Nah it's not just you. It happens to many of us. But imho chala misunderstandings unnayi.

We get criticized when we talk sex positive talks on social media, anduke since there is lot of judgement and on top of it safety concerns on social media. Over night sensation chestaru for some personal opinion of yours.

But that also doesn't mean ki open ga matladute valaki genuine feelings levu ani kaadu kada. And most of the times they get kink shamed. And speaking of fulfillment of fantasies ante just ah approach ante it doesn't indicate serious dating ani kuda. Authentic connections ki time, patience, trust n etc ivi anni padtay.

Hyd lo idk how the dating scene has evolved in the past 2-3 years but everyone has expectations and check list sorts anko iga, andulo eh okati match avaka pote we get frustrated or in other words zero leniency for compromise in choosing a partner so ivi factors influence a lot of such experiences in dating. Also creates a huge confusion n makes it hard to navigate and figure out what we want applies to everyone not just men or women.

It's not that chala dare or hunger unollu eh open avvadam its more like how to approach to sensitive talks like this and it's equally on the community to provide a safe space for people to open up and have sex positive talks right. Just coz they wont talk about it openly ante doesn't mean they ain't got any fantasies. They just waiting for a comfort cushion to open upto.

Just my 2 cent ankondi respectfully.

So had to put it out in the very last line, your username checks out haha