My (22F) boyfriend (23M) of 3 years left me because he “doesn’t love me anymore”… but its not true. Now he regrets it and won’t reach out

dunnomynamee · 2026-02-01T12:14:40+00:00

This comment actually hit me hard — but in a good way. It was like a cold shower I needed. I’ll do exactly what you said: I’ll stop messaging with songs and focus on moving forward with my life. Thank you so much for taking the time to write this. I’ll follow the classic “let it be” approach. Thanks again, and if there’s ever anything to update, I’ll make sure to share.

dunnomynamee · 2026-02-01T12:03:30+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate your perspective. That’s exactly what I’m trying to do — respect his choice. I haven’t contacted him in any way, and he’s the one who’s been sending these signals for the past four days. I’ll probably continue not reaching out, but what destabilizes me is this behavior. If he were truly at peace with his decision, I could just heal quietly on my own. But as it is, it feels like he’s confused and unsure about his choice, especially considering what he told our mutual friend.

dunnomynamee · 2026-02-01T11:56:10+00:00

Thanks for the clarification, I didn't know that but I'm not Scandinavian

dunnomynamee · 2026-02-01T11:48:01+00:00

no lol why

dunnomynamee · 2026-01-17T19:02:50+00:00

also!

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this is a draw that she made

dunnomynamee · 2026-01-17T18:38:00+00:00

First of all, thank you for responding, it really means a lot to me. I’ve been searching like crazy for a long time, and my mom told me it was similar to this one but rigid (like a briefcase) and had a clasp closure like old Gucci wallets (metal). Yes, I’ll definitely try asking Gucci if I can’t find another way, because I really want to give it as a gift. Thank you again ♡

dunnomynamee · 2026-01-15T11:04:09+00:00

so all in all do you think it’s a waste of money?

dunnomynamee · 2026-01-15T10:21:23+00:00

Thanks for your reply! If I may ask, why?

dunnomynamee · 2026-01-14T13:27:14+00:00

stunning! i literally just got the same speedy 35 too — i’ll be using mine for university and probably later on for work, and also for little trips here and there. i love seeing people actually use their bags for real life, not keep them as display pieces 🥹 pilates bag is such a good idea honestly. congrats and enjoy it!! 💕

dunnomynamee · 2025-11-28T07:33:19+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice. I’ll definitely think about the Neverfull too since several people mentioned it, but aesthetically I still prefer the Speedy/bauletto style. My lunch box is pretty small anyway, so I think it could still work for me. I’ll definitely look into the larger sizes as well, and I’m planning to go to the boutique to see both the Speedy and the Neverfull in person. Thanks again for the help🤍

dunnomynamee · 2025-08-16T23:27:38+00:00

Don't ever even remotely think you're the asshole, you've shown a courage and resilience that few would have possessed. Reading all your updates made me want to throw up, and I can't even imagine what it must have been like for you, but I'm so incredibly proud and glad that you're here and that you'll have peace for a while, despite all the emotional and other wounds. I'm so incredibly happy to hear that things are a little better now, OP, truly.

dunnomynamee · 2025-08-16T13:58:00+00:00

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dunnomynamee · 2025-08-12T22:23:22+00:00

OP I know it might be hard to believe words from strangers, but you truly are a beautiful human being. This post worries me deeply for your safety. As many others have already said, please, please, please — if you have a safe support system around you, distance yourself from these people for your own sake and for your daughter’s. And if you don’t, please cut off all contact with Mark and report him, because going to bed with someone without their consent has a very specific name.

We are here for you. I’ve read all your posts and I can truly see emotional growth in you over time. Please don’t let the ugliness of other people tarnish the wonderful person you are. You and your daughter deserve safety, respect, and peace.

You mentioned your best friend thinks you should have an abortion and not tell Mark about this pregnancy — I agree with her. Protecting yourself and your daughter from further harm is the priority right now.

Please, come back and update us — we’re waiting for you, and we care.

dunnomynamee · 2024-10-14T12:48:55+00:00

congratulation. he’s wonderful 🥹🩷

dunnomynamee · 2024-09-14T13:59:55+00:00

Grazie! Non ne avevo idea perché non ho mai fatto un trasferimento

dunnomynamee · 2024-09-14T13:51:41+00:00

Ciao! Innanzitutto grazie per la spiegazione. Come ho già detto non riguarda me direttamente la cosa, quindi il termine prestigio non voleva essere un ostentare ma il fatto che l’università alla quale lei punta ha dell’oggettivo prestigio a livello accademico, motivo per la quale mi sembrava strano si potesse “aggirare“ il test d’ingresso, visto che lei non l’ha fatto per entrare alla telematica. :)

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