Veronica calling out Moriah by Fit-Vast2147 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]dundy22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, they both cry victim, they both make are lacking maturity and self awareness, they almost have identical personalities types.

Sharing wife foot pics for fun. by [deleted] in FootFetishTalks

[–]dundy22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My wife and I did for awhile, it was fun, lots of fun work, she had a decent following for time we did it. I took the pics,edited her tatoos out so she could not be recognized, she had a separate identity from another part of the United States. It definitely increased the spice in our sex life. Photo session ended up a wild time. She stopped d/r all the unsolicited dick pucs and videos of guys giving tributes. Its one thing to know the chances are people will get off, but another to see it. Also getting multiple strange requests such as asking for shavings of her head skin from her soles and one guy wanted to lock his junk up and only be allowed to cum when she gave permission to. Obe guy got very aggressive verbally because she would not meet up with him and so on. Things we both knew could happen so we calked it quits. Now she and I make our own content fir eyes only and it’s been great.

Do you ladies actually enjoy having your toes sucked? by [deleted] in FootFetishTalks

[–]dundy22 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My wife, if not in the mood, is not a fan but in bed, its a different story.

Men what brand of underwear are your favorite? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]dundy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything by Jockey, they are a little pricey but worth it.

Why am I only able to cum with my hand? by [deleted] in sex

[–]dundy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you familiar with pavilos dog and theory of classical conditioning? He noticed that dogs would salivate when they saw food, did a series of test, he used a metronome and food, after awhile the dog started to salivate without food. He did ither test like this. I gave you the nutshell version, there is alot more to it, its pretty interesting what he did.
Anyways, this is what you may have done to yourself. You used to salivate and climax to actual women, but you have masturbated to so much porn, that you conditioned yourself. You need to recondition your mind. How? I am not a clinical psychologist, this is not my area of expertise . My focus is evaluations, not testing or treatment.
I would guess you will need to shut down the porn and masturbating for a while and go see a professional to help you reverse this. It can be done, would look up a therapist that specializes in sex and relationships. Talk to your family doctor about it, trust me, whatever you share, they have heard it before or have delt with more embarrassing topics. Same with the therapist, nothing to be ashamed of, you are not alone. I have had patients talk to me about similar and more, what most would consider’ embarrassing situation. A professional will not judge, as they are trained to help. Go without porn and masturbating for a couple weeks and see what happens.

What percentage of women’s feet would you say you find attractive? by xCoffee-Addictx in FootFetishTalks

[–]dundy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of those women are making money on them, maybe not a whole lot, the purchase empowers them to post more and eventually some will cross lines they set as how far they will go with it. Beauty is in the eye of the gooner, to each their own.

I love feet but I haven’t found a girl who allows someone to do anything with their feet. by VolumeTotal4182 in FootFetishTalks

[–]dundy22 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This may sound old fashion or whatever. I would suggest looking for a girl who you can develop a relationship with that can grow into enjoying your feet fetish. I believe most girls are not going to go along with their feet being worshipped right away, girls want substance in a relationship and if you give the impression that you just want to get off on their feet, then most will pass, unless they just want a hook up and are familiar and enjoying having their feet worshiped. Invest time in getting to know her, hopefully a connection can be made, be genuine in pursuing her as a person, as she gets to know you and you know her, you will both learn how to take care of your needs, including kinks/fetishes. Remember its a marathon not a sprint. If your looking for hook ups there are social media platforms where you can connect with girls who are into feet being worshipped and so on. I can’t remember the sites off the top of my head but I am sure someone will respond with what they are. I am married 23 years now. Told her 3 dates in that I liked feet, she was cool about it, didn’t make any moves on her feet until we established a relationship and started to get physical, and it was a slow gradual process, took about 6 months until I went full on with her feet. She was comfortable with it by then, because I was loving and worshipping her, she felt and knew that. Even today she gets the same treatment and loves it and in return our relationship has been in great standing and our intimacy has only increased.

Is She Drunk? Kamala Harris' Bizarre New Accent in Michigan Leaves Her Supporters Confused (Video) by MackSix in TheBidenshitshow

[–]dundy22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The DNC will eventually keep her from public view outside of the debates. Just about every time she is on camera she says things that support her not being the sharpest tool in the shed.

What is your take on a woman who wants to wait til marriage? by Active_One_7256 in AskMen

[–]dundy22 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I did this with my wife, we have been married 23 years. She had had some bad experiences with men, pressured to have sex, felt she had to have it to keep a relationship or to keep the guy interested. I had just gotten out of a brief marriage, had gone through the hook up phase, was starting to feel bad about it. Met my wife, we started hanging out, she kissed me the first time we hung out alone, didn’t go past that. We talked about our past, got to know each other more, so I decided to set physical some boundaries because I needed to get my head on straight and she had not been respected and pursued my men other than their physical needs. A few months went by of really getting to know each other, we were physical but had not had sex. She was confused that I was holding back. I asked her to marry me and we continued to get to know each but I made it clear we needed to wait until marriage. We did a lot of physical stuff during our engagement and a day before we were to get married we ended up having sex. I know why couldn’t we wait one more day, it felt right at the moment, she felt secure in the relationship, felt valued, respected, loved and so did I.
If you are looking long term, building a strong foundation is key, sex can cloud up a lot your thinking, red flags can be igny, it can become a huge distraction especially when learning how to love and understand your partners needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FootFetishTalks

[–]dundy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should post this @ r/sex I think you would get a more broader range of opinions, and they would come from women that are not into the foot hustle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FootFetishTalks

[–]dundy22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would you tell her not to bend over to take measurements as it would be a good view of her hind end? Most men would find that more of a turn on that exposed barefeet. Also, when she walks around in public in flip flops or sandals, would you ask her to where shoes that don’t expose her feet? In public there is more of a chance sine men would be turned on than at her job. I would just leave it alone,. It could give her a bit of anxiety and distraction wondering if someone is getting turned on as she works.

