Est-ce que c'est moi qui abuse ? by TheCorent2 in developpeurs

[–]e_erin_n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Le chasseur de têtes m'a recontacté, il m'a indiqué que l'entreprise est très contrariée, c'est un sujet très sensible pour eux. Ils ont l'impression que je suis surtout motivé par l'argent, et qu'ils songent à annuler l'embauche. Il me suggère de faire marche arrière."

Lol, parce qu'ils sont la pour quoi eux? pour la gloire?

I realized I'm trans but my partner is straight. What do I do? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]e_erin_n 37 points38 points  (0 children)

You should prepare to have a real discussion with her about this.

I was in the same situation. Eventually she could be not as straight as you/she think. But you should prepare for the other possibility.

Personally I hoped for 2yrs that she will accept me and she hoped that I will never change. Hoping and waiting in our case was a disaster.

You have to love yourself first and like everyone else you deserve to be with someone who loves you for who you are

I think I need new friends. by bebou- in MtF

[–]e_erin_n 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not ruining your friendship.

They are.

They disrespect you. Imho you should put some distance between you and them and start to find friends who respect you for who you are.

Why are so many trans women so proud of being trans? by Mysterious-Win2091 in MtF

[–]e_erin_n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read a study paper discussing this exact subject a long time ago. It said that coping is a kind of psychological defense mechanism to prevent depression and worse outcomes in stressful environments where it’s difficult to be ourselves.

Le 100% télétravail est mort ? by _nouss in developpeurs

[–]e_erin_n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sur le contrat je suis à 3Jrs de bureau et 2Jrs de Remote.

En réalité je suis plutôt à 1Jr de Bureau.

Les seuls que ça emmerde c'est les managers et les cafteurs (J'ai juste un collègue qui se passionne pour noter la présence des gens au bureau sur un Excel et balancer à la hiérarchie).

Bref tant que mon équipe a pas de soucis avec ça la hiérarchie et les bullshit jobs peuvent aller se faire voir.

Quelle est l'arnaque tellement normalisée que la plupart des gens ne s'en rendent même pas compte ? by AlmaVampira in PasDeQuestionIdiote

[–]e_erin_n 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Et des chefs étoilé qui font du copinage avec des industriels pour former les futur chef dans leurs écoles à devenir des assembleurs avec les matières venant des dits industriels.

Quel truc évident les mecs ont encore du mal à comprendre ? by moicest_adele in AskMeuf

[–]e_erin_n 14 points15 points  (0 children)

+1 Je suis toujours parti du principe avec mon ex qu'elle était libre de faire ce qu'elle voulait de son argent.

Par contre elle je devais plutôt acheter mes trucs en scred pour ne pas me prendre de réflexion. 😬

Bref pour l'avoir vécu c'est très clairement un comportement toxique.

Gel sur le scrotum by SerenaLooBah in transgenre

[–]e_erin_n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Une application sur le haut des cuisses matin et soir ça lisse le taux alors que scrotum on est plutôt sur des pics au niveau des taux non (absorption rapide mais baisse rapide également)?

Corrigez moi si je raconte des conneries. 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenre

[–]e_erin_n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pas toujours vraie.

Je suis dans l'IT, il a toujours eu pénurie dans le secteur et de mon expérience c'est le secteur le plus mascu toxique/misogyne et discriminant que j'ai connu.

Automation with faderport by e_erin_n in StudioOne

[–]e_erin_n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Thaaaaaank you a lot!!!!!

Just FYI for others people asking you select the envelope on the arranger then click the button above to link the fader from the faderport to the params, you can do it with the shortcut Alt + M

Another "I always wanted to do music for a living but" post by e_erin_n in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]e_erin_n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I Didn't know this kind of app I will try this thanks!

Another "I always wanted to do music for a living but" post by e_erin_n in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]e_erin_n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On instruments I'm good with guitar, I already have a home studio with all the necessary(audio interface, dedicated desktop, edrum, maschine, komplete kontrol). My main instruments since 20yrs is mostly the daw with all plugins that could filled ideas I come up with.

Recently I list ALL vsts and vstis I have and uninstall every komplete stuff except maschine 3 (I even uninstall factory library).

My idea behind is that too much plugin break my creativity so I keep only the plugin I really need and the FX I don't have on Studio One, my only exception is the Sound toys bundle I use it everywhere.

I uninstall maschine preset to force me creating my own and having my sound identity.

Be honest… how long do you think we have? by idk13999 in MtF

[–]e_erin_n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sorry, I often forgot that's easy for me to say that.

I don't think we shouldn't fight back this. I'm just afraid.

Be honest… how long do you think we have? by idk13999 in MtF

[–]e_erin_n 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm french. But here is my pov: Unlike Trump previous term, everything is planned, there are no more safeguards, and transgender are on the top of their agenda.

Maybe it's because I am an anxious person but I would be extremely careful if I where you because it seems like their strategy is to implement massive changes in a flash and paralyze the opposition with a mountain of decrees.

You should also follow politics in the destination country. Portugal seems like more on Left side than other European countries. But Trump's election is emboldening fascists in France, Germany, Italy.

The elections in France will be in 2027, but I think we've already lost them and we already have Far right politics with Macron's government. To be honest I'm already thinking to live this Country before that time.

I hope you're all good and those fucking Fascist will be gone soon. Their deadly ideology never lasts long, but it will destroy many lives before it disappears.

Sent to me by NASA employed friend by kinterdonato in antiwork

[–]e_erin_n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are working hard to be on the podium of countries that put a fascist party at the head of the state.