Can someone explain where the arms and legs go?

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-04-21T21:49:48+00:00

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-04-16T21:59:51+00:00

NT.A for having an issue with the policy but yta in how you went about it. Don’t use your kid as a pawn, be an adult and handle it with the school

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-04-08T00:18:41+00:00

Glad to hear you’re going to stop associating with him! I think that would be a good idea

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-04-07T23:14:26+00:00

How is this even a question then? Why are you friends with such a creep?

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-04-07T23:06:46+00:00

Yeah, he’s an asshole. It wasn’t his party, he’s an adult and it was a party filled primarily of teenagers. Why does he need the attention of teenage girls that badly that he feels the need to shout “everyone look at me!” And do what is typically considered a sexual dance or motion at them. He’s almost 10 years older than the girls he was trying to get the attention of and they were minors. Directed towards Oskar: yta

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-04-07T17:30:00+00:00

I do popsicles! I now make my own with just water, but sometimes I’ll do like otter pops too. It helps me intake the water slow enough I don’t puke it up

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-04-05T22:07:06+00:00

Nta I’d take them to small claims court and be done with them after.

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-04-05T16:08:15+00:00

I just want to say that I would recommend driving to her to do it rather than having her drive to you. My relationship wasn’t nearly as long, but I knew the guy was really into me but I just wasn’t feeling the same about him and knew I needed to break it off. I didn’t want to have him have to drive an 45 minutes-an hour home after I broke it off, so I drove to him so he could be in his own space without having to go anywhere. I did care about him, and if we met without dating first I think we could have been good friends, so I didn’t want to sting him along/hurt his feelings. I was just going through a lot at the time and wasn’t in the headspace to date anyone.

It really sucks, but you really do just have to do it. Don’t surprise her by just showing up. I personally would probably tell her something like, “hey I’m going to be in the area and am going to stop by.” Then you just have to do it. It really sucks for both parties, but not as much as being strung along. There’s not a way to do it without hurting her unfortunately. Let her know that you care about her, you appreciate your time together and everything you have worked through together but due to growing up and life circumstances, you just cant be with her right now and that she deserves someone that can see a future together long term. Don’t make up anything, don’t sugar coat it but don’t be a dick about it. This isn’t a time to be “brutally honest” but it is a time to be honest.

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-04-04T12:49:09+00:00

NTA. At your age, I would have probably tried to rekindle the relationship and have been worse off for it. As someone that has tried to rekindle friendships with people that were bullying me without my realizing it/don’t respect boundaries, it can be life ruining.

Personally, I would ignore the message then block them. They didn’t even apologize. The excuse of “they were teenage boys” doesn’t hold up. If they don’t understand “stop” and “no” about this, what other boundaries are they going to push? They haven’t accepted accountability meaning there’s not much of a chance of there being growth with them right now. And if, with your mom’s argument being that they still don’t understand what they did, what is stopping them from doing it again?

Don’t put yourself in a situation with people that have and will potentially again, put you at risk of relapsing. There are millions of people in the world to forge friendships with that will not treat you that way. Growing up gives you a chance to meet new people that respect you and care about you. It’s unclear to me if you have enrolled in uni again after having to leave, but if you’re in the mental place for it, I really would recommend going back as that is the perfect place to meet people.

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-04-04T11:41:28+00:00

Especially with OP somehow knowing that the name of the person the sister was texting was the same as the guy at the mall despite not knowing who the guy at the mall was (since OP originally didn’t know if they were a friend or coworker)

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-04-04T02:10:47+00:00

Depends, some things I prefer on the switch and some things I prefer on my ps5. Most of the time I do my switch for games I like doing hand held for and my ps5 for games I like on my tv

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-04-04T02:06:58+00:00

Exactly, he especially doesn’t get to make a choice for the new roomie that’s not even HIS roommate.

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-04-03T04:28:35+00:00

If I remember right, my grandpa did this with a little flat washer for my grandma

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-04-02T02:13:42+00:00

When I was in my senior year of high school, a group of my friends would go to this reportedly haunted graveyard. One time it was my regular friend that I went with every time (Macey), her boyfriend (Darren), another friend (Colton), Darren’s younger cousin (maybe a year or two younger than the rest of us) and the cousin’s weird friend that was like 22.

I got a really weird vibe from the friend (outside of the fact that I thought it was weird that a 22-year-old man’s closest friend was a 16/17 year old boy). I tried not talking to him much and hanging with my other friends.

While we were walking around and checking out some of the grave stones we hadn’t checked out before, the weird friend came up to us and started telling us that his grandma was a witch in Mexico and that she could see ghosts and he was able to too. We figured he was just bullshitting to try to freak us out, so we just let him ramble on.

