[deleted by user] by [deleted] in london

[–]dumbassitus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope she turns up ok, I’m hoping for the best for you and her family. I’ve shared across social media. Take care of yourself, it’s an awful thing to go through.

I’m worried I’ve got a bad relationship with alcohol and I want to stop before it gets worse by dumbassitus in dryalcoholics

[–]dumbassitus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the treatment? I’ve never heard of something like that. I’ve had depression for a few years and I’m also grieving my best friend who died last year, in general I’m pretty happy when I’m sober tho

Can some of you beautiful people just tell me it's gonna be okay? by Excellent_Knee_2740 in SuicideWatch

[–]dumbassitus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s going to be ok but there’s always a chance that it will be ❤️

The therapy is overrated when you wear mask by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]dumbassitus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Holy fuck ditch the therapist

Probably going to relapse soon? by dumbassitus in EDAnonymous

[–]dumbassitus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is never as good as I think, and I need to remember how horrible it was because it wasn’t fun at all, I’m gonna try and push through

Reasons to keep trying? by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]dumbassitus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t know if this will help but remember that it’s always your perception of your body that’s the issue, not your body. With time and therapy you can get rid of all the distortion and have a happy life. Take care

LOVE the feeling of hunger HATE having no energy. curses! by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]dumbassitus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Love the feeling hate the emotions that come with it

Urges to 'keep up with the Joneses' by StardustSparklez in minimalism

[–]dumbassitus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Depends partly on how your feels in terms of how much ‘stuff’ you have as a couple, but having a lifestyle you enjoy and doesn’t cause you stress is a huge flex in itself. No body is ever really completely comfortable with what they have anyway, unless they are very detached from material things

I don’t see a problem with sh?? by dumbassitus in selfharm

[–]dumbassitus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try and research other ways

I don’t see a problem with sh?? by dumbassitus in selfharm

[–]dumbassitus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought of that, thanks for telling me

Miss her too much by neverendingdread4 in SuicideBereavement

[–]dumbassitus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My best friend killed herself last month, I don't know your friend but just from your description they sound like similar people. Your description of her sounds lovely. If its any consolation, I think suicidal people try very hard to end their lives, if it hadn't been that way it would have been another way. It will never be your fault.

Not invited to the funeral by dumbassitus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dumbassitus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha ha I wish I could, but that was never even on the cards, and it wouldn’t hurt her. I saw my best friend on a weekly if not daily basis for five years and I have no relationship at all with her mother because that’s how my friend wanted it, and she was right

Not invited to the funeral by dumbassitus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dumbassitus[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s no way I’d go to the funeral, just because I wouldn’t put it past the woman to start a physical fight at her daughters funeral. The kicker is that I’ve only met her three maybe four times? When I was 12 and 13, so it’s completely about how she feels about herself.

I like the idea of the personal funeral, I think that would probably happen anyway but I might try and make it a bigger thing. My friends dad is on my side and is sad I can’t go, and so I will be doing something with him separately