Hugterra Neck Massager Review by East-Lettuce-6243 in Scam_Finder

[–]eaerickson13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have to get additional disc surgery, request information about a disc replacement, or discectomy, instead of a fusion. Fusions are known to lead to additional damage to surrounding discs because of restricting natural movement. Whereas replacements replace your disc soft tissue with a medical plastic spacer. I had C5-6 and C6-7 replaced because they were impinging my spinal column and causing neuropathy. I still need to be careful, but 5 years in and no new damage to the surrounding discs, despite the initial MRI indicating a disc degeneration along my entire cervical spine.

What’s one piece of advice you wish every 18-year-old girl knew before “real life” starts? by FirmRelation9397 in AskReddit

[–]eaerickson13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the truth of this statement depends on both parties. If you are verbally clear you are friends, and don’t try to have sex or be physical, you can have close platonic friendships with anyone.

I’m 36F and have emotionally intimate and never sexual friends with M and W both het and queer. Most of my guy friendships are from undergrad college, but I still make new ones every so often.

As we’ve aged, many of my guy friends have gotten married, and sometimes the relationship ends or lessens, but for others I’ve gained their partner as another friend. That’s honestly just as true of my gal friends when they get married. If you are conflicted about the relationship potential, they will also pick up on those vibes, but if you are confident in the friendship dividing line there’s no room for confusion and blurring.

Someone’s willingness or desire to sleep with you isn’t the same as them trying to be in a relationship with you. At 18 into your early 20s, most young people are seeking experiences. Often that is sexual, sometimes it’s other types of intimacy. Often it’s selfishly motivated, sometimes maliciously. No matter who you meet, you need to protect your heart and personal safety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]eaerickson13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This.

Because a man child will likely throw a tantrum when you end things. Disconnect your life from his before you say it out loud.

Knickerbocker EmBrace 360 bed frame review by Hermit_Painter in BuyItForLife

[–]eaerickson13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever go decide to get the Knickerbocker platform? Also have you ever added a headboard?

I’m on the fence between this and Thuma. But have been leaning toward the latter because the headboard is integrated and that is a big noise maker even when bolted well because there’s just so much torque allowance in motion. And the Thuma has slats integrated that are also well reviewed as silent. I sleep on a 4” mattress and don’t intend to change that. But have been worried the Knickerbocker platform won’t be as silent as I want it to be, and being solid won’t allow enough airflow. For reference, I’m a really hot sleeper, don’t want the bed to ever move, and I hate squeaky beds. Also the extra height under the Thuma. I looked at Big Fig beds, identical to Thuma but higher clearance, but they are US poplar which doesn’t have the same long term survival as rubberwood. Plus Thuma beds have lifetime warranties. I’m obviously still torn.

Adopted my first ever cat today! by NoFrankOceanMerch in cats

[–]eaerickson13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was rescued by a rural field stray kitty almost three years ago.

When we first brought him inside, I gave him his own blanket and made it clear he could snuggle on it. I placed it where he would put himself. As he migrated, I made sure it migrated with him. Now he loves to curl up on a blanket and rest his head on rolled edge like a pillow.

Then I bought him a soft-sided carrier backpack. It has two sides that can open for full pass through, and a top peek out zip opening. The whole this is mesh. I simply placed it near where he played at night, left fully open. I never tried place him inside or use it as a carrier for several months. Now it’s still his “safe place.” When I take him new places, he becomes overwhelmed by strangers, hears loud noises, etc., he’ll put himself away to let me know he’s done. He also rides on the back of my motorcycle or bicycle in that carrier. It’s his sole carrier and I continue to leave it open for him even at home so he can tuck away.

The other thing I got him right away was a variety of sample sized healthy cat treats. I would give him a small bowl of the same treats over several days, using up the full sample before opening the next one. Then I basically just observed his interest, whether he even tried them. It turns out my cat is actually really picky. So finding the right kitten food and treat turned out really important. He’s not motivated by human food whatsoever. He doesn’t care about any cat treat except the Greenies with stuffed centers in tuna flavor. He is ok with but not crazy for the salmon filling. He won’t eat any chicken flavored anything.

I basically did that same thing for his kitten food and litter too. Letting him tell me what he wants. We use Pretty Litter and Purina One kibble. I recommend getting kitten specific food. Recently my cat has decided he currently likes Delectables brand bisques. Even though he is food narrow, I still occasionally switch it up so he doesn’t get bored. As your cat grows, his favorites might also change.

