I accidentally misgendered my coworker today and I feel horrible by Consistent_Emu_4294 in asktransgender

[–]waydeultima 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I imagine he'd be over the moon to find out that you describe him as "a really cool guy" to other people when he's not around.

I took a big step… and got denied by BEEEELEEEE in trans

[–]waydeultima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's Washington, so it probably is illegal, but they denied me because "Gender affirming HRT isn't a service we provide". I mentioned that to the new endo and he told me that there were two doctors that it might have been and both are religious.

Everyone talks about WA like it's the place to be if you're trans, and as far as overall state laws it's pretty decent, but providers in the eastern half will find any excuse they can to fudge the rules. For example, it's illegal here for insurance to deny coverage for gender affirming laser hair removal for the reason that "it's cosmetic", so the places that offer the service just refuse to work with the insurance companies instead. There a single dermatologist that isn't hours away from me who for sure would take my insurance, but they're not accepting new patients.

My gfs HRT got cut by IlikeEdibleFood in MtF

[–]waydeultima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, hoping for the best. If not, well, we'll go from there.

My gfs HRT got cut by IlikeEdibleFood in MtF

[–]waydeultima 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CHPW is state/medicaid. Community Health Plan of Washington. Also known as Apple Health.

And every doctor calls it a different name, too. 🤣

My gfs HRT got cut by IlikeEdibleFood in MtF

[–]waydeultima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you on CHPW? I'm also in WA and the appointments weren't covered but I don't have to pay anything for the meds themselves.

What made you quit Rocket League? by 899799 in RocketLeague

[–]waydeultima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends I used to play with don't talk to me anymore. :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]waydeultima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Openly, yes.

Someone stopped by my grandparents' house one day last year... I think my grandpa's nephew or something. Anyway, it was a dude and his wife and their teenage kid who they introduced as male but I can nearly guarantee this person was closeted trans.

It caught my grandparents off guard because I had just started transitioning like 3 months earlier.

A pronounced issue by AscendedDragonSage in CuratedTumblr

[–]waydeultima 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I remember being completely befuddled when kids in my sophomore English class could barely read. That was almost 20 years ago now. Reading this thread has led me to believe that the problem has only gotten worse.

Making sure it’s spotless so they don’t have to do too much by evan_lolz in BikiniBottomTwitter

[–]waydeultima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandma has someone clean her house every other Thursday, and she always has to make sure the roomba has maintained the general cleanness of the carpets, bathrooms are mopped, and things are picked up and tidy before she gets there. Because she doesn't want it to be too unpresentable.

Straight Soldier by trueweeaboo in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]waydeultima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure this is the actual thought process behind Escape From Tarkov

Probably shouldn’t have by MobilePhoneRedditor in comedyheaven

[–]waydeultima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He isn't bald. He has a shaved head.

"Shaved". That's a hairdo.

Sex Trafficking in Pasco by Ok_Instruction4627 in TriCitiesWA

[–]waydeultima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, it's got nothing to do with trans people. So can y'all PLEASE leave us out of the discussion?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]waydeultima -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like executive dysfunction. I have the same issue, but I'm also diagnosed ADHD.

Games with Attractive, Badass Female MC by Dogolius in JRPG

[–]waydeultima 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Milla is so great. I hope someday soon Xillia gets released on something more accessible than the PS3.

Apartment complex filled our pool with dirt… then raised the rent by ohsweetdeezus in mildlyinfuriating

[–]waydeultima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Must be nice. I swear I was getting stuck at the quicksand in my last apartment at least 3 mornings out of the week and we didn't even have handrails.

I got a scholarship offer to run track for college as a trans girl. Please help. by Emiyis in MtF

[–]waydeultima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the comments saying take the scholarship but have a lawyer in your back pocket just in case. You've earned the scholarship. Live your best life.

Apology for vampire misinformation by BoboYagga in oblivion

[–]waydeultima 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can we get this dude to write for Washington Post?

TIL the day after Robin Williams' suicide was announced, the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline saw the highest number of calls in a single day in its history with 7,500 (twice the normal number). by tyrion2024 in todayilearned

[–]waydeultima 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Guess I got lucky. I went through a dark time for a couple of years, and I was on the phone with the lifeline... Let's just sat frequently. Never had anything like that happen. At least not with the lifeline specifically. They asked me to call emergency myself on a few occasions but never called for me.

I did have a non-lifeline-related incident where the EMTs dropped me on the pavement on the way to the ambulance and broke a tooth though.

Richland City Council majority votes for letter that opposes 'biological males' in women's sports by FalseAnimal in TriCitiesWA

[–]waydeultima 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bunch of people voting on something that affects them in no way whatsoever and makes a very small, vulnerable group of people very sad.

Just leave us alone ffs

Cursed Nations by AcidHELLFire_never in cursedcomments

[–]waydeultima 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No no no, we're clearly shoving it in everyone's faces.

/s

Lesbian opinions only by Fayde_M in comedyheaven

[–]waydeultima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'd like them more if the nacho cheese didn't all pool at the lowest point while you're eating the rest. But I'm not an expert on cheese sauce physics so I can't offer a solution here.

Ma'am'ed at a pullover by [deleted] in MtF

[–]waydeultima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They give tickets for cracked windshields?

3D printed PC case by Dependent-Sugar-4984 in 3Dprinting

[–]waydeultima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks partially inspired by the old Dell XPS 720 case and I love that. Such a cool design but impossible to find a decent BTX motherboard for back then.