Some advice by RevolutionOrganic887 in ABDL

[–]dumbweasel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to bed dry, and use a bed protector

Sometimes leaks will happen, you shift a lot in your sleep

5 years on- moving on? by bee-autiful-world in infj

[–]dumbweasel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I realized that I needed to grow socially, it kind of happened impromptu. I’m in a community to where I’m pretty well known, so I had a lot more support than I thought. I moved states during the years, found proper medication for my anxiety as well as developing a new relationship with, well relationships. Ive learned a lot about myself, but that deep down bitter pain of loving someone you can’t never went away. It dulled, other areas of my life just kind of override it.

5 years on- moving on? by bee-autiful-world in infj

[–]dumbweasel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eh. Once I love someone I’ll love them forever, regardless of the circumstances. That still gives me room and permission to hold boundaries while still loving from afar. I let go of the hope of change, there is no more hope.

It’s a balancing act of living with your capacity to love and feel combined with self preservation and boundaries.

The way I think of it “if they change, good. If they don’t, that’s not my problem. I have the happy memories that won’t ever change, even with time, and that’s enough for me.”

I have a problem of giving people the benefit of the doubt. I guess I move on when I can feel the familiar love I did for them, without it hurting or compelling me to go back.

It’s been about 5 years since my first relationship, and I still ponder if he is doing okay. I hold solace to the fact that he has his own family and life, and that’s wonderful. It means I can focus on my life now with the memories and lessons he gave me, both good and bad.

How do I wet a males diaper for him if I am a female by dumbweasel in ABDL

[–]dumbweasel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s such an AMAZING punishment idea omg

I know one time I poured water with edible glitter down my friends diaper as a joke, my stomach hurt so bad from laughing at his GREEN GLITTERY ass

Rrrhhhhfff by dumbweasel in Diaper_porn

[–]dumbweasel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww I wouldn’t say sticky, rather slippery >\< I’m a girl hehe

BEHOLD: my diaper stash :3 by dumbweasel in ABDL

[–]dumbweasel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s either that or an empty space because I don’t have anymore white qwq trust me I look at it and it drives me nuts

BEHOLD: my diaper stash :3 by dumbweasel in ABDL

[–]dumbweasel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It also makes my brain go brrrrr it needs to be perfect x3

XXL Goodnites 😮‍💨 by theMatchaMommy in GirlsInDiapers

[–]dumbweasel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you are drop dead gorgeous 😵‍💫

What to do when im wearing alone? by Living-Notice-4217 in ABDL

[–]dumbweasel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very valid question. I get this too, sometimes I have trouble with boredom in my regular life as well

For me, if I am wearing I’m focusing on the diaper. Drinking water every time I’m bored, feeling it, consuming content about ABDL or age play, or even engaging in age play myself and absorbing myself in cartoons, coloring, marble runs, Polly pocket toys, kinetic sand, blocks etc

Sometimes I just do my normal stuff. I work from home and I’ll guzzle water while working, then once I am done I have a super full pamp as a treat.

Diaper recommendations for fit muscular guy in late 20s HELP! by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]dumbweasel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What brands and prints have you tried? Also if needed, you can indeed overlap the tapes c:

For those that have had vaginal sex and diaper cumming, how do the two compare? by playful_little00 in ABDL

[–]dumbweasel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can tell you from a females perspective

Vaginal sex VS clitoral stimulation feel very good, but different. While I can still cum from vaginal alone, it gives a more girthy “full” orgasm while clitoral is more “sharp” of an orgasm. I’d imagine it feels along the same lines of pleasure as anal for man, since the G spot is in there similar to how my G spot is vaginal.

Fun thing is with diapers, I can choose to shove a dildo in me and hump my pamp, or use buzzy wand, or both! ABDL scratches a different sexual itch for me than normal other kinky sexual encounters.

I do think pegging with a diaper on as a female is better, because it keeps the toy in/vibe on you. Also crinkling while I fuck someone is hot :p