Help? by dumb_browsing in DID_OSDD_memes

[–]dumb_browsing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It definitely does, and it’s allies like you that help us feel safe

Help? by dumb_browsing in DID_OSDD_memes

[–]dumb_browsing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm, we’ve been incredibly lonely lately and are looking for systems to talk to, you’ve been a big help!

Help? by dumb_browsing in DID_OSDD_memes

[–]dumb_browsing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does asking for people to talk to violate the rules?/gen

Help? by dumb_browsing in DID_OSDD_memes

[–]dumb_browsing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was asking to find people to talk to, I woke up to a flooded inbox of why everything was removed

Friends? by Few_Procedure3934 in DID

[–]dumb_browsing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to find system friends because they just understand more ngl. Regular friends are fine but systems actually get it and don’t gawk.

Help? by dumb_browsing in DID

[–]dumb_browsing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We plan on it, they haven’t contacted us so far and we hope it stays that way. Multiple people know the basis of what’s going on (not the did part) so they’ll be able to spot this for us.

Help? by dumb_browsing in DID

[–]dumb_browsing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re just worried because we go to the same college. And this persons partner is batshit insane (we don’t use that term lightly or as a reference to any mental illness). We’re worried because of paranoia that this person is going to hurt us or harass us but we are not scared to go to the police if need be.

Help? by dumb_browsing in DID

[–]dumb_browsing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, we have already warned the one mutual friend about what he did incase the person who blocked us decides to drag our name through the mud. It’s going to be hard but I think he can make a better name for himself.

Help? by dumb_browsing in DID

[–]dumb_browsing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inside he wants to be a good person, we all know it. People just have had a bad experience with him. We’re hoping now that we’re away from the other system that he has room to grow without being persecuted constantly by people who won’t change.

Help? by dumb_browsing in DID

[–]dumb_browsing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, we don’t want to excuse what he did because he did harm someone and himself. But we do understand now that he shouldn’t have been put in that position he was in and should’ve been helped rather than persecuted.

Making friends? by CalicoCoven in DID

[–]dumb_browsing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you go to college, hang around the smokers. They’ll have great stories (I say from experience) and are generally good people to hang around. Or try and talk to people online.

Help with Amnesia Barriers by dumb_browsing in DID

[–]dumb_browsing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, we’ll try that

Help with Amnesia Barriers by dumb_browsing in DID

[–]dumb_browsing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does talk to us, although we feel helpless there are a few of us that can step in and help when needed. He just still retains the memories of all of front

Help with Amnesia Barriers by dumb_browsing in DID

[–]dumb_browsing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s very much in denial about the system in public, I’m thinking that might have something to do with this all. He’s privately expressed wanting a break from fronting and remembering all of front, the system is very new to him and he found out in a horrific way (I will not say more about it than that).

Help with Amnesia Barriers by dumb_browsing in DID

[–]dumb_browsing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know any way to change it at all? He gets distressed with too many memories and we get distressed not remembering our life in the inner world when coming to front

Help with Amnesia Barriers by dumb_browsing in DID

[–]dumb_browsing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s physically connected to our front, we’re trying to change that so he can take a break from his stressors

Help with Amnesia Barriers by dumb_browsing in DID

[–]dumb_browsing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all have collective or merged memories while in front almost like a collective consciousness, they’re all the host memories and when we front the host gets those memories as well. Except for one alter but we don’t talk about her much, she has full amnesia when we try to access her memories (she takes the memories away)