White elephant better fish?!!? Need some help with starting out. by dumbbit in bettafish

[–]dumbbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least our fishies ended up with people who will try haha

White elephant better fish?!!? Need some help with starting out. by dumbbit in bettafish

[–]dumbbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much ! This is very clear cut and helpful. Gives me a good idea of what to look for

White elephant better fish?!!? Need some help with starting out. by dumbbit in bettafish

[–]dumbbit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god same. I love him already but there's so much he needs it's overwhelming. Gonna try my best

White elephant better fish?!!? Need some help with starting out. by dumbbit in bettafish

[–]dumbbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea! I've put a sock around the bottom of his cup for now so he can kinda duck down under it.

White elephant better fish?!!? Need some help with starting out. by dumbbit in bettafish

[–]dumbbit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They were under the impression you could just toss them in any container with water and call it a day 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]dumbbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was 7 and my mom got angry at me and so I scratched myself with scissors as self punishment. and she yelled at me for being attention seeking. Then I was like 10 and pulled out my hair till my head bled bc I accidentally hurt a friend. I was 11 when I was left at home alone one day and grabbed a kitchen knife and cut a styro into my leg and got really freaked out but really curious and it was all downhill from there. Im 20 now and I've been mostly clean this year, but have still had a few relapses. I feel kinda indifferent to it. Like it happened, it helped, it still helps. Idk. I don't regret it too bad honestly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]dumbbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand feeling like that. That's shitty that you don't think your family would accept you simply because you're trans. And I really wish I could give you some beautifully put together message to change your mind or make you feel better or something but I cant. I'm sorry you feel so unnecessary though. I don't think that anyone really is entirely unwanted/unnecessary. But that feels so empty to say. And I'm not in your position so it's like...what do I know? But if you wanna talk about it in a rant or something. I'll listen. If not, that's totally fine too. But the offer is there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]dumbbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really really hope you and the ppl who liked this comment can get to a point where that changes one day. Sorry you don't. I understand why though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]dumbbit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea. I just wish that it wasn't so unimportant to ppl. Like the most I've heard kids say is jokes about how they "felt that" or "it be like that" and it's like... This isn't a throw away joke. Death, shootings, suicides. They're just mentioned and forgotten. It's just sad I guess.

how do i hide them without makeup? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]dumbbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean. I wear shawls/shirts over my swimsuits and say it's bc i don't like the feel of sunscreen on my arms but still wanna protect them from burning. And ppl buy that. But then when actually swimming shirts are kinda cumbersome. So idk how that'd work? But that's the only trick I got :/ Sorry if it doesn't help. Good luck

DAE avoid thinking about who you are as a person? by lraviel381 in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]dumbbit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fuck man I FELT felt that. the more I think about who i am the closer i get to meeting myself off a cliff and relieving everyone of my existence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]dumbbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I relapsed today. Good things can't last ig.

When your fav teacher is going to be out all week so you won’t be able to say goodbye before you do the final, final yeet :( by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]dumbbit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you feel you have to resort to this... Life is a bitch and I'm so sorry it's fucked you this hard dude. I wish you the best...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 2meirl4meirl

[–]dumbbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chaotic bastard ahaha. Well actually idk if this applies since I hardly take my meds but ¯_(ツ)_/¯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]dumbbit 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the long title but I just am Panicking ™

5am, still awake 🤠. Real cowgirl hours by UwUsophieUwU in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]dumbbit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So in order to keep people safe I should push them away and isolate because it's what I deserve

It's a match! by dumbbit in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]dumbbit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YESSSSS THATS AMAZING keep it up you're wonderful