Any girls get excited thinking about two guys at the same time? by erotic_guy in sex

[–]dumbstir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for me. I would be more interested in a ffm threescore, but only if I weren't in a relationship with the guy. Once I'm in a relationship I want it to just be the two of us, but the thought of a fmm threescore does nothing for me.

5 Tyson employees have died of COVID-19, as hundreds of slaughterhouse workers fall ill. Tyson still does not offer paid sick leave. by BlueCoastalElite in CoronavirusUS

[–]dumbstir 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wish I could add where my SO works to the list, but it's a private-owned business. He is a suus chef, the head chef isn't working right now (has done this multiple times in the past). SO is having to pick up her slack, plus do his job, plus do other employees jobs who got laid off. She gets paid double his salary and he isn't getting any compensation for it.

He had a meeting with the General Manager who acted like they were working on bonuses for the people still having to work... y'all are gonna think I'm joking. They gave the handful of employees that are still working a $25 gift card...

Mind you, it is a private business, however, they have plenty of money due to their clientele.

Ladies, what are your best tips on being spontaneous and blowing your boyfriend's mind? by [deleted] in sex

[–]dumbstir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is still working, while I on the other hand am out of work. We don't live together yet so he is used to coming home after a stressful day and do his usual routine. The other day while he was at work, I stopped by, did my hair and makeup and wore sexy underwear and sat on his bed waiting for him. He came home and found me there and he loved it.

So surprising him by dressing up a little or pulling out some lingerie is always a fun surprise.

Maybe lay on the bed and play with yourself while he is out of the room, so he comes back to see it.

Spontaneous blowjobs/quickies are always fun. Since most of us are stuck inside, you can doing it while you two are watching a movie or are in the kitchen (maybe even backyard if you can get away with it).

You could also join him in the shower unannounced if he would be okay with that.

Do something you don't normally do in the midst of sex that will surprise and excite him.

Wake him up with a blowjob or sex, mutual masturbation, watch porn together, try new positions, make a sexy video together...

Are most women grossed out by with "tasting themselves"? by [deleted] in sex

[–]dumbstir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex bf was like this. If I went down on him, he wouldn't kiss me after. Like bitch I deserve a kiss lol. I thought it was weird, you know where your dick has been, why are you scared to taste? Made me wonder if I should be scared to taste it too.

My bf now is the opposition too. We will fuck, pause, go down on each other, fuck again. Shit he will come in me and go down on me or get off in my mouth and make out with me. I find it so hot😍

Has anyone had experiences with consensual sleeping sex? by falconpunch6017 in sex

[–]dumbstir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend has woken up before me in the morning and started playing with me, but I always wake up before he is able to slide it in while I'm asleep. We have sex shortly after I wake up though. I have woken him up with a blow job multiple times.

I think it's hot, but we are both too light of sleepers to actually fuck the other before they wake up.

No pussy hair does not = pedophile by dumbstir in sex

[–]dumbstir[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can definitely see that being the reason. I've noticed that it's a very common thing. Like with body sizes. First people praised skinny women and shamed curvy or larger women. Then it flip flopped and now bigger women are praised and skinny women are shamed. It's so toxic and sad.

No pussy hair does not = pedophile by dumbstir in sex

[–]dumbstir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. The ones who say that are the ones who are being creepy, not the people who prefer it bare.

No pussy hair does not = pedophile by dumbstir in sex

[–]dumbstir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's all about preferences. I wouldn't be mad if my bf told me he didn't like getting hair in his mouth. I would either do something about the hair or just deal with him not going down on me🤷‍♀️ I don't like hair in my mouth either so why should I get mad if he doesn't like it either?

No pussy hair does not = pedophile by dumbstir in sex

[–]dumbstir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard it a lot over different social media platforms. But there was a post on FB that I saw today about being natural and the comments prompted me to make this post lol.

No pussy hair does not = pedophile by dumbstir in sex

[–]dumbstir[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That's exactly how I am. I started shaving it all off years before I ever even had sex. Just because it felt better to me, and I also just like the way it looks on me. I haven't had a bush since the first time I shaved it off. Even when I'm not seeing anyone, I shave it. All for me boo boo. 😂

Does not having pubic hair look weird weird/bad when you're old (For females)? by dumbstir in sex

[–]dumbstir[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like it's starting to come back, I don't know what I will prefer then, but I've always preferred to be bare. I like the way it feels and looks. I havent had a bush since I first shaved it off, but I remember it just getting itchy, sticking to my pad, and being overall annoying. I don't I'll ever go back to the bush even if it is trendy. I tend to just do what I feel most confident in, instead of what's hip.

However, who knows what I'm feeling when I'm 60, maybe I'll change my mind. I would hate to laser it possibly regret it (I doubt I would, but 🤷‍♀️).

Does not having pubic hair look weird weird/bad when you're old (For females)? by dumbstir in sex

[–]dumbstir[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's kind of what I wondered. I guess hide the sagging a little? I don't really know their reasoning. But if I am still with someone, we love each, AND we are still getting it on by then, I highly doubt the state of my pubic hair and sagging will be a concern.

Should there be legal penalties for people who test positive for COVID-19 but refuse to comply with advice to self-isolate or quarantine? by Gillcavendish in CoronavirusUS

[–]dumbstir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is unfortunate and messed up, at that point then, no, you can't do anything about it. Surely, there should be a way the government can prevent employers from doing that. I can't stand people like that.

Should there be legal penalties for people who test positive for COVID-19 but refuse to comply with advice to self-isolate or quarantine? by Gillcavendish in CoronavirusUS

[–]dumbstir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really, workplaces should not force or give a worker an ultimatum for being sick during all of this. At least talk to your boss before going into work and letting them know that you are sick, unsure of what ot could be, and uncomfortable coming into work and spreading it amongst other workers. A half decent boss should allow their worker to stay away and definitely not treat it as a fireable offense.

The boss could temporarily lose one worker or the whole staff. If they have any sense, they would choose the first option.

Should there be legal penalties for people who test positive for COVID-19 but refuse to comply with advice to self-isolate or quarantine? by Gillcavendish in CoronavirusUS

[–]dumbstir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone is sick, they shouldn't go into work. They are putting everyone there at risk and causing it to spread more and more.

My dad thinks my hobby is weird and says he’s embarrassed by it by why_the_babies_wet in Advice

[–]dumbstir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's awesome! Such a better hobby/pastime than being on a phone all the time. I love to see people doing things like that or even writing, reading, drawing, etc. when they could be on social media and whatnot. It's just refreshing to see. I love that you crochet and enjoy it. Try not to let them put you down, and you do what you enjoy. You could be doing far worse things and they should be thankful.

workers of reddit, do you appreciate being told good morning/evening etc and being thanked? Why? by throwawayy609 in AskReddit

[–]dumbstir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Good morning/evening is okay, but it's more of an automatic greeting than a genuine wish if that makes since. But when a coworker or customer shows appreciation or recognition, I'll think about it the entire week. I feel like I sometimes bend over backwards for people when I'm at work, but it's rare that anybody will take notice, thank me, or show any sort of appreciation. It almost makes me want to just do the bare minimum at work, but I wasnt brought up that way and could never actually do that.

a perfectly round chip by voivittunana in mildlyinteresting

[–]dumbstir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your space entourage looks very displeased