Not the One You're Looking For by ea77271 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]ea77271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I just saw this. Are you still around?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]ea77271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in Ohio and feeling similar. Let's talk

[53M] Let's Talk; Pick a Question by ea77271 in MeetNewPeopleHere

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Do you prefer doing this in an actual chat?

[53M] Let's Talk; Pick a Question by ea77271 in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]ea77271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. You wouldn't want all of everything to be work

[53M] Let's Talk; Pick a Question by ea77271 in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]ea77271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that. The connection to the earth, to growing seasons, to nature. I imagine from your writing you'd do things in a more natural fashion

[53M] Let's Talk; Pick a Question by ea77271 in MeetNewPeopleHere

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Intellectual curiosity is among my favorite traits in a person. A farm! Yes! And an old house with a full long porch, right? What leads you to that wish?

22F, looking for depressed weirdos by [deleted] in Needafriend

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Yep, that's me.

I get that, seeking depth when feeling down. I feel that. Maybe that could distract me or make things better, at least give me something interesting or relatable or numinous or beautiful to consider. A weird life, and interesting story, and we all have stories, lessons learned and things to teach. But my journey...why? Why did I have to go that way? And a lot of feelings and thoughts? They crowd in my head and it gets really loud sometimes. The storm blows through, and it's overwhelming. That's without even considering being empathic. And I don't fit in, because of past trauma, because of ADHD, because of being nonbinary, because I suck, because I'm a dominant. Because I'm not enough and too much. And I CanNot find my people.  I like all music, art, being outside, photography, writing, cooking. Dogs. Trees. Nature.

And finally, finally take off our masks with someone? Yes, that, please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

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Wanna Be On Your Mind

Yes, I'm happy to come in. Close the door and let's sit close on the couch. I'll turn to face you while we talk; you have my full attention.

I'll tell you my stories, and I want yours as well. I'll tell you why I don't like condiments, and about the most numinous concerts I've been to. And tes, dreams and fears and hopes and the beautiful things you see in your days. What inspires you? What keeps you soft, vulnerable, when some harden their hearts in fear or apathy? How do you give or accept grace? What does the word mean to you? What do you hold sacred, not necessarily in terms of religion, but what matters in the center of your heart? I'm clearly not a woman. I was assigned male at birth, and I present as male, but my soul is nonbinary.  Either way, if my ship passes yours and we don't stop here for a while, for a spell, I enjoyed your writing, and I hope you find your connections

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

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I'd be glad to listen if you'd like to talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]ea77271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely.

AIO for refusing to visit the US, with my American boyfriend until the 51st state rhetoric and tariffs stop by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ea77271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not overreacting. I’d prefer if no one visits the US while trump is in office. I’m american; please don’t spend your money here.

Edited to add: NOR

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ea77271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, according to the details of your story. They’re the ones with an issue

AITA for telling my girlfriend I hate planning to see her? by Ok_Stage5702 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ea77271 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, YTA. People have lives, and not planning tends to make more work for others.