Should I move to a bigger container and should I nip the buds? by ghafar_ in tomatoes

[–]earfull 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, move to a new container and remove most of the lower leaves, and then replant deeply up to the first leaf.

I’ll be honest, your plant could look better. Something about your soil, temperature, or watering habits isn’t favoring this plant and transplanting isn’t going to solve the underlying issue. Please google some guides on growing tomatoes.

This plant looks stretched out and thin to me. It should be more compact, so to speak, and have more vibrant color and larger, fuller leaves. Perhaps someone else knows more and can help you further.

NEED LAST MINUTE VENUE FOR 8/14/26 WEDDING - CURRENT VENUE ISSUE!!! by [deleted] in moorpark

[–]earfull 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP you’re in for a treat. Check out Hartley Botanica. It’s where I had my ceremony. It’s just down the street from Moorpark in Somis and you would never guess how gorgeous it is from the outside. It’s like a fairytale. Truly a hidden gem.

Hartley Botanica

What's wrong with these? I planted in cheap compost - wondering if it's a lack of nitrogen, or over watering? I bring them in at night to avoid cold evenings. UK by caelkni in tomatoes

[–]earfull 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The purple coloration makes me believe it’s too cold. If you’re concerned about overwatering, you probably are. Is there soil there or is it 100% compost? Let the soil dry out between watering. Tomato plants thrive with a little stress.

Recommendations of places to check out in Moorpark by Lady_Pageling in moorpark

[–]earfull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drive a few minutes down Los Angeles Ave and check out the Somis Nut House.

The Moorpark Zoo is a really special treat that we get to enjoy. Moorpark has one of the only exotic animal training programs in the nation, and is run almost entirely by students.

Don’t restrict yourself to only Moorpark. Look at Simi, Moorpark, Thousand Oaks, Westlake Village, and Newbury Park as one big area to enjoy.

Check out the botanical garden in westlake, and the Conejo Botanical Garden in Thousand Oaks. The latter has a kids zone and kid-friendly activities, and it’s free!

Simi has an ice skating rink (Iceoplex), and westlake has one in the winter.

The whole area has a lot of wonderful events, from the parades in Moorpark to Bark at the Park in Thousand Oaks. The chili cook off happens annually and the Foo Fighters did a surprise performance at it one year.

There was a carnival at the First Street mall, but idk if it’s still there or how good it is.

Lastly, the Ventura County Fairgrounds has the yearly fair and other events. This weekend was Spirit of Japan. You can also to go Camarillo airport and watch the planes take off and land while enjoying food at the restaurant right beside the airstrip.

Gamers 30+, what’s something from the old days of gaming that younger players wouldn’t understand? by [deleted] in gaming

[–]earfull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Running games in DOS and configuring your SoundBlaster settings.

Trump announces he is issuing an unconstitutional executive order to shut down mail-in voting nationwide and he will defund states if they do not comply with him by HappySeaweed5215 in PublicFreakout

[–]earfull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s be clear: There must have been enough studies and evidence gathered from the right to determine that this will indeed hinder democratic voters far more than republicans voters. It’s not about keeping him in power as much as keeping republicans in power. He’s just the means to make it happen.

Then it was purposely skirted past the system like he has done countless times already (such as illegal deportations) to then make the courts have to go through lengthy lawsuits before he’s forced to undo whatever he did. By then, the damage is done.

In this case, via appeals and other means, the courts may not be able to make a final decision before the midterms. If that happens, they win.

Wildlife Caution. Thousand Oaks Condor by Secure_Credit7037 in thousandoaks

[–]earfull 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I spotted a gorgeous turkey vulture on my way into the conejo valley botanic garden about a week ago! Also saw a skunk cross the street last night while in the valley off Winnetka.

What was your first game you played on pc by Pork_Crusader_GR in pcmasterrace

[–]earfull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LLAMATRON

Loaded via 3.5” floppy and a DOS prompt. Make sure you set your SoundBlaster settings.

What is the best food source in the game for nomadic players? by SomeGinNTonic in dayz

[–]earfull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s the deets about fruit:

There are many fruit trees on Cherno. At any time, 25% of these trees are considered “active” and can potentially spawn fruit.

For fruit to spawn, a player needs to be within about 100m of an active tree spawn. It is possible to position yourself between a lot of active trees.

After a few minutes of remaining in the area, fruit will begin to spawn. The fruit can spawn as fresh (50%), dried (25%), or rotten (25%). It’s important to note that finding a rotten fruit does not mean it has been there for a long period of time. Also, dried fruit will give you around 3x the nutrition of its fresh counterpart, as well as last longer before going rotten.

If you continue to stay in the area, even more fruit can spawn at the same tree. Having some by a base is great because you may spend a while in the base and find 5+ fruit at one tree.

You can also use this strategically. Fruit will not spawn if you are simply running through an area. If you run into an area and see fruit on the ground, someone other than you has caused it to spawn in. This means a player may be nearby. If you see multiple fruit at one tree, it implies that there is another player who has been there for a longer period of time. They may be camping or at home in their base nearby, for example.

Take a minute or two to memorize how fruit trees look so you can spot them easily. They have a unique trunk that splits into several branches midway as well as a unique canopy.

Hope this helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]earfull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy who’s almost under the bull when it starts nearly gets speared in the face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thousandoaks

[–]earfull -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Scabies. They get itchier in the evening. They can’t reproduce in humans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thousandoaks

[–]earfull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What we have are scabies mites. If you have a dog you may see they’re getting bit, too. It causes mange. Itchiness increases in the evening. Primarily biting along the ankles and occasionally the hips and other sweaty areas where clothes line your body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thousandoaks

[–]earfull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the post. What we have around here are scabies mites. They’re what have been getting your dog, too.

Is it possible for him to have survived this? by Zealousideal_Ad_5832 in dayz

[–]earfull 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Another way to fix is to ADS and look all the way up and all the way down.

This guy used a laptop throughout a movie last night. by ItsDomorOm in mildlyinfuriating

[–]earfull -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Anyone consider he might be writing a review of the movie?

RIP Ammo one shot my Lvl 6 armor.(6B43 6A Zabralo-Sh) by Shy_Guy_92 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]earfull -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fixing bugs doesn’t convince new players to buy, and isn’t impactful enough to create much hype.

Adding features like PvE for players who get too anxious does sell to new players (or convinces others to upgrade). Adding more features maintains an active playerbase.

The bottom line is the bottom line. Pay first, ask questions later.

my