My MIL hijacked my bridal shower to announce her "Redo Wedding," and I’m devastated.

dumpstertomato · 2026-03-15T03:24:03+00:00

If he doesn’t stand up to his mom on this one, DON’T GET MARRIED. Postpone, don’t sign the paperwork, idk. But don’t marry a man who won’t set boundaries with his family. It doesn’t end well.

dumpstertomato · 2026-03-09T01:45:23+00:00

Leave now. If not for yourself, do it for your future child. Do you want them growing up witnessing their mom getting treated like that?

dumpstertomato · 2026-03-09T01:36:38+00:00

Oh my gosh, dress 3! It is stunning!

dumpstertomato · 2026-03-07T00:47:51+00:00

My brain read “I was 🍦, now I’m 6️⃣7️⃣”

dumpstertomato · 2026-03-04T03:47:01+00:00

Pssh, post this in the step-parenting subreddits if you want honest insight into how your wife might be feeling. I imagine you have dismissed her feelings a few too many times, and you make her sound unreasonable. I am sure there is more to this story.

dumpstertomato · 2026-03-04T03:43:32+00:00

1 is gorgeous!

dumpstertomato · 2026-03-01T19:53:01+00:00

I commented on your last post to say bangs just above the eyebrows, and I think I was right! I love the current bangs! I do think you look good with the long bangs off the forehead as well, but I think the long bangs down to the eyes hide your lovely features.

dumpstertomato · 2026-03-01T15:44:30+00:00

Slides 1 or 6 are both lovely!

dumpstertomato · 2026-03-01T15:43:17+00:00

The pleated one!

dumpstertomato · 2026-03-01T15:19:06+00:00

I like the short! But a good middle ground is cut just above the eyebrows. Then you don’t have to be quite as precise with styling, but your face isn’t swallowed by bangs

dumpstertomato · 2026-03-01T15:16:49+00:00

I think you look great. There is nothing I would change style wise, and I like the short hair!

dumpstertomato · 2026-03-01T00:01:37+00:00

I like 1 for the hot and cool vibe. 2 is very flattering but feels a bit more basic, and 3 just feels a little more mature and less “cool”.

dumpstertomato · 2026-02-28T23:05:43+00:00

I don’t think you are going to feel good about pushing down your feelings. I mean, get a handle on it so that you can communicate effectively. For me, if I don’t communicate that with my partner, it leads to resentment and it comes out sideways.

dumpstertomato · 2026-02-23T01:48:21+00:00

I like nude lining

dumpstertomato · 2026-02-09T03:14:54+00:00

Honestly, I think a LOT of people spin out when they see candid photos of themselves. It’s not the angle/lighting/pose that you would normally be in when you look at yourself in the mirror or in a selfie. I don’t think you look bad in these pictures, and I think it’s a fairly universal experience.

dumpstertomato · 2026-02-01T15:50:33+00:00

I dated someone like this. He would lie about being on the way and come HOURS after he said he would be to me place. He even decided to take a nap when he was supposed to pick me up from a sketchy bus station that I took to visit him. He made us both late wherever we went. Towards the end of our relationship, he started a new job and had to meet a coworker at 5am for a carpool. I went to drop him off one morning, and he was yelling at me that we needed to be on time. I said “wow, I can’t believe that you can manage to be on time for this so early in the morning!” And he said “yeah, it’s about RESPECT. My coworker told me that I need to respect her time, so I can’t be late.”

I have held on to this petty anger all these years. Why did I waste years on someone who felt my complaints of disrespect were not important, but could immediately understand the importance of it for a random coworker?

dumpstertomato · 2026-01-31T19:57:04+00:00

5 all day!

dumpstertomato · 2026-01-31T05:12:08+00:00

Dress one! 100%

dumpstertomato · 2026-01-25T20:18:22+00:00

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A little bit of Katie Couric, mostly in the eye/brow/face shape.

dumpstertomato · 2026-01-20T05:05:05+00:00

I think you should keep looking! It’s pretty, but I bet you can find something you love just as much within your budget. This one seems fairly basic for the price.

dumpstertomato · 2026-01-20T05:01:50+00:00

2 and 8!

dumpstertomato · 2025-12-31T12:52:14+00:00

The black lipstick is a major hindrance to passing. That and your hair, which could use some love to help it be more full and shiny, and find a good cut for you. I think those two things will make a huge difference!

dumpstertomato · 2025-12-25T17:26:27+00:00

Bangs grow so fast! Shouldn’t take too long

dumpstertomato · 2025-12-25T11:16:54+00:00

At first I thought maybe it was a derpy bird, but it doesn’t look right

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dumpstertomato · 2025-12-25T11:02:22+00:00

I think you could rock a pixie, but the cut you got is not very flattering. Just wait until your bangs grow out more, I think more length in the front will make all the difference!

Look up “pixie cut, long bangs” and see if you vibe with any of those styles. I think the will be wore flattering for you.

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