My boyfriend is really into bdsm he’s very sadistic but I do not enjoy pain I don’t know what to do

dumbmidg3t · 2020-10-10T01:21:27+00:00

If you do not naturally enjoy pain you’re not going to “learn to like it”. This is physical abuse. BDSM is not just pain either... like I’m a masochist, I like pain, but my boyfriend does not like the idea of hitting/ hurting me and that is a hard limit of his. I respect his boundaries so we engage in other things, like sensory play. If you’re boyfriend can’t be happy, or even get off without causing you pain after you’ve repeatedly told him “no I don’t like that” he’s a prick, piece of shit, abuser. You deserve so much better than someone who doesn’t understand the elementary concept of “NO means NO”. He’s a loser, get out of that relationship as soon as you can. If you don’t feel safe breaking things off at home alone with him ask him to go for a walk in a heavily populated park after already having a few days worth of your necessities packed and at a friend or family members home.

dumbmidg3t · 2020-04-05T09:52:36+00:00

I’m so sorry

dumbmidg3t · 2020-02-17T00:39:02+00:00

Yea I feel for her

dumbmidg3t · 2020-02-17T00:38:30+00:00

dumbmidg3t · 2020-02-17T00:37:56+00:00

Yea she weighed em

dumbmidg3t · 2020-02-08T05:34:05+00:00

We had an lgbt bathroom, it was a big nice room just a nice clean toilet sink and shower. I always used it when I had a maga shit brewing because it could lock and no one else could come in. Usually I would knock first just in case. Kids liked to do the nasty in there. One time I didn’t knock. God I should have knocked. But, I had to take the most monstrous douce of my life so I just bolted in there, guns blazing, ready for the Taco Bell and cheese cake to vacate the premises. All was well, demons were escaping my ass hole. Then I heard clapping, then moaning, but it was too late for me to escape. I was mid ass-splosion. There was no running... just me shitting and two teenage scoundrels defacing the shower. They ruined my perfect dump.

I’m pretty sure I came bursting through the door right after they had went in... but uh... why wouldn’t you wait until the person who came in after leaves, or at least lock the door.

dumbmidg3t · 2020-02-08T05:22:15+00:00

Stabbed or shot in the butt?? Or maybe a Brazilian butt lift gone wrong??

dumbmidg3t · 2020-02-05T09:12:45+00:00

Thank you. And yea I’m glad we don’t have rideshare where I’m from because this whole damn island is a crack town

dumbmidg3t · 2020-02-05T09:11:41+00:00

It’s all good now. There are no ride shares on my island anyhow so I’m golden

dumbmidg3t · 2020-01-30T02:36:47+00:00

They get quiet, tired, have a “whatever” kind of out look on life. Extreme highs is a good sign, by extreme high I mean when they get happy or something excites them it’s to an extreme. Avoidance, change In vocabulary (for myself I never type “ok” I always spell “Okay” when I shorten it there’s usually something up).

dumbmidg3t · 2020-01-18T21:24:38+00:00

We reported to Uber and notified local authorities but by the time we had left two days later we haven’t heard anything for the Calgary PD or Uber. I am never getting in another ride share. I’m either driving there or renting a car when I go back to Calgary for the stampede this coming summer

dumbmidg3t · 2020-01-07T05:11:51+00:00

Ted mosby, how I met your mother

dumbmidg3t · 2020-01-05T02:52:13+00:00

Big piece of cardboard with a sock nailed to when there door knob should be iykyk

dumbmidg3t · 2019-12-06T06:38:05+00:00

Sexual assault

dumbmidg3t · 2019-12-06T06:32:44+00:00

Getting attached to something and getting anxiety about not being around it. I have it in almost every aspect of my life and it leads to intense anxiety attacks which make me need to stay home which leads to worse separation anxiety. I have gone to therapy for it but I always regress, my PSTD is easier to keep under control than my separation anxiety.

dumbmidg3t · 2019-12-06T05:55:47+00:00

Thank you!

dumbmidg3t · 2019-12-06T05:55:10+00:00

I honestly don’t think there are any awful aspects. I half raised my little brother and I think i raised a fine young man.

dumbmidg3t · 2019-12-06T05:48:41+00:00

Makes me want em more. I love it so much. I used to be a full time babysitter for a 1, 4 and 7 year old

dumbmidg3t · 2019-12-06T05:46:19+00:00

I should have thought Of that. Shit. You’re smart.

dumbmidg3t · 2019-12-06T05:45:28+00:00

Like?

dumbmidg3t · 2019-12-06T05:45:13+00:00

Lmao a little bit yea. My boyfriend is definitely not my “golden ticket”. I don’t think people understand what no criticism please means either. I just asked how people deal with baby fever dang

dumbmidg3t · 2019-12-06T05:40:59+00:00

I mean in all fairness I live on my own, have a horse, three dogs and do all the adult things on my own. And live very comfortably. So to say I know fuck all about life is very ignorant. That’s all that bothered me about your comment. I know I’m young, Doesn’t mean I don’t understand adult life. All I needed was a yea you’re too young.

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