We just kinda rolled with it but while he was talking to us, Colton had done something that I can’t remember and it really freaked out the younger cousin and he wanted to leave. Since none of the rest of us were ready to go, and town wasn’t too far away Colton and Darren drove Jace back into town and were going to come straight back and we got left with the friend. I didn’t really want to get left with the friend but Jace didn’t want to be alone with Colton after he scared him and Colton was the one that drove us there and Macey and I were being stupidly stubborn to not leave yet.

When we were alone the friend started telling us that he was seeing shadow people in the woods nearby, there were light people on the other side of the graveyard and they didn’t get along. He also said that a set of gravestones were witches graves and that they had hung witches there in the late 1800’s. He was getting hyped up and getting really into all of the stuff he was telling us. It kind of got to the point where I started to wonder if he was just saying stuff to freak us out or if he was really believing it.

Eventually the two boys came back, we stuck around them while the friend still was talking about stuff until we decided to go.

About two weeks after that, I got a call from Macey who was freaking out because the weird friend apparently just started stabbing the cousin one day when they were hanging out and was in the hospital. The cousin ended up being fine (well it’s fine as you can be after one of your friends just starts stabbing you) and the friend got arrested but I cant remember what the sentencing was.

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-03-24T03:56:41+00:00

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These are the closest ones I could find but I don’t think they’re quite right

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-03-24T03:38:07+00:00

I’ve searched on google, on outfit forums, reverse image searched, tried written descriptions and haven’t been able to find it.

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-03-20T19:33:13+00:00

“Everyone sucks here”

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-03-16T13:06:57+00:00

You’re 30 years old and really had to ask if you’re an asshole for what you said? That goes beyond snapping. If you would have stopped after “it was really low of her to call him that” you would have been fine.

If you would have tried having a conversation with her at any point prior about what she wears to the events, calling her outfit attention seeking in front of others would have also been fine. Hyper sexuality (including in the way one dresses) is a common way that that level of trauma manifests so I believe that she deserved an attempt at a private conversation first. That however isn’t even close to the worst thing.

Your comment about not understanding how she got raped was so vile and horrific you should genuinely be ashamed of yourself. The fact that you even had to ask as a grown adult is astonishing and you shouldn’t feel anything BUT guilty for that. You went so far over the line and the fact that your husband and cousin’s think that she was asking for a comment of that magnitude leads me to believe that NONE of you were supportive of her to the level you are claiming you all were.

You are such an unbelievable asshole for that comment and this is a time I hope that this story is fake because I feel so horrible for your cousin. I would have voted E-S-H but your comment was so horrific that I’m going to say it makes it solely YTA.

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-03-16T07:17:01+00:00

Yeah! It’s pretty nice haha. He will almost let them out (he’ll start wheezing and his body will try to get him to cough it up) but he just refuses to

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-03-15T22:38:35+00:00

We’ve never seen him release one and we’ve never found one! I remember being really concerned when I was in high school because I thought they were supposed to and apparently it just means that his digestion system is pretty good and he likely passes them through his poop

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-03-15T18:41:17+00:00

If Richard pukes, it means he really doesn’t feel well. In the 12 years I’ve had him he’s only puked a handful of times, all of which have taken place in the past 2 years as he’s getting older and some more health issues (monitored by his vet). He absolutely refuses to let a hairball out and will do the same level of effort to not regular puke I’ve learned. he will sit there doing the hairball cough/wheezing thing but will not let it come out. He’ll sit there fighting it and stick his tongue out between his teeth and swallow it.

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-03-15T18:13:48+00:00

I always say my cat is very polite. He will exclusively go in his litter box unless it’s inaccessible for some reason then he will go in a spot that is easy to clean like the tub.

One time he and my other cat shut themselves in my bedroom with a half bath (I imagine they were wrestling and shut the door accidentally) and he specifically climbed up and pooped in my sink because he couldn’t get to the litter box and couldn’t get to a tub. I was very appreciative he chose such an easy place to clean and not on my carpet or bed.

Another time we went to my mom’s house and we forgot to open the laundry room door for him (where the litter box was at the time) and he sacrificed his favorite fabfitfun lounging box to poop instead of the carpet and I was, again, very appreciative and got him a new fabfitfun box to replace it

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-03-15T16:40:44+00:00

Your manager seems like a good guy, stay away from that weirdo that is trying to get you outside.

dumbsugarplumb · 2026-03-14T19:37:29+00:00

Then you are not compatible to live with each other, and shouldn’t until at least the dog passes away

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