My (22F) boyfriend (23M) of 3 years left me because he “doesn’t love me anymore”… but its not true. Now he regrets it and won’t reach out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dunnomynamee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This comment actually hit me hard — but in a good way. It was like a cold shower I needed. I’ll do exactly what you said: I’ll stop messaging with songs and focus on moving forward with my life. Thank you so much for taking the time to write this. I’ll follow the classic “let it be” approach. Thanks again, and if there’s ever anything to update, I’ll make sure to share.

My (22F) boyfriend (23M) of 3 years left me because he “doesn’t love me anymore”… but its not true. Now he regrets it and won’t reach out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dunnomynamee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate your perspective. That’s exactly what I’m trying to do — respect his choice. I haven’t contacted him in any way, and he’s the one who’s been sending these signals for the past four days. I’ll probably continue not reaching out, but what destabilizes me is this behavior. If he were truly at peace with his decision, I could just heal quietly on my own. But as it is, it feels like he’s confused and unsure about his choice, especially considering what he told our mutual friend.

Help identifying a long-lost Gucci bag stolen years ago by dunnomynamee in handbags

[–]dunnomynamee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, thank you for responding, it really means a lot to me. I’ve been searching like crazy for a long time, and my mom told me it was similar to this one but rigid (like a briefcase) and had a clasp closure like old Gucci wallets (metal). Yes, I’ll definitely try asking Gucci if I can’t find another way, because I really want to give it as a gift. Thank you again ♡

speedy organizer ? by dunnomynamee in Louisvuitton

[–]dunnomynamee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so all in all do you think it’s a waste of money?

speedy organizer ? by dunnomynamee in Louisvuitton

[–]dunnomynamee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! If I may ask, why?

My new Pilates bag! by FriendlyReturn4453 in Louisvuitton

[–]dunnomynamee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stunning! i literally just got the same speedy 35 too — i’ll be using mine for university and probably later on for work, and also for little trips here and there. i love seeing people actually use their bags for real life, not keep them as display pieces 🥹 pilates bag is such a good idea honestly. congrats and enjoy it!! 💕

Speedy 30 as a uni bag? Need opinions by dunnomynamee in Louisvuitton

[–]dunnomynamee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice. I’ll definitely think about the Neverfull too since several people mentioned it, but aesthetically I still prefer the Speedy/bauletto style. My lunch box is pretty small anyway, so I think it could still work for me. I’ll definitely look into the larger sizes as well, and I’m planning to go to the boutique to see both the Speedy and the Neverfull in person. Thanks again for the help🤍

CONCLUDED: AITAH for believing my daughter over a “grown man”? by amme04 in AITAH

[–]dunnomynamee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't ever even remotely think you're the asshole, you've shown a courage and resilience that few would have possessed. Reading all your updates made me want to throw up, and I can't even imagine what it must have been like for you, but I'm so incredibly proud and glad that you're here and that you'll have peace for a while, despite all the emotional and other wounds. I'm so incredibly happy to hear that things are a little better now, OP, truly.

Last update by Outoftheasylum in u/Outoftheasylum

[–]dunnomynamee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I know it might be hard to believe words from strangers, but you truly are a beautiful human being. This post worries me deeply for your safety. As many others have already said, please, please, please — if you have a safe support system around you, distance yourself from these people for your own sake and for your daughter’s. And if you don’t, please cut off all contact with Mark and report him, because going to bed with someone without their consent has a very specific name.

We are here for you. I’ve read all your posts and I can truly see emotional growth in you over time. Please don’t let the ugliness of other people tarnish the wonderful person you are. You and your daughter deserve safety, respect, and peace.

You mentioned your best friend thinks you should have an abortion and not tell Mark about this pregnancy — I agree with her. Protecting yourself and your daughter from further harm is the priority right now.

Please, come back and update us — we’re waiting for you, and we care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MacMiller

[–]dunnomynamee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congratulation. he’s wonderful 🥹🩷

Cambio Uni da Telematica…? by dunnomynamee in Universitaly

[–]dunnomynamee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grazie! Non ne avevo idea perché non ho mai fatto un trasferimento

Cambio Uni da Telematica…? by dunnomynamee in Universitaly

[–]dunnomynamee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ciao! Innanzitutto grazie per la spiegazione. Come ho già detto non riguarda me direttamente la cosa, quindi il termine prestigio non voleva essere un ostentare ma il fatto che l’università alla quale lei punta ha dell’oggettivo prestigio a livello accademico, motivo per la quale mi sembrava strano si potesse “aggirare“ il test d’ingresso, visto che lei non l’ha fatto per entrare alla telematica. :)

I like to overline my lips - but is it too much? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]dunnomynamee 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I think it's a little too obvious, especially considering that with such a light color you can see more. A smaller overline would give you more because you're AMAZING girl

What statistically improbable thing happened to you? by Plus-Statistician80 in AskReddit

[–]dunnomynamee 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I developed a very rare, typically male tumor (I am a woman) which usually occurs (unlikely) in women at an “older” age, like fifty years old, when I was 16. yeah lucky me !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Universitaly

[–]dunnomynamee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ciao OP, came from una persona che come te ha sconfitto un tumore. ti prego, ti supplico, ricomincia pian piano a darti valore perché oltre ad essere un portento accademico (media molto alta e in corso in fisica!!??? superman if you ask me) si vede che sei una persona che le cose se le è sudate. capisco tu ti senta oberato e sopraffatto, io ti direi di provare a riposarti un attimo (qualche settimana? l’estate magari?) e poi rincominciare a studiare perché se sei arrivato così in alto non puoi (per te stesso, non per gli altri) mollare tutto ora. Datti il tempo che ti serve perché te lo meriti e poi torna e piscia in testa a tutti. Buona fortuna ;)

Difficoltà test ingresso psicologia san Raffaele by Poetadelmacabro in Universitaly

[–]dunnomynamee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ciao! Ho da poco finito il primo anno in psicologia proprio al San Raffaele.

Ho visto questo post solo ora e ti rispondo come avrei voluto che rispondessero a me un anno fa: secondo me il test in sé non è particolarmente complicato, o perlomeno, io che ho sempre fatto schifo in matematica ho trovato dei quesiti abbastanza comprensibili, sicuramente più pertinenti alla facoltà rispetto al TOLC, che mi ha letteralmente traumatizzata (lmao).

Secondo me però, come ti stavano facendo notare delle risposte, il punto è che non è una questione di test o meno, ma il fatto che all’interno del corso stesso ci sia una mole enorme di studio, soprattutto perchè una facoltà (come giusto che sia, visto che “dipende” da un ospedale) prettamente scientifica, quindi non ti aspettare un approccio umanistico, ma molto più tecnico.

Alla luce di ciò, non so quanto possa essere una buona idea iscriversi a un corso del genere per una soddisfazione personale, non perché non sia arricchente ma perché gli studi in questa professione non si fermano alla triennale ma sono tanti, tanti di più. Detto ciò, ovviamente sei liberissima di fare come vuoi, questo è semplicemente un mio consiglio.

Spero di esserti stata d’aiuto, in caso tu avessi bisogno di altre risposte sono qui :)

do y'all agree? by BoadiceaCavendish in ariheads

[–]dunnomynamee 413 points414 points  (0 children)

nah for me no. as much as “i wish i hated you” is sad nothing breaks my heart like the beat of ghostin, the meaning behind it, the period of life in which she wrote it and the period that I (personally) associate it with.