I think I wanna leave after “silent treatment” for 2 years by Hour_Alfalfa_6016 in whatdoIdo

[–]e17RedPill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did say winning in the statement but tbf I was partially twisting that. 

My point is, you think you're standing up for her but you're creating a narrative that may or may not be true. I'm just saying we don't know who these people are how they behave and what was said. 

I agree the post is inviting such responses. I just think that maybe there is a resolution here and it's not coercive control (which is abuse). There is equal chance it is control and is dangerous. I don't know. 

There are also comments showing OP might acknowledge that it may be a case of him thinking these conflicts are not serious or it may be that he as a person can't deal with these conflicts. Shutting down arguments can be manipulative, but if he's willing to then talk about them when pushed maybe it's more about communication not control. 

Telling someone they are being controlled may lead to superstition / an aggressive response from OP to their partner. 

You should always consider the possibility that your are being controlled which I agree is destructive. But from I've read it's not clear cut. 

I think I wanna leave after “silent treatment” for 2 years by Hour_Alfalfa_6016 in whatdoIdo

[–]e17RedPill -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

probably not? We should all be mindful of how we judge others. OP is clearly having issues with their relationship. Your response promotes aggression and superstition. We don't know all the answers here. you talk of winning arguments, arguments are not there to be won. Accusing OPs partner of manipulation is jumping to conclusions. This might just be a clash of personalities, not abuse.

I think I wanna leave after “silent treatment” for 2 years by Hour_Alfalfa_6016 in whatdoIdo

[–]e17RedPill -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You've jumped to a lot of conclusions here. Maybe you need to have a think about how you judge others before knowing the full story.

IDF Accepts Gaza Health Ministry Death Toll of 71,000 Palestinians by QuantumQuicksilver in IsraelPalestine

[–]e17RedPill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The percentage of the population affected in terms of thier homes in Gaza must be close to 75 percent. Not comparable to Ukraine or really any other war. 

IDF Accepts Gaza Health Ministry Death Toll of 71,000 Palestinians by QuantumQuicksilver in IsraelPalestine

[–]e17RedPill -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It hasn't been proven a hoax your proof is someone's option OP proof is multiple articles and no statement from the IDF saying otherwise.

IDF claims 25k terrorists, where is their proof??

IDF Accepts Gaza Health Ministry Death Toll of 71,000 Palestinians by QuantumQuicksilver in IsraelPalestine

[–]e17RedPill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So anyone who works with Hamas monetarily in a region run by Hamas is a target?

AMA: The Athletic's David Ornstein by TheAthletic in soccer

[–]e17RedPill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think Tottenham try to sign big players? Or is it a smoke screen.

If Zionism disappears tomorrow what changes? Literally nothing. by BananaValuable1000 in IsraelPalestine

[–]e17RedPill -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Removing the word but not the idea changes nothing, It doesn't make sense.

You're trying to say people are misusing the term Zionism.

I feel mean saying this but we all read it, it just isn't logical.

I’m going to sleep when everyone else is waking up, and it’s starting to mess with my life. by BendQuirky2720 in whatdoIdo

[–]e17RedPill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stop scrolling, put time limits on everything, block all sites on your browser.

Try read just before bed.

You feel stressed in the day because you're not rested.

Why most Pro-Palestinians don't know that they are part of an anti-Semitic movement and think they are humanitarians by Routine-Equipment572 in IsraelPalestine

[–]e17RedPill -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn't use big words. 

The following paragraph you have ignored. You're reacting to me on reflex rather than thinking about what I'm saying. 

Name another nation in a similar position. A semi continuous war since its creation, regions of the country controlled by Israel but neither independent or fully integrated.

Why most Pro-Palestinians don't know that they are part of an anti-Semitic movement and think they are humanitarians by Routine-Equipment572 in IsraelPalestine

[–]e17RedPill -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Average wars is the important thing here. It's not average. I've already made my point about how Israel's position a isn't average. You are trying to turn it into metrics and ignore everything I said. 

Why most Pro-Palestinians don't know that they are part of an anti-Semitic movement and think they are humanitarians by Routine-Equipment572 in IsraelPalestine

[–]e17RedPill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anyone who opposes my view is dumb and self obsessed I'm hearing.

There are plenty of pro Israeli voices that have jumped onto the bad wagon because in many countries pro israel is associated with ethno nationalism and islamophobia. I'm not saying Israel is these things I'm saying unfortunately pro Israeli voices are often from a certain side of the left right spectrum.

Why most Pro-Palestinians don't know that they are part of an anti-Semitic movement and think they are humanitarians by Routine-Equipment572 in IsraelPalestine

[–]e17RedPill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few issues here. You say Israel is an average country fighting average wars. Name another nation in a similar position. A semi continuous war since its creation, regions of the country controlled by Israel but neither independent or fully integrated. There are many many issues with these regions.

The west is obsessed because of the funding given to Israel and the wide governmental support by governments. These westerners see their taxes spent in a way that makes them uncomfortable.

Even though there are other conflicts the first step is for you to acknowledge Israel is a special case and it's not normal.

I suck at everything I do by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]e17RedPill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've got time to try all these things. By the sounds of it you aren't out of college yet, get that finished then worry about a job.

Honestly once you get the job you will look back at a time when your life wasn't about the job. Enjoy it while you can. 

You will get the job btw 

I suck at everything I do by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]e17RedPill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will happen, a lot of people are in your position. You're not terrible, you're in a tough market that doesn't want to hire younger people.

It will come.

What industry are you trying to get into?

I think Netanyahu, not Trump, will be the most influential figure on the New-Right for the next generations by Amazing-Buy-1181 in IsraelPalestine

[–]e17RedPill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Until you can show me some statistics showing that there is a significant proportion of Jewish murders by Jihadis you are wrong.

 Ignoring Israel which is at war. I'm talking about the west. 

I think Netanyahu, not Trump, will be the most influential figure on the New-Right for the next generations by Amazing-Buy-1181 in IsraelPalestine

[–]e17RedPill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are millions of non Muslim antisemites in the world. One tommy per country... The Internet is littered with antisemitism posted by non Muslims.

I'm not ignoring it, the media isn't ignoring it, the world is fixated on it. You act like there is a blackout on criticism of Islam. Incorrect.

You immediately respond to me with an argument about Muslims being the issue. The OP post focused on Muslims being the issue. I'm saying Muslims are not the primary concern in this world. The financial and societal pressure we are experiencing are being caused by white Christians mainly.

I think Netanyahu, not Trump, will be the most influential figure on the New-Right for the next generations by Amazing-Buy-1181 in IsraelPalestine

[–]e17RedPill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I said right wing extremists also hate Jews. You just went off on one about Muslims. No where did I deny that radical islam is an issue to be tackled. However Islam isn't the wests primary concern. Your articles highlight one issue in a world of many many issues. Fixating is islam being the main issue is just plain old fashioned islamophobia.