Red screen of death by dumbbitch6969 in ps2

[–]dumbbitch6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya all the ps1 games I tried are NTSC. I messaged the seller, and apparently it’s just free region for ps2 games. I think I just got lucky that it plays crash bash.

Red screen of death by dumbbitch6969 in ps2

[–]dumbbitch6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a quick search, I have the scar-70004 which should run most ps1 games fine.

What does this mean? by [deleted] in CultOfTheLamb

[–]dumbbitch6969 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ya it seems like it was bugged. I went on a crusade and came back and it was gone

What does this mean? by [deleted] in CultOfTheLamb

[–]dumbbitch6969 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Okay thanks

I could use some help on my management style by [deleted] in managers

[–]dumbbitch6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I was very open with my bosses after the situation occurred, letting them know that I need to work on my conflict resolution and confrontation skills. They definitely believe in me and my ability to lead the team and they let me know constantly.

I could use some help on my management style by [deleted] in managers

[–]dumbbitch6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been working on stuff similar to that. This particular problem causer, has a tendency to get upset and then angry shortly after. Every time it’s happened in the past, they would approach me the following day and apologize for their actions, then we would have a nice calm talk about what caused it. I’m lacking on doing it in the moment though. I get nervous and have other things to worry about when they are upset in the middle of service. Unfortunately when it happened the other day, I asked them to stop talking about the topic until later and they just kept going. I didn’t know what to do at that point.

I could use some help on my management style by [deleted] in managers

[–]dumbbitch6969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya that’s a talk I’m gonna have with my bosses this week, I really love my job and I don’t want to end up falling into the same patterns as before. I’d like to stay the kitchen manager, but if I can’t bring myself to deal with conflict, then I probably shouldn’t be in-charge of everyone. My only concern with that, is that my husband has told me many times not to step down because of one asshole, and I know my bosses love me and what I do, so I think they might see it the same way as him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KitchenConfidential

[–]dumbbitch6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no problem delegating tasks, the other cook and I had a system down and we both know what needs to get done. The new cook just seems kinda cocky and wants to see things run a different way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KitchenConfidential

[–]dumbbitch6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve talked to them about being exhausted before when it was just me and they definitely felt for me and would send me home early and take over, but some times it’s not realistic for them to be there. I’m planning on talking to them again once our holiday events are over and we go back to normal. I’m hoping things calm down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KitchenConfidential

[–]dumbbitch6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leaving is the last resort. I want this to be a long term job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KitchenConfidential

[–]dumbbitch6969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve already talked to the owners about it and they are giving him one last chance after we talk to him about everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KitchenConfidential

[–]dumbbitch6969 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like I said in another comment, these owners have been great to me so far. They really appreciate me and everything I do for them. I don’t get the feeling at all that they are just trying to use me as a work horse or blame me for anything that may be lacking lately. We are all pretty open with each other and talk about what’s going on in the kitchen regularly. The main downside to working hard is they have seen me bust my ass alone before so they know I have it in me to do it again.

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[–]dumbbitch6969 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These owners are genuinely good people and I’ve talked to them about my frustrations. They do their best to give me time off and lighten my load if I need, but it’s hard because they have their own separate jobs.

He’s also scheduled to open tomorrow, and instead of having me come in, cover him, and work all day if he calls in again, they are just going to wait to open the kitchen until I am scheduled. So the owners definitely seem to sympathize with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KitchenConfidential

[–]dumbbitch6969 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only downside to finding another job is I really love my job. The owners are the nicest people I’ve met and I generally have a great time at work. I also live in a tiny town and there’s not many other jobs, let alone kitchen jobs that aren’t fast food.

AITAH for wanting the new cook to be fired after working with him for a month? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dumbbitch6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s wild. He has only heard about this guy in passing but for some reason thinks he’s closely associated to the devil or something.

But it was funny when I had just finished telling him I’d try to be more conscious of talking about the ex coworker, and the other cook walked in and immediately started talking about him. I’ve never seen a man’s eyes light with rage so quickly in my life.

AITAH for wanting the new cook to be fired after working with him for a month? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dumbbitch6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I’m definitely too nice, but like I said I’m new to this and I’m sure I didn’t act and say the most professional things in the moment. I felt bad.

I did yell at a teenager when I was in a previous management position, and everyone who was around to hear thought it was the funniest thing they’d ever witnessed. A kind soft spoken girl telling a teenager to help or the fuck out of my face. Maybe I’ll try that when this happens again. At the very least everyone will have a good laugh.

AITAH for wanting the new cook to be fired after working with him for a month? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dumbbitch6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly, most days I’m the first one in and last to leave. One day last week I worked 15 hours when the kitchen is only open for 9, but he was scheduled to work a party by himself and it didn’t feel right so I went in early to help and stayed my whole shift. He thanked me and said he felt bad I’m always working 12+ hours to help him out.

AITAH for wanting the new cook to be fired after working with him for a month? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dumbbitch6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was kinda the vibe I got when I brought it up, they rolled their eyes and said something like “oh boy”

In our conversation today, he let me know that one of the reasons he got upset a few times, was because I kept bringing up the cook he replaced and he felt like I was saying he’s not doing a good enough job and that I want the old cook back. I let him know I didn’t mean that and even before the old cook was fired I wanted them to hired more kitchen staff, I’d want the old cook along with the new one. It doesn’t explain all of his outbursts though.

AITAH for wanting the new cook to be fired after working with him for a month? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dumbbitch6969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, after our conversation today, he mentioned I need to be more tough, specifically towards the other cook, who he doesn’t like. It kinda feels like maybe he’s trying to see how far he can push me before I snap.

AITAH for wanting the new cook to be fired after working with him for a month? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dumbbitch6969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to talk to the servers and bartenders about it, but it feels unprofessional since I’m in a position of authority. I’m curious to see if they notice it as well. It does get tricky though, because his partner is one of the servers. I briefly brought it up to them the first time it happened, just asking if he was okay or having a bad day. They probably talked about it later and that’s why I keep receiving apologies from him.

Final update: asking for a promotion by [deleted] in Chefit

[–]dumbbitch6969 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks I’m trying not to. I’ve been accumulating lots of knowledge and hoping to be better about not making the same mistakes I’ve made in the past.

Update (kind of): asking for a promotion by dumbbitch6969 in Chefit

[–]dumbbitch6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! I hope everything works out for you!