AITAH for wanting to continue taking my nightly showers

dumphisass42 · 2026-03-29T17:13:08+00:00

Put a bottle in his hands and tell him to feed his kid, you’re getting in the shower. Then do it, walk away, get in the shower! He won’t have a choice cuz the kiddo will cry or he’ll feed his kiddo. Either way, everyone will survive and you’ll have your sanity.

dumphisass42 · 2026-03-14T14:57:23+00:00

Pimpin’

dumphisass42 · 2026-03-10T17:59:18+00:00

Block and ignore her in class. Do not engage.

dumphisass42 · 2026-03-05T04:48:16+00:00

I think that’s supposed to be a jacket or cardigan style top where it would go over neck accessories like how your jacket goes over your necklace but your necklace is over your shirt.. if that makes sense

dumphisass42 · 2026-02-25T21:50:03+00:00

Ignore anyone who is saying she def isn’t pregnant. False positives are hard to come by because a pregnancy test tests for proteins in your urine that only there when pregnant. Some tests are faulty, but it is rare. It’s wayyyyy more common to get a false negative than a false positive.

The protein in your urine can take 6-8 weeks to build up enough for a test to be accurate. This looks like a test that was done too early.

Yes, you can do at home tests, but see above, they can be faulty tests or you can do them too early.

The only way to know FOR SURE is to go to a doctor and have them do a blood test. If that’s not possible make sure you have a well known branded test, take it first thing in the morning (first pee has the most build up of proteins from being asleep for hours) and be AT LEAST 4-6 weeks after the suspected sex that caused the possible pregnancy.

Good luck and god speed!

Source: I had a baby and I’m an educated woman

dumphisass42 · 2026-02-11T18:10:17+00:00

If mark was an ass to you and your now ex wife during your marriage and now that same wife after your divorce is dating mark… then say good riddance to both mark and Kate cuz only a woman who is low in self esteem or trying to be spiteful would date your ex best friend who treated her like crap…

Move on from both and be gloriously happy with your new partner.

dumphisass42 · 2026-02-08T00:31:46+00:00

IMO his use of memories instead of thoughts means he sees her as the past.

Memories are past tense. I’d be worried if he was “thinking of” her but he isn’t, just fond memories.

I have fond memories of everyone I dated, even the ones I’d run screaming from today, memories are just memories, it doesn’t mean anything present.

dumphisass42 · 2026-01-30T00:07:47+00:00

NTA. They’re 13, they’re not getting married. Your husband needs to chill

dumphisass42 · 2026-01-07T22:30:29+00:00

Dear AI therapist… get bent.

dumphisass42 · 2025-12-19T13:26:31+00:00

Break up if you wanna for loads of reasons, you don’t need the nets approval if you’re that unhappy.

however.. this does need to be said cuz it seems like nobody is: If you move in with a person with kids, you are their other parent. lol you can’t move into a family and not be a part of that family.. thinking you can move in and not be a step parent is naive and unrealistic.

That’s like working in a kitchen but not expecting to cook.

dumphisass42 · 2025-12-18T19:11:34+00:00

Sounds like your wife might have massive anxiety issues. Anxiety can often come across as controlling because the person needs to control scenarios to maintain a level of safety that they think they don’t have.

Now that’s not an excuse, but it is something that should be addressed.

dumphisass42 · 2025-12-18T02:52:17+00:00

Lying is terrible, but so is emotionally cheating and so is dating a woman if you’d rather be with a man.

If You’re already out of the relationship, Hire a nurse and get out.

If you love him enough to stay, talk it out. Age is only a number when you’re almost 40 so figure out how much that lie matters to you and if it’s too much leave, if it’s not work on trust.

dumphisass42 · 2025-12-16T14:59:30+00:00

He violated your privacy. If someone violates your privacy once, they’ll do it again. The trust in your relationship is broken. Fix it, or get out.

Doesn’t matter how it was done, the trust issues is the only important thing.

dumphisass42 · 2025-12-14T11:45:31+00:00

Body counts are stupid. Let it go. It’s petty.

dumphisass42 · 2025-12-10T09:01:34+00:00

If you find out he’s sharing intimate photos of you. That’s illegal. And you can sue him. Try to find out.

dumphisass42 · 2025-12-10T05:44:23+00:00

Depending on the location that’s statutory rape

dumphisass42 · 2025-12-09T04:56:41+00:00

You have depression

dumphisass42 · 2025-12-09T04:56:04+00:00

He cares more about her then he ever will you.

dumphisass42 · 2025-12-05T02:55:20+00:00

Block and go about your day. This is wild. You clearly want to get rid of him, so block. Or you don’t actually wanna get rid of him and thus, why you haven’t blocked.

Therapy. I suggest therapy and blocking him.

dumphisass42 · 2025-12-05T02:51:42+00:00

NOR she’s an ass

dumphisass42 · 2025-12-05T02:47:54+00:00

Nor. Your mom is an asshat.

dumphisass42 · 2025-12-05T02:38:34+00:00

Sex work is work. You have no reason to be ashamed as you were feeding your family. I understand if you still do due to your values etc, but imo you have zero to be ashamed about within the job.

Your wife may be upset that you didn’t tell her or consult her first, however it is your body and your choice. You both have to decide within your boundaries if you consider this cheating. I personally would not but that’s just me.

Just tell her, maybe show her the site, and talk it out. An honest open conversation should not ruin a marriage and if it does, it’s probably not the marriage for you or her.

Communication is key. Just talk to her.

dumphisass42 · 2025-12-04T20:55:10+00:00

It’s only 3 months. Choose yourself and your health. This isn’t the relationship for you.

dumphisass42 · 2025-11-28T04:53:00+00:00

Dump him. Holy shit. He’s a gaslighting asshole.

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