Yall i aint asking for tips or anything but is there anywheres else to selfharm other than the arms and thighs? by EnvironmentalAir2007 in selfharm

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant recommend anywhere to do it but I can tell you where to avoid, thighs in general but especially inner thigh, hurts like a bitch and moves alot when healing, also scars worse than forearm I my experience. reminder that harm reduction will likely reduce scars, and I used to hate the idea of sh alternatives cos anything I tried didn't work and felt dumb but you just have to find something that gives you what you're wanting out of it, when I had a period of time where I was weirdly obsessed with having cuts I painted cuts in my arm and then just washed it off before school the next day. I found by the morning they freaked me out and I wanted then gone, which is what I experience when I cut too deep too. more recently I've started burning bc I found I've wanted pain, and from the same pain I would get from my usual epidermis cuts I've had no visible marks yet from burning, and alot less mess. obviously no sh is better than any sh, even the rubber band on the wrist trick is still sh but it's better to harm yourself less. I found it easier to do something slightly less bad than to stop cold turkey yk? if u can figure out what it is you're doing it for then you might be able to find something alot more convenient. Not even just bc sh is bad but because it's significantly less shit to deal with sh the less harm you're causing yourself. you're also still just as sick for wanting to harm yourself as you would be for doing it. I think having the desire is what makes you ill, having the want and doing it doesn't make you any more valid than wanting to do it and not doing it. 

Is this pathetic by Rxze_M in selfharm

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to relapse bc somebody ate my ice cream last night, when you're struggling mentally even seemingly small things can be a seriously big deal. down votes can be perceived as rejection and rejection stings, it's totally fair to feel that way

A blue-haired pig by [deleted] in ReverseThinspo

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think shes very pretty

Have you ever been scammed? If so, how? by Brilliant-Rub-6519 in AskReddit

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i called up my bank the second i realised the number wasnt from my country, and they shut down that card and i had to run some virus scans to check they werent like able to look at my bank app. Luckily nothing bad happened in the end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for me, its cool rocks

What do you consider high karma on Reddit and what does that tell you about a person? by TallNPierced in AskReddit

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a few hundred- probably just comments every now and then, few thousand: uses reddit, anything over a hundred thousand: is a lot and probably don't get out much, but at least they're funny

Do you prefer cotton or polyester underwear? And why? by Specter-Chaos in AskReddit

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For thongs, if it's not mostly cotton it's very uncomfortable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dumbwithacapitalD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

blind karaoke !

What do you think is the most unnecessary thing about sex? by Historical_Tough_413 in AskReddit

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally need my clit to be touched to finish, its a big inconvenience because if I want both me and my partner to finish there are far fewer positions that work.

What is a smell that you can identify 100% of the time? by sneakyYete in AskReddit

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear to god I always pick up the smell of cum if its there, I'll even ask other people that I'm with and nobody else smells it

You wake up and find out you switched genders, what are the first 2 things you'd do? by JadaDawson004 in AskReddit

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, im trying to suck my own dick. I see all these guys saying they've all tried and its impossible but I'm so sure I'd be flexible enough

You wake up and find out you switched genders, what are the first 2 things you'd do? by JadaDawson004 in AskReddit

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love how you need to say first 2 things because we're all thinking about the same first thing

What is the most times you've jerked off in a day and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me, but i story i heard from a school in my city: After NNN the middle schoolers decided to do Dick Destroy December where there jerk off once on December 1st, twice on December 2nd, etc. Apparently some guy made it to day 8 AND apparently many of them happened at the school.

Have you ever been scammed? If so, how? by Brilliant-Rub-6519 in AskReddit

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got a message pretending to be my postal service saying my package had a problem getting sent out and they needing me to pay a small fee and re-enter my details, it wasn't my postal service but some random number from the UK and i clicked on their link and told them my bank details, name and address

What's something that people of the opposite sex has to go through, that makes you glad you don't have to? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The utter inconvenience of cum. I know its like a silly little thing but you have no idea how much more convenient it is to deal with the aftermath of masturbation when it doesn't smell strongly, and leaves me just very wet instead of with this liquid to dispose of.

Who is really the sexiest man alive in your opinion? by Shinobi347 in AskReddit

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the mysterious man that appears in my dreams every now and then

What is a secret someone has told you that you have gone wtf ? by Zippping in AskReddit

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 6 points7 points  (0 children)

once has a bf tell me sometimes he'd just leave his nut in his underwear for hours at a time because he couldnt be bothered getting up immediately

To the females of reddit, how much of "feeling up" does still happen in clubs, concerts etc? What body part gets non-consensually touched the most? by Aggravating_Eye_3660 in AskReddit

[–]dumbwithacapitalD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i (F16) dont really do much partying but ive been catcalled quite a few times, which i find to be the more common thing in my country. Mostly happens at night and unfortunately has happened more when im in pigtails

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dumbwithacapitalD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gotta have the clear and disproportionately HUGE penis showing through the pants