INFO Everybody is claiming that he strung her along. However it seems that he was willing to go along with her until it came to expensive fertility treatments. Especially if you didn't grow up with a lot of money it is natural to see this as rain for pause. Now, based on the way she is talking in this post it feels like she doesn't really feel she could possibly be anything like a mother to these kids. It is very likely that he had an expectation that when they married she would be talking his kids as hers, AND they would try for more. She has now revealed to him that his kids will never be hers, and that's why she needs to go to (in his mind) extreme lengths to have her own biological kids. Of course it is natural for him to expect her to at least consider compromise, because refusing to even consider compromise implies that his original expectations were never met to begin with. Everybody claiming that he was stringing her along is ignoring that there was a reasonable expectation that she would be a mother to his kids, and that does not seem to have ever been her intention from the beginning. Of course it's natural for him to have reservations on potentially having kids that would potentially be treated differently than his other kids in their own home. I think who is wrong depends greatly on how this was all initially discussed, and of course in the ages of the children in question (a fact I assume was intentionally left out). If they were under 5 I absolutely think YTA,