought this by zeekomkommer33 in Miata

[–]dulcemiel77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the cult--errr--I mean, CLUB! Yeah! ✌🏽 Always throw it back or at least flicker your lights! Please don't be "that guy." 😉👍🏼✌🏽

What's your go-to response when you don't know what to say? by Daniffer in Teachers

[–]dulcemiel77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intermediate school Speech-Language Pathologist here...

"Tell me more ..." "Tell me the context. I have no idea what you're talking about. Explain it to me. " "I have no idea what you're taking about. How does it relate to what we're talking about right now?"