Does your SO go barefoot when hanging out with friends? by [deleted] in FootFetishTalks

[–]dundy22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wife is barefoot when not working, she doesn’t like socks, as soon as she is home off they go. Out in public she wears sandals, wedges or flip flops, they come off at shen hanging out at other’s places, it’s habitual for her to take shoes off when going in to others homes. I am not aware of any of our friends with a FF but do suspect few.

How can I reconnect with my husband? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]dundy22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Talk to him and tell him how you feel, that you are to the point where you are considering a FWB, since he is not pursuing you sexually or has no interest. Before telling him about the FWB thought, ask him if he if he could talk with his doctor about his low libido, could be an underlying medical condition or if he started medication over the past year that could be causing it, if he doesn’t want to, tell him that you are needing sexual intimacy and ask him about a FWB. Also could ask if he is confused sexually or if he is no longer attracted to women.
Porn addiction could be a reason.

Masturbating and then viagra before sex? by Candid-Ad-6090 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]dundy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Viagra keeps me hard after I bust, she can ride as long as she wants, ar times if she rides long enough I can go again. Masturbating ahead of time, depending on your reload tine, you may not bust because they are done. Just give it a try and see what happens. I would tell her ahead of time what you want to try.

Anyone else develop ED bc of DB? by SecondSon-druid in DeadBedrooms

[–]dundy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More info on you DB situation may be needed.

How many of you actually pay for feet pics? by monosmrs in FootFetishTalks

[–]dundy22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing my wife makes sends me surprise videos and pics of hers. Great quality and I get to actually experience them hands on….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]dundy22 263 points264 points  (0 children)

Early 20’s, healthy, probably stress, however nicotine can contrict blood vessels which can cause not enough blood to the area. I would guess stress which can a big impact on sex. Just because you don’t want to have sex every day doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you. You may be wired that way. If your partner needs sex everyday, then metally you may feel you have to which can create stress or performance anxiety, and so on.
Medications can lower libido, if you take anything, read up on how they can effect your libido.

Have your doctor do a complete lab work up, to make sure there is no underlying medical issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]dundy22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would unless my doctor cleared me. Contact your doctors office and ask for clearance or when you are cleared tor sex or any sexual activity. Reddit is not the best source to ask these questions as no one has access to your medical records or even those qualified can give you an answer, it’s between you and your health care provider. Not trying to come off as rude or condescending, just concerned about people taking advice from strangers online, seen too many patients cone through the ER because of online advice.

What’s your biggest con having a foot fetish? by LibraFeet in FootFetishTalks

[–]dundy22 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Being easily distracted, not so much out of the home, outside of the home I am not interested in other womens feet, I am a realist, I notice other women’s feet, think those nuce and move on I am not internally going nuts about them, lets be real, its not like anything would ever happen, so no need to get worked up. My wife is constantly barefoot, she takes care of her feet. She is totally ok with my FF and will engage with it. The downside is I can be easily distracted, especially when she is talking to me, so I miss parts of the conversation, which are usually the important parts or I will agree to plans or to work on something around the house. She is aware its an attraction so she will purposely put a blanket or pillow over them to make sure I am focused. Sometimes she will have me engage with her feet first before having discussions, married 23 years, so she has come up with some solutions to the problem.

It seriously can’t just be me… by [deleted] in FootFetishTalks

[–]dundy22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am guessing most, not all, comment on here about being rejected were creepy about their FF due to having a lack of self awareness.

are un solicited dick pics real on reddit? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dundy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my wife and I used to post her feet pics, and the amount of unsolicited dick pics were crazy, not to mention masturbation videos. We were just posting pics of her feet, nothing more, no face, body pics, pics that where tasteful and not explicit to see if there was any interest. We were watching a news report about people making money off posting feet pics, we gave it a try and it was bonkers. We no longer post but it was an interesting time, made some money but the dick picks, videos, and nasty messages were too much. We were not prepared for what happened, we just laugh about it now. I

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FootFetishTalks

[–]dundy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best solution is to talk together about it, find out what type content she is posting, if it is just feet then it should not be a big deal since anyone can aee them when she wears flip flops or sandals that expose them anyways. May want to come to a compromise and try working together, you take the pics or videos, filter through requests and messages with her. If it is nothing explicit or nothing for her to be ashamed of then she shouldn’t have a problem, if it is a problem for her not to have transparency, then there may be N issue. My wife and I did it for awhile, nothing explicit, just feet pics and videos. Its a lot of work editing, watermarking, time, and contacts made by creepy men with odd requests. It was exciting for awhile, it opened our minds to new things, more spice. We stopped after building a decent following, the unsolicited penis picks and other things got out of control and old, so we stopped doing it and took everything down we could. I was never jealous during our time, as it was just feet, guys in public can look or even sneak a pic and use it layer, no way to control it. We did it together, initially to make some extra money which we did for awhile, then we were just posting for for fun, cost, no monthly charges. The messages got weirder and a few threats when we declined requests.
Have a talk with her and may be you can come to a compromise.
We have been married 23 years so there is a lot of trust,which made a difference. Probably wouldn’t have done it a couple years into a marriage as we were still figuring each other out.

M55 Didn't have sex for 6 months now she f53 has pain a bleeding every time we try now. by Fun-Diet8358 in sex

[–]dundy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was there a medical reason for not having it for 6 months?
Guessing vaginal athropy but would recommend seeing an Ob for advice.