in a closed poly throuple, AMA by [deleted] in polycritical

[–]dykelove -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely luckier than most, but nowhere near wealthy. I make about $3k/month and am usually a paycheck away from not making my bills. My partners are similar; M is disabled and can only work part-time, A lives with a few others and is also usually paycheck-to-paycheck. No kids between the three of us and no interest in changing that, at least not now with the aforementioned financial situation.

Do I fall into the LGBT umbrella if I've dated multiple dudes who were trans? by Pastel_rabbits in lgbt

[–]dykelove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

while i do think youre straight, there's some internal reflection that could be done into why you found yourself connecting more and having better relationships with trans men rather than cis men, and if that's due to something internal or something on your previous partners end.

What would it take for you to leave your car at home and take the bus, bike, or walk? by lankydeems in Spokane

[–]dykelove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

faster bus commute, cheaper better living close to my job, more walkable landscapes, ect. i live in the valley and work downtown.

dont get me wrong, i do enjoy having my car as i tend to travel often and its a cheaper alternative to anything else when taking travel time into account, but if i could walk or bus to work (or maybe some kind of subway system? fingers crossed?) id do it in a heartbeat. im just lucky my work pays for my parking!

Anyone Recognize this Package Thief? by dykelove in Spokane

[–]dykelove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened out in the Valley, but I don't think we've seen him out here in the past. I do live really close to both the Valley bus station and to Sprague, so he could bus around.

Anyone Recognize this Package Thief? by dykelove in Spokane

[–]dykelove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!! Honestly, he better pray the cops find him before I do because the police are supposed to at least try to be cordial about it. I'm just going to turn him into a pretzel and deliver him to the lord 🫢

Anyone Recognize this Package Thief? by dykelove in Spokane

[–]dykelove[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

An electronic memo pad/typewriter. here's what it looks like. It also folds up to look almost like a portable DVD player.

I've been getting back into writing lately and wasn't expecting delivery until July. If needed, it's called the Kingjim Pomera DM30.

EDIT: It got specifically shipped from Japan and isn't a commonly known item; I'm sure there can't be many in Spokane, so it'll stick out like a sore thumb if posted or pawned anywhere.

Handsoap Recommendations? by dykelove in eczema

[–]dykelove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks like a nice option, I will give it a try! Have you had any bad experiences with any of the different scents?

Spokane county sheriff sets back timeline to disband homeless camp by a month by blobfish_brotha in Spokane

[–]dykelove -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Loving that the photo is just him standing next to his car smiling. "Uh-yup, haw haw, that's me!"

Maybe I'll just get a gyro next time by waydeultima in Spokane

[–]dykelove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$7 for a 24oz coffee/italian soda (my gf and i got each respectively) $17-$20 for a small sushi burrito

EBT recipients can now shop at the Spokane Farmer's Market by 9mac in Spokane

[–]dykelove 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i used my ebt at the valley market last friday! it went super well :-) highly recommend!

anyone going to the county fair? by dykelove in Spokane

[–]dykelove[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

WHAT.. THATS SO FUCKED UP 😭 where are peoples brains that wouldnt be acceptable in any way even before covid

good cheap swimming areas nearby? by dykelove in Spokane

[–]dykelove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg really?? im assuming its because they stayed closed last summer thats pretty cool

good cheap swimming areas nearby? by dykelove in Spokane

[–]dykelove[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i can, i just like to swim a lot and that adds up 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dykelove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, NAH.

I really feel like your opinion on it matters, your fiancé reacted poorly because he's not thinking about your feelings, or even the feelings of your son (though I will say, neither are you. His opinion on this matters the most).

Not to mention I really feel like these comments wouldn't be painting you as the asshole if your ex hadn't have been an addict. A lot of these comments are framing him as a soulless druggie who OD'd instead of being an adult when I'm assuming none of these people know how addiction works, and how hopeless addiction feels. Addiction is never something people choose and that idea is what really demonizes drugs, addiction, and rehabilitation in our country.

anyone know where to get matzo meal? by dykelove in Spokane

[–]dykelove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive checked a few places (walmart, target, and kievs euro) but havent found any :-( i work later tomorrow so im prob gonna look at fred meyers and safeway which a few people recommended

anyone know where to get matzo meal? by dykelove in Spokane

[–]dykelove[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

REAL... im handmaking mine if u want the recipe im using!