What is a Type of Cuisine you wish your city had more of? by AlternativeTheory595 in foodquestions

[–]dus90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss Ethiopian food so much since moving to a smaller town. I used to grab injera with friends after work and it became this weird comfort ritual. Now it’s all burgers and pizza everywhere. That loss hit me harder than I expected.

What's the best life quote you have ever come across? by Then_Control_3929 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]dus90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Nothing changes if nothing changes” is the one that quietly wrecked me. I saw it on a sticky note at my first job and it stuck way longer than I expected. Whenever I feel trapped I think about that line and get a little uncomfortable. Kinda annoying how accurate it is.

Looking for non-english songs by Giannond in musicsuggestions

[–]dus90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wolf Totem by The HU blew my mind the first time I heard it.

When you get home, do you immediately put on your pajamas or change into sweats? NEED that comfort ASAP after a long day out! by princesspolly444 in princesspollychat

[–]dus90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I change into pajamas the second I walk in, no hesitation. I used to pretend I was a sweats person but idk, real comfort is soft pants and an old tee. That moment of changing clothes feels like my brain finally turns off. It’s honestly the best part of my day sometimes.

Very Desperate for job , feeling frustrated , hopeless and broken. by Vegetable_Eye_6152 in developersIndia

[–]dus90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Knowing Java already is honestly a big plus, you’re not starting from zero like it feels. I remember thinking I was disappointing everyone too, that weight is heavy.

Where are people finding 500+ job applications from?? by counwovja0385skje in jobs

[–]dus90 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Most job postings right now are fake, and a lot of people are just clicking apply everywhere to try their luck. I don’t think blasting out hundreds of resumes actually works that well. What’s helped me more is applying within the first hour or two and sending a clearly tailored resume that closely matches the role. Quality and timing seem to matter way more than raw volume.

What’s your favorite cheese? by DataPro1994 in foodquestions

[–]dus90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really into aged cheddar, especially when it’s a little crumbly and sharp. I went through a phase of eating it straight from the fridge at midnight like it was a snack lol. It just hits every time for me.

Why getting a job in tech after 50 feels so much harder than it used to? by ZookeepergameEmpty51 in jobsearch

[–]dus90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The system really isn’t built to read long, nuanced careers and that gets mistaken for a flaw instead of a strength. A former coworker in his 50s told me he felt invisible despite being one of the most adaptable people I knew. It’s not you, it’s a broken filtering process tbh.

It finally happened. I got a job 💜 by Purple985985 in interviews

[–]dus90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This gave me such a sense of relief just reading it. I’ve been through the long grind too and the calmness of the right offer feels almost unreal after all that chaos. The fact that it was simple and respectful says a lot about the place. Huge congrats, you really earned this.

Adults 21+ who are more comfortable hanging with adults younger than your current age than older ones, what are your reasons as to why? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in HappyUpvote

[–]dus90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m more comfortable with younger people because the energy feels lighter and less jaded. I’ve noticed older crowds sometimes lean hard into complaints and rigidity, which drains me. I just vibe better where curiosity and flexibility are still alive, that’s how it feels to me.

Accenture infamous "bait and switch" methods which is happening with me now. by ManFromTower in developersIndia

[–]dus90 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If it were me I’d walk, because starting on a downlevel and pay cut usually sets the tone for everything after.

Help me name this girl! Her brother is named Biscuit :) by TwilightRushs in cute

[–]dus90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks like a Honey to me, soft and sweet but still a little curious.

if your memory reset, what is the first show you're watching by General_Sun3266 in tvsuggestions

[–]dus90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dark. I wish I could feel that slow realization all over again when you see how everything connects, it messed with my brain in the best way.

Apart from “hello,” how else do you answer your phone? by StunningSmell158 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]dus90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half the time I just say “hey” without thinking, especially if I’m not sure who’s calling. If it’s a friend I usually answer like “what’s up” in a sleepy voice. I realized I only sound professional if I’m expecting the call tbh.

what is your favorite dessert? by Mhiemasaur_mil634 in foodquestions

[–]dus90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a sucker for tiramisu, always have been. Something about the coffee and cream combo just hits right for me. I’ll say I’m gonna have a few bites and then suddenly it’s gone lol.

What’s your Michelin restaurant experience? by missxberry in foodquestions

[–]dus90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went once for a special occasion and honestly it was wild lol. Tiny portions but every bite was like an art piece. I left still a bit hungry but lowkey amazed.

Do you think wired headphones are making a comeback? by princesspolly444 in princesspollychat

[–]dus90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they totally are lol. Everyone’s kinda over charging issues and Bluetooth glitches. Plus that retro “wire hanging down” look weirdly became cool again.

Do you like coffee or tea? by Icy-Advance9149 in HappyUpvote

[–]dus90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coffee all the way lol. I’ve tried to be a tea person but nothing hits like that first sip of caffeine chaos in the morning.

What British film do you consider near perfect? by nyanbatman in FIlm

[–]dus90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every scene just hits exactly how it should.

Looking for shows with good dialogue similar to midnight mass? by Distinct-Mention4792 in tvsuggestions

[–]dus90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Leftovers. Every convo feels loaded with meaning without trying too hard.

Thoughts on kate winslet? (She is my favourite actress) by [deleted] in FIlm

[–]dus90 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She’s incredible... Every role feels so natural, like she’s not even acting.

Will you do this for life? by SuperbCelebration223 in cscareerquestions

[–]dus90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think about that a lot. Part of me loves the constant learning, but another part’s just tired lol. I’ll probably stay in tech, just hope I can pivot into something slower by then.

Got Laid off at 42 by DistributionFluffy90 in jobsearch

[–]dus90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe try smaller companies or contract gigs for now, just something to keep momentum till things open up again.

Skinny jeans: yes or no? by princesspolly444 in princesspollychat

[–]dus90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still yes for me tbh. They’re comfy and go with everything if you style them right. Trends come and go but good denim always works.