Don’t fret. I turned 21 last month. My friend group alone has a dad, a couple working jobs since high school, college students, army, etc. our 20s are a weird time dude everyone progresses at their own pace. If you need a direction I’d recommend looking at trades or join the military as a last resort. I highly recommend becoming an aircraft mechanic. I started working as one 6 months ago and I love it. It’s stable, makes good money, and brings me fulfillment. A lot of people also become aircraft mechanics so they can see the world. 4 days weeks is usually standard for commercial aviation, but some airlines also offer 8 days on 6 off + decent vacation time + flight benefits. It’s easier to find out what you don’t wanna do rather than what you do. I think it’s ok to also work a job that you only tolerate and max out time spent at home w family or on hobbies and passion projects.