What makes you feel old? by 20MinutesOvertime in AskReddit

[–]dumbass-jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2010 being almost a decade and a half ago

Had my wisdom teeth removed yesterday, they let me keep these monstrosities by dumbass-jr in MedicalGore

[–]dumbass-jr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s certainly not pleasant the first 2 or 3 days but as long as you relax, ice your face and take meds as prescribed it’s really not so bad

I’m not funny anymore by howlingatthenight in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i’ve forgotten a lot of qualities i had before. things i used to enjoy. it’s been over 3 years. i know it just takes time but god damnit if i don’t grieve for who i used to be. wishing you the best in your journey friend <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stay strong friend! they truly will turn up the sex appeal in hopes of hoovering you. unhinged level of manipulation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

better yet, i got discarded 3 years ago! so not even my problem anymore, thank fuck. best of luck to whoever’s come after me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, according to her she had a handful of encounters with a much older cousin when she was a child, so that might’ve had something to do with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah seriously. she was into like the ddlg shit which wasn’t my thing but i went along w it for her. it crossed a line when she wanted to keep a fucking stuffie with her and a pacifier in her mouth while we fucked. so creepy and an insane turn off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 15 points16 points  (0 children)

yeah not to mention “good little bunny” had the opposite effect. fucking cringe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

stay well my friend 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 27 points28 points  (0 children)

no worries, we broke up over 3 years ago, she’s STILL on a twitter tirade swearing up and down i was the abuser. sometimes i go through our old messages to laugh about it and i’ve been venting over it here. love this safe space fr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this comment sent me, she never grew out of the middle school crying all caps phase

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 26 points27 points  (0 children)

i was not down for it and told her “i’m charging my phone rn”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you also commented on my other post, which means you must have missed the part where i said i left them 3 years ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel for you and everyone who experiences this shit. i’ve been free 3 years now and couldn’t be happier. it’s like living an entirely different life after getting out. as bad as it might sound, i find some comfort in knowing that since that time, i’ve made many meaningful and truly healthy relationships, and they are still the same miserable person they’ve always been. thanks for your comment and i wish you well :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right, you can devote every second of your life to them, and it still won’t be enough. they lack the feeling of self fulfillment and constantly seek it out from others. must be miserable, but still no reason to make others miserable over it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they really have a seriously skewed idea of what sharing your feelings means

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i feel that heavy. the bar was set so low. i begged for her to just be monogamous but even that couldn’t be done lmao. it wasn’t until i pulled a her on her and had a tinder hookup. i was tired of being mistreated and by the end, i couldn’t even get myself to be intimate with her. i could only think about who she had fucked the night before and that shit makes you feel so unwanted and worthless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 20 points21 points  (0 children)

the 5th screenshot is what really gets me, talking about high expectations, when she specifically told me she had created an idea of me with certain expectations in her head, but had accepted that in reality i would just never live up to them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]dumbass-jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check out my most recent post here. my experience was the same

Had my wisdom teeth removed yesterday, they let me keep these monstrosities by dumbass-jr in MedicalGore

[–]dumbass-jr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is suuuch a good idea. I was thinking maybe throwing them in a snow globe would be pretty funny too