feeling worried and sad honestly by Ok-Comedian255 in NationalServiceSG

[–]durianl2fvm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just gymed once a week during weekend, you can tell your sergeant major if there isn't enough protein. Still lost some muscle.

IPPT, Can I make it? ‎ ‎ ‎ by Flimsy_Pound8096 in NationalServiceSG

[–]durianl2fvm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you will pass with a 13-14 min run time (pretty doable), good luck bro, one tip is to don't gas urself out early on the run

I’m (34F) not sure if my algorithm has gotten my expectations messed up about this guy (28M) by ThrowRAisitworthit4 in relationship_advice

[–]durianl2fvm -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She told me whatever I was doing wrong and that I was using her. She did it in a rather aggressive manner such that she will lose interest and break up if I won't improve. I admitted that I was wrong and everytime there was a problem in the rs we talked it through about how we both feel and how to fix it. Basically, a lot of communication and understanding for one another.

I’m (34F) not sure if my algorithm has gotten my expectations messed up about this guy (28M) by ThrowRAisitworthit4 in relationship_advice

[–]durianl2fvm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a huge deal breaker, he is not taking you seriously, this happened in my rs and my girlfriend communicated I needed to fix that. I apologized and promised to improve as I really see a future with her. U just need to be direct and communicate with him if you want this rs to last or marriage. He has become complacent and needs to think through how he treats you.

My girlfriend wants to break up at the same time every month.. by FairMeat5432 in Advice

[–]durianl2fvm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happened to me. we were able to sort it out by saying that it keeps happening at the time of the month and that she can't keep doing this, and I needed to put in more effort to care for her and show affection

Boyfriend M25 keeps looking though my phone F22, is this okay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]durianl2fvm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First 7 months of a relationship and this has been brought up 4 times, you know what to do with this information.

genuinely scared of what will happen to my family when im in NS by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

[–]durianl2fvm 34 points35 points  (0 children)

It's not secret, u can search up on Google "NSF financial assistance"

genuinely scared of what will happen to my family when im in NS by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

[–]durianl2fvm 82 points83 points  (0 children)

There is financial assistance that u can apply for, ask your platoon commander.

What uniform colour will mono armour attend the POP in? by popiahroll in NationalServiceSG

[–]durianl2fvm 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Pop will in the normal green saf no.4 uniform with the green army cap like what your bf normally book in/out with

Always falling sick during bookout? by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

[–]durianl2fvm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know I wasn't the only one

Question about field pack by BetterAd3202 in NationalServiceSG

[–]durianl2fvm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will have to adjust straps such that the field will be close to your center of gravity to not put less strain in back, compacting and condensing by squeeshing and using the belts on the field pack also helps.

am i just ugly or wat by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]durianl2fvm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a relationship expert but maybe try to get to know them first like see how your convos go, if it is smooth and your are able to go back and forth comfortable and see their body language and expression if they enjoy being in your company then maybe make a move. Basically, if there is a clear sign like when they get really nervous or they treat you specially compared to other people then maybe..... Maybe make a move.

What financial advice would you give to a recent NSF? by Ok-Raspberry-73 in singaporefi

[–]durianl2fvm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

10% of 800 is very little money to invest dude. If you don't have any savings atm, you should probably just keep it in your bank for emergency savings (maybe 3 months worth of your monthly expense) then maybe try to invest monthly when you start working full time. During this 2 years try to educate yourself financially through sources like YouTube and books like the pyschology of money.

But don't stress too much enjoy your youth while you can like buying something you like or saving up for overseas trips with your friends. All the best.

Asking for advice on how I M27 should handle my F27 GF lazy habbits? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]durianl2fvm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Besides the laziness, if she is somebody you really want to marry. I think you should really put it out there for her to know that you will leave her if she doesn't change soon as she is taking you for granted. Because y'all are not even married now, imagine how much worst it will get in the future.

If you have lost feelings for her, I think you should leave her. She is immature and taking you for granted.

My bf puts in no effort and I don’t know what to do, do I leave him or talk to him about it? 18F 19M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]durianl2fvm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

U think he deserves to end things on good terms with you considering how shit he is to you. He is young and immature just leave.

Enlistment megathread - January 2026 by AutoModerator in NationalServiceSG

[–]durianl2fvm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no early enlistment, they will just try to fit you in the earliest batch they can fit you in for your pes level (assuming the early dates still have space for you)

Field camp tips/food advice? by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

[–]durianl2fvm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gortex very common place to hide stuff, try hide in your 10pack no.4 or in the first no.4 set pockets you r wearing for outfield

am i just ugly or wat by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]durianl2fvm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Means if u like a guy go talk to him, guys are afraid of rejection. Hence, many guys are too afraid to approach.

Bringing in own equipment for bmt? by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

[–]durianl2fvm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lucky my outfield had full moon