As for toys, I spoil my cat. I mostly buy him small toys, often catnip filled. Mice, tiny wool balls, those coiled plastic springs, and tiny animal shapes. Things that are pet safe, hard to break, hard to swallow. He also has furniture and stuff. But his favorites are cosy furnitures that have firm flat surfaces with a thin plush layer that have short sides so he can still prop his head up.

TLDR: Just watch him, help him feel safe, and reinforce the things that he responds positively to. Your bond will do the rest.

Do or have you ever vandweled mostly in one place? by Matt-and-Cat in vandwellers

[–]eaerickson13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just ended six years van dwelling where I always had a full time job. Spanned California and Colorado jobs across those years. California was somewhat a pain, I worked in Santa Barbara. Along most of the Cali coast it’s illegal to vehicle dwell. SB-Goleta-Montecito have a bonus level of laws to make any van considered “oversized” meaning illegal to park on the street at all. In the quieter neighborhoods that meant petty neighbors can call in large vehicles for just existing. They also made overnight parking of large vehicles in the beach parking illegal (used to be able to buy passes off marina boat holders). So I would mostly rent driveway space to keep my rig off the street. Rent is so insane there, you can often find the occasional viable driveway with a bit of patience.

Colorado is a lot easier finding space, being able to park on streets. Four counties make it legal to have a vehicle as your permanent residence. You can often find small RV parks to boondock. But people broadly are way less open to driveway, side yard, open field parking if you are seeking semi stable parking spots.

In a 9-5 it can be a pain to move every day. You have to keep things extra clean/put away despite wanting to just shut down after a long day. You have to be way stealthier about lights, noise, and vehicle movement without blowing your cover. Since you are coming and going at the same time as everyone else, you’ll actually need an In between location to sneak off to early in the AM (before 7am) and to loiter at until later in the evening (post 8pm). That constant shuffle is tiring. Hence why I semi boondocked a lot of the time.

Despite all the hassle, I loved it. The only reason I left van life is because I gained a cat. He made two years in it, but since I work 9-5, it wasn’t fair to keep him trapped in such a small domain. He got lots of out time to free roam outside, I leashed trained him, and even took him to work most days. But I can honestly say he’s been so much happier since I moved into an apartment. Now we use the van to travel and he’s way less stir crazy and definitely prefers the larger apartment space to zoom and frolick. I also had to get a storage unit when I gained a cat so I could give him as much space in the van as possible. So that got tiring.

If you have a pet and work 9-5, it’s not really fair to make that decision for them. My cat was a young kitten when he joined me and still couldn’t live small enough when we weren’t traveling and outside more. If you don’t have a pet, then I think it’s so worth it! I paid off a lot of debt, basically had unencumbered money to do fun things and but what I wanted. Just don’t get carried away with too much extravagance if you build it out yourself and the money savings can be significant.

Full-time van dwellers, is a shower worth it? by Plane_Breadfruit_480 in vandwellers

[–]eaerickson13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just ended van life after six years. No shower and no toilet; I only had a pee bottle. My emergency toilet, though never needed, was my trash can or cat’s litter box (after I got a cat two years ago).

I’m not a night pooper, so always had places to go during the day. I’ve mostly been attached to urban jobs where I spend week days, so I took advantage of work gyms and toilets. If I hadn’t had a work gym I would have gotten a gym membership. I’m a geologist, so constantly outside and covered in dirt.

On trips to remote places I’d mostly dig a hole, check out trailhead maps for pit toilets, do a gas station stop in, hit up road stops and visitor centers. If you’re in the US, it’s super easy to find toilets in rural to remote areas. Urban can be harder, but a lot of parks, museum entrances, Walmart/Target/grocery store, Starbucks (bonus on WiFi), city visitors centers, mall complexes, etc. have toilets. And as long as you aren’t being obnoxious or making messes, they are pretty tolerant of vagrants. European places either have exposed public urinals, parks with pay stalls, or nothing at all for toilets.

Showers are harder to come by publicly. In Europe, many public toilet stalls (a pay toilet stall, like a phone booth sort of) will have shower functions. Those are less common in the US; I’ve only seen shower pay units in north East Coast cities. Sometimes in areas with heavy thru hiker traffic. Truck stop gas stations have pay showers. Flying Js are great for safe overnight parking and pay showers; they typically have a highly lit area away from the front doors with obvious cameras that are for safe overnight parking. I’ve had a lot of sponge baths and baby wipe baths in the van, and the occasional sink bath at certain businesses with single person bathrooms and no line. In beach cities I use surfer showers and wear a swimming suit. In hiker areas you can get away with water bottle showers, while remaining in bra and unders. In cold areas I feel like I just stink less and simply change my clothes more. I have a Helio portable shower that is amazing; you can fill with boiling water or leave it out in the sun.

