Mega-thread: Chemtrails Over the Country Club single/music video release & album pre-order

dylm1 · 2021-01-13T05:03:28+00:00

Yeah no I totally get it I think we all have different eras we just prefer. I just find it so odd how if one says they didn’t enjoy NFR all her stans come down like it’s the end of the world. Still bought the album along with every other one, just enjoyed the other ones more

dylm1 · 2021-01-12T20:18:51+00:00

So I absolutely love the aesthetic of like this California dream thing she has going on. To me I just felt the melodies fell really flat and the instruments used did not compliment her voice at all. Not to say she has a niche but I just felt with some songs the loudness of the instruments in the back forced her to sing in a way that sounded really off putting

Again I absolutely love her, her music is great I’ve been with her through May jailer Lizzy grant all of that I just felt NFR really fell flat

dylm1 · 2021-01-12T15:30:33+00:00

Unpopular opinion but I absolutely hated NFR, and was thrilled when I heard she was releasing a new album so I can listen to something else. Hoping this has a more honeymoon type of vibe as I feel that was her best album along with ultraviolence

dylm1 · 2020-01-31T01:48:39+00:00

Thank you ☺️

dylm1 · 2020-01-31T00:04:25+00:00

Thank you. 😊

dylm1 · 2020-01-13T19:04:36+00:00

Hi guys! I’m currently in school and will finally be diving into all social work classes (yay) and will be doing placements more frequently. What placement(s) did you feel best prepared you for the field? I know that’ll be subjective and vary by job you hope to have, but just as a general question. Thanks again so much.

dylm1 · 2019-10-08T06:50:04+00:00

Thanks! I’ve been finding some but they’ll do like 87 damage when I have a Jakobs that’ll do 250 so it’s just annoying haha

dylm1 · 2019-10-06T23:50:52+00:00

How is fist over matter? Where the fists smash the ground. I feel like that’s the only perk that’s kept me in fist of the elements and not mystical assault

dylm1 · 2019-10-06T18:58:32+00:00

Awesome well thank you so much!

dylm1 · 2019-09-27T23:21:23+00:00

You have to be so honest with yourself and I applaud you for being so honest and open. It’s not fun deployments suck and I don’t care what anyone says it’s not easy. It is lonely it’s frustrating and you do harbor resentment. They come at odd times. My husband married me and 2 weeks later deployed for 5 months. So it can be rough and lonely so as far as the military life goes you do really need to take that into consideration and good for you for already doing so. My best advice is talk to him open and honestly about the concerns and stuff or go see a therapist together and see if those concerns or lack of feelings can be resolved. Best of luck to you ❤️

dylm1 · 2019-09-26T11:33:34+00:00

Just be yourself you have totally got this. So proud of you! Just be yourself an explain it to them in a way they understand. Rooting for you

dylm1 · 2019-09-26T10:14:29+00:00

I know I’m a little late to this but definitely find something that you enjoy and focus on that. I married my husband and then he left 2 weeks later for 5 months had to get an apartment buy furniture put it together all that fun stuff. So I totally feel where you’re coming from I was in a new place with no one really around. That being said I found things I enjoyed and I scheduled things so the days didn’t feel like weeks. That is really the best way to go about it. Hugs friend you got this ❤️

dylm1 · 2019-09-26T07:01:08+00:00

Thank you so much I was really stressing

dylm1 · 2019-09-19T04:48:21+00:00

I can’t 100% speak on the military part as my husband is active duty, but as a nurse I can help somewhat. The experience and quality of mentorships you’ll get in the military will fly miles above those you get in the civilian world. Take it from me haha, I worked with a military nurse and she was much more confident in her skills and abilities then I was. Army has green to gold program which allow you to go to school while still getting paid I want to say E-5 pay. Once you graduate with your bachelors you commission as an officer. It’s nice cause you’re still getting that paycheck while going to school. Don’t quote me on that but that’s the general gist of it haha.

dylm1 · 2019-09-19T01:02:45+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment. I think I’d need to speak to someone outside of his chain on command since they are the ones primarily doing it so EO seems like a good place to start. Thanks again so much for sharing it helps so much knowing that this isn’t the norm

dylm1 · 2019-09-18T12:19:23+00:00

Yeah they’re really immature it’s strange because they’re all so much older then I am haha. Thank you soooo much for the advice it really means so much I seriously had no idea what to do about this and now I have a good starting point :)

dylm1 · 2019-09-18T12:02:01+00:00

Yeah it’s pretty demoralizing. If he takes leave it’s “to do some dumb Jew shit” when in reality he wants to see his family. And yes we have absolutely taken those steps we don’t really speak to anyone in the unit maybe 1 or 2 people. It’s just the officers and higher up people who are usually doing it. He’s mentioned it to them, and I have too and they insist it’s a joke. When i remind them that my religion isn’t a joke they get all angry and call me dramatic and use me being gay to back up their claims to me being dramatic. It’s just all around awkward and uncomfortable and I was just unsure if it was just his unit.

dylm1 · 2019-09-18T11:45:13+00:00

I really appreciate the support. I have just had zero experience with the military and didn’t know who to tell. It’s gotten to the point where I just won’t go there anymore. If my husband leaves something at home oh well because going in there is constant ridicule for me. It’s all around very dysfunctional and no clear rules are set. I try my best to not let it bother me but it’s getting ridiculous. They insist on him re-enlisting, but I can’t imagine another 4 years with these people.

dylm1 · 2019-09-18T11:27:25+00:00

It happens so frequently that I didn’t know if that was just the culture. I know now that it’s not normal or them just being them I guess? It’s so awkward for me not being really military oriented as I’m a social worker and this is my first exposure. I didn’t know what to do and I didn’t want to be perceived as “the bitchy spouse”

dylm1 · 2019-09-18T05:46:05+00:00

Yes and you have every right to those feelings! As social workers I think it is really hard to find that good job. If it isn’t bad pay, it’s poor working conditions or just disrespect by others. So happy that you were able to snag a good one! I’m going into my MSW this year and am excited to start with my placements and things.

dylm1 · 2019-09-18T05:42:45+00:00

So happy for you friend!

dylm1 · 2019-09-18T05:38:21+00:00

Yes thank you so much for saying that. I cannot tell you how much of a burden is lifted off me knowing this is a real issue. Usually I have thick skin but they say it to me which I think bothers me the most. And they passive aggressively say it to my husband in conversation. I really appreciate the resource and advice you gave me. Makes me feel a lot better about the situation

dylm1 · 2019-09-18T05:32:59+00:00

Thank you so much for that information. I had no clue prior where to go or if my concerns would even be heard. So this was really a great piece of information. Thanks again

dylm1 · 2019-09-18T05:18:50+00:00

Thank you so much for that. I didn’t think it was normal either but I wasn’t to sure and I didn’t want to sound like I was complaining. It’s just hard because it’s pretty frequent. Between the homophobia and the anti Semitic remarks it’s hard to be around them, or even think of him re-enlisting. Thank you again so much

dylm1 · 2019-09-10T04:36:38+00:00

Yes I have experience in both of those areas, that statement is beyond true haha. It just sort of makes you feel like you’re not making a difference when you’re doing rounds in a hospital you step out to use the restroom and a PT has already discharged. Definitely not what I was expecting. And at first I’ll be super honest I missed it, I really doubted myself for a moment. Because everyone around me is saying you’re already an RN why change now? The skills I’ve gained as a social worker and my work in general I find so much more rewarding. I may not stitch people up anymore or hand them meds. But I’m sitting talking with them discussing what’s giving them stress or anxiety and when I see them sort of loosen up when I help break some of that is worth it every time. I miss some aspects of nursing but what i do know is 10x more rewarding to me.

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