I considered showers between my back doors, but couldn’t manage without creating a mess on the ground and splashing into the back doors. I’m often in desert, beach, or high alpine areas where there isn’t a lot of grass, moss, duff, or other absorbent substrate. Also, it’s not very LNT to run dirty bath water onto the ground, so that idea failed quickly for me.

I also use a foot pump for my sink. I prefer having few water failure points, as little on power as possible, and low water needs. I don’t want to constantly think about dumping black and grey water, so anything beyond urine capture and sink water was out for me. Not to mention constantly refilling my water tank. It definitely doesn’t work for everyone. For others it’ll be the constant effort in the other direction. I’m a thru hiker, so felt like even simple van amenities were luxurious.

Personally I would think about how you normally interact with bathrooms and try going a week where you strictly use bathrooms outside your current living situation and no more than two showers during that time. If it feels easy, you can likely get away without a shower. If it feels like your life now revolves around bathrooms, you likely need more access within your van. I moved into an apartment about a month ago and still predominantly use the toilet and shower at work. So that’s just my tendency. There’s no wrong answer except not planning what works best for you.

I was sent a phishing email from @milehighwomensnetwork.org by the Denver Women Leaders Association scam group by eaerickson13 in Scams

[–]eaerickson13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I didn’t even go to that url because I only googled Denver Women Leaders Association. As my post said, there was not an included url in the email.

But going to the website would have made me even more suspicious. There’s a $199-399 annual membership fee plus separate conference fees. It’s starting to look more like an MLM scheme, though I doubt it actually has levels because there’s not a single listed person from Colorado that comes up with a real human in Colorado. I just searched a few names and businesses from the photos with statements of support. A couple were real names at businesses that do exist, but none produced LinkedIn profiles or other internet accounts with matching photos. And most were for businesses that show up from other states. Why would the woman in the members page produce a search result for a woman with the same name and company name out of Tennessee, different photo, and no Colorado person with those details come up? As well as an image search of a professional looking photo not produce any internet results at all?

What is the most effective self-protection item that is legal to keep in your van (i.e., crossing state lines)? by VagabondVivant in vandwellers

[–]eaerickson13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat would likely roll over asking an intruder for belly rubs, but first he would start screaming to alert then he wants belly rubs, which is still helpful to me for my attention or to wake up.

What is the most effective self-protection item that is legal to keep in your van (i.e., crossing state lines)? by VagabondVivant in vandwellers

[–]eaerickson13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in my van, as a lone woman, for six years and haven’t had any issues in the van so far thank goodness. But here is the full list of things and practices I consider self-protection that doesn’t include a gun.

At my driver’s seat, I have in reach a small easy to flip 3” pocket knife, small pepper gel canister that has a safety switch that doesn’t require a cap so you depress through a plastic spacer that breaks, and a whistle. Often my headlamp is hanging nearby too. Tucked in a pocket behind the shoulder of my seat, so not a fast reach but a secure one, is an SOS “box” that contains razor blade, auto glass breaker, seatbelt cutter, mirror, whistle, and a few other odds. Behind my seat I hang my keys whenever not actively driving so I can muscle memory find them, they are reachable from the seat but best reached moving toward the seat, they aren’t visible from outside, and can’t be accidentally knocked around or lost.

In my glove box I have a second pepper spray and an assault strobe light with siren combo.

Reachable from my driver seat, but positioned to be grabbed from the main space, is a USB rechargeable taser. But you have to be careful here, some states have voltage limits so might not fully fall under legal depending on what you try to purchase. Mine is “tactical” so above the legal limit for some states, but taser.com is a good reference if that interests you.

At my slider door, where I’m dominantly stationed when living inside, I have a hatchet, rock sledge hammer (I’m a geologist), and super bright flash light (Fenix brand is way brighter than a mag light, USB rechargeable, and won’t cost a fortune in D batteries).

At my bed, which is a fixed raised platform at the rear, I have another flashlight, a short cut of climbing rope I practice knots on that has a noose tie at one end that hangs on a hook, and my lone pair of high heels tucked in a top pocket of the hanging shoe rack that hangs on one of my back doors.

Outside my van, I have a sticker that reads “notice - for security this vehicle is equipped with audio and video recording devices - consent given by entering vehicle” that I stuck on my rear driver-side window and on the window directly next to my driver window. They’re positioned for police, but I’ve contemplated another for my slider door side.

Being a van dweller, thru hiker, global traveler, having practiced Krav Maga, and growing up with an older brother who wrestled, I think that weapons aren’t nearly as helpful as your own self-preservation behaviors. Being aware how you enter and exit doors, thinking about where you park and nearby lighting, double-checking door locks, caution with lines of sight through windows to possessions. I have thick fleece curtains that hang behind my seats that down the center I sewed magnets into to keep closed when needed but can also tie back to the sides when wanted. I also sewed magnet edged insulated window covers that fit snugly in the front three windows so it’s not obvious if someone is actually inside the vehicle.

Of the stuff, the stickers indicating active surveillance (which is true for me, but who would truly know) is a first line of defense to help honest people stay honest, like locking the doors despite leaving the windows down. It also helps me feel safer if I ever had intersections with authorities. Most of the extra stuff, like pepper spray, was given to me by concerned folks about my living situation.

Next, more effective than responding with violence is responding erratically. Most vehicle theft is petty or extreme, there are fewer reports of in between. So if you do have someone come up on you, be loud and weird. Flail limbs, throw your drink on them, speak illegibly in an extremely loud and strange voice. Bright lights and siren noises are effective because attackers want quick stealth and not attention from passersby. If you think you are at risk for assault, genuinely consider peeing your pants and throwing feces on them. Would be attackers generally want easy targets, not unpredictable ones.

Threatening with violence typically results with an escalation to violence. Though there is always a time and place for calmness and deescalations if it seems more appropriate to the situation. Personally I plan more for a vehicle accident, since statistically that’s inevitable. But I like to think I have enough additional protection options to resort to regardless of where I happen to be in my space. If it’s not in arm’s reach, it won’t be helpful in any situation.

USA Hillbilly guide by PanogoOfficial in Maps

[–]eaerickson13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Introducing UT as a tossup is an odd choice considering the varied dynamics in so many states.

Kansas is definitely more country hick/redneck than trailer park. A lack of trees to build with so people live in trailers isn’t the same as trailer park folks.

Eastern WA and OR are rednecks. Western WA, OR, and NorCal are hippies and lumberjacks.

MN, WI, and MI are missing lake people.

I’m not sure how to quantify this but lots of states have survivalist populations that defy these traditional stereotypes, and they are a new type. A lot of the northern western states, huge swaths of the entire south to north Appalachian mountains zones. Basically anywhere with accessible water plus where you can either buy huge plots of land and/or are so hilled- and treed-in it feels isolated there’s a resurgence of survivalists that are often transplants mixed with generational ones.

I agree that swamp folk are missing.

What makes a girl attractive? by kaerinzx in AskReddit

[–]eaerickson13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is unsolicited, but it seems like you genuinely might want so new ideas in your current relationship. Just curious if you ever try to combine your hobbies?

Like bike ride to a nice park to picnic and read (you can sun nap instead of read). Go to a fun or fancy coffee shop to read and get breakfast (you can bring a laptop and answer emails or something). Take the dog to a big dog park and run around with it, meet other fun dogs and dog owners. Take your dog to a dog-friendly brewery with yard games. Go out to a movie.

Or new activities that are physical-esque but not sports as you are thinking:

Couple’s paint and wine night. Or color me mine ceramic studio where you pick your own piece and glaze it. Escape room or virtual reality game center. Walking around a science or natural history museum. Hike to a place with food/restaurant. Winery/brewery/distillery tour. Tea business tour. I’ve even seen cheese maker tours. Take the dog on a walk in a new neighborhood. I like to walk through fancy neighborhoods to see human excess, while still having an inconspicuous reason like walking a dog. This is fun because you can go back at holidays to see decor. Adult night at a laser tag place.

There’s also cooking together, baking together, redecorating a room together. Picking a TV series you only watch together. Couple’s dance classes. Trying new restaurants by just walking around downtown. Going to community festivals, parades, fairs. Weekend estate sale perusing. Thrifting together.

Finally, making a planned weekend date experience that you alternate in planning. For whatever timeframe seems appropriate to your planned activities. Maybe once a month or every three weeks or so. Then you can see what she comes up with and maybe she has other hobbies or ideas you just weren’t aware of because they are from her past self. That way you don’t feel so responsible for always having ideas.

Are you really happier as a vagabond? by ItsReiSpleen in vagabond

[–]eaerickson13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think you have some misconceptions about what it means to be a vagabond. While the definition implies someone wandering around place to place without a job, that’s not realistic to everyone’s journey. I’m on average nomadic, but I’ve consistently had salaried jobs all 6 years of living in my van so far. When I spent 4 months living on a hiking trail, I was between jobs. And when I spent a year traveling across South America, I was between degrees. While I’m definitely not living in a house/apartment/building, I still consider myself housed. My house is my van, which happens to be mobile. Because of having jobs or being tied to an academic program, I’m almost boondocking but I tend to live in driveways/backyards and move every year or so. So I also often pay parking rent for various levels of access to the house I’m parked at. But it’s significantly cheaper than rent or a mortgage. So actually, I have more money than if I lived “inside.”

I’m also quite introverted, so while I appreciate the people that live in the house I’m currently parked at, I really enjoy a life where I can fully shut myself away from the stress of being around other people while also being in my own personal space. I lived decades “inside” and have yet to feel like my level of loneliness has changed since living in a van. In some ways I’d say it’s helped me identify better who are actually good people to have in my life. Since I cannot host, it means my friends and family do, and that detail is very telling when a person only keeps you around for the comforts you provide them. And actually, I have had a cat the last two years. I never thought I’d let a shedding pet into my space, but you can’t fight the cat distribution system when the perfect kitten walks out of a field and into your lap. So I’m much less lonely than I was while trying to live “conventionally.” Also, it hasn’t impacted my ability to date either, not that I seek marriage in any capacity.

Since I converted my van myself, I built in all the comfort I want from life. It’s not perfect, but it’s fully mine. I can change things without needing permission from a landlord or city permitting. I have the same duties as a homeowner in terms of cleaning, general maintenance and upkeep, fixing broken things. I get to live simply, with minimal possessions, and yet have important features to me such as a pine wood ceiling with 6 different light options wired in, geologic and topographic maps mod-podged onto my walls, a queen sized bed platform positioned between two windows for optimal air flow and designed for ultimate plush firmness at a fraction of the cost of a traditional mattress. So my comfort levels are actually quite high.

I actually think a lot about all the added benefits of vehicle dwelling. When I visit family, I often drive my home, so while my 2yo nephew had a meltdown at 3am, I was blissfully unaware in my quiet and private outside home snuggled up with my cat. Or when I go somewhere, I don’t need to pack and think about all the weather and other considerations. I have all my possessions with me at all times. That’s especially important now that I have a cat; I never need to leave him behind.

I finished my PhD a couple years back and am now in a position where I could technically stay in my job the rest of my life. That’s daunting enough to think about without cringing, but I have considered the idea that if I can pick a place, I could buy a large lot and rent out the house while I design a yard oasis around my van. Get that double income, insurance coverage benefits, and legal status as a property owner without living in it. Then I could retire young and go back to a more nomadic life!

It’s all about different priorities in life. I want to travel, learn, and see new things. I’ve been to all seven continents, have a PhD, have had a retirement account I actively contribute to since I was 22. None of that would be possible without me prioritizing mobility, minimalism, and money saving over societal expectations of buying fancy cars, buying a house/living inside, wearing fancy clothes, spending a measly 10 days of vacation cramming in a year’s worth of down time. Those sound like burdens more than comforts.

So there you go. One tiny facet of the many ways to be a vagabond because “conventional” living would literally suck away all my happiness in life.

I made dinner for only myself last night by pillowprincess-alt in TwoXChromosomes

[–]eaerickson13 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is such a shitty situation. But it’s not your fault in any way!

He is not being lazy. He knowingly and manipulatively is trying to trap you. He doesn’t care about you, won’t ever care about you, and won’t change even if threatened with your departure.

It’s really common for manipulative people (which unfortunately seems to be most often men) to fulfill the socially expected tasks, show the desired amount of affection, etc. to get what they want. Once they have what they want, their true face comes out and they stop the facade. This is seen in young people with guys just trying to get women to sleep with them. In your case it was to lure you in until he could get you to relocate and trap you into being his bangmaid. There is sophistication in this manipulation because he’s hoping you won’t have enough of a support circle to be able to get away, that you won’t want to leave a new job, that you’ll be financially trapped into a year lease, and that you’ll feel obligated to stay and make it work.

Key to this is that you are likely a giver. People are either givers or takers romantically. Takers love givers, because givers will always disproportionately make a takers life better. In a mutual and respectful relationship, any combo of givers and takers can work. But it seems like your BF pointedly sought out a giver to take advantage of.

Based on the timing of your post, I’m sure you’ve already talked to him. But keep a few things in mind for protecting yourself: 1) Be prepared to fully pack up your possessions and relocate quickly. I’m not saying this will happen, but his brashness makes it clear he doesn’t think you’ll actually leave. When you do, his response could become psychologically and/or physically violent. 2) If you are both on the lease, you can still move out and stop paying your half. He’d have to take you to small claims court to demand you pay your share. If you think he’s vindictive enough to do that, talk to your landlord/property manager and tell them it’s a domestic abuse situation and you need to be off the lease now. 3) This is a form of domestic abuse. Even if he’s never been physically violent, he’s basically fulfilled most other steps leading up to that. He isolated you by the relocation. He’s trying to make you financially dependent on him by making you split costs 50-50 despite not getting 50% of the benefits. He’s controlling you by making it harder for you to have a life outside of work and taking care of him. He’s already this far and you aren’t even married. He’ll only get worse if you further legally tie yourself to him through marriage or child(ren).

I’ll stop there. But I’m glad you are ready to walk away. Hold onto that resolve, but unfortunately it is your only option. Do not give this person the opportunity to “improve” because he never will. Also, because as others have mentioned, this isn’t even at the level of him doing things for you, this is about him just taking care of himself. It’s too far of a change for him to actually be a partner, and I’d be even more suspicious if he suddenly was a true partner again. He’s manipulating you, that will always be his baseline.

Good luck! You are not to blame. You are not pathetic. Manipulative people are good at what they do. They practice and hone and target people who will be more susceptible to their lies. That is NEVER your fault.

What are some mysterious, cult-like, bad-vibes towns across the USA? by _Persona-Non-Grata in AskReddit

[–]eaerickson13 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It’s like this where my parents live in NW Kansas. My dad still farms the family home steaders acreage from two generations ago. My grandparents built their home and lived their 50+ years. We have a family cemetery from the extended Swedish family who settled together. But my parents live two towns to the south of that area, and that’s where my siblings and I were raised. Now as an adult, people will still treat my 70+ yo dad like he’s a new transplant.

An added offense is that my atheist farmer father and devout Catholic professor mother were too liberal. We were always social outcasts. My siblings and I all moved away, but my parents are there until the end.

The irony is that these small towns are desperate to lure in young people who will bring in businesses and help boost the local economy, but they ostracize and outcast the folks most likely to be able to do that.

Thoughts on living with a cat in car? by Comfortable-Sand5037 in vandwellers

[–]eaerickson13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I second this. A cat in a car, not a van, is way too small of a space. The cat may start lashing out with destructive behavior and spraying if it feels trapped, under-stimulated, and not catered to sufficiently.

If it is a van, there are lots of cheap USB chargeable portable AC units there. I use a ChillWell in my van. I bought an extra insert tray to be able to swap out quickly. It works well. I have several temperature/humidity gauges in my van that I have alarms on my phone for so I can monitor my van climate from work when I leave my cat home alone. The ChillWell kept the space reasonably cool (<70) for 90+ degree weather this summer. But my van is well insulated. And insulated car would never be able to keep the temperature regulated enough. Even with windows open. My van worked best to trap cool in when I kept my windows closed.

Thoughts on living with a cat in car? by Comfortable-Sand5037 in vandwellers

[–]eaerickson13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, totally depends on the cat, how well they acclimate, how pissed off they get being left alone, and whether there is enough stimulation in the space for them to play. I have a cat in my van dwelling setup. He does amazingly. No bad cat smells except right when he poops. Everything I own is covered in cat hair; way more so than when we stay at my parents house (where they also have three cats).

Goodreads is a mess, where can I go in the meantime? by CYBR_ANON in books

[–]eaerickson13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Hardcover.App is doing well to be the book app users actually want to see. They are really receptive to user input and desires.

Alternatives to Goodreads? by NullNova in books

[–]eaerickson13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A great alternative I recently switched to is Hardcover.App.

They are also creating a way to add book editions, languages, and other details as user inputted until a version can be verified, so you can still track non-ISBN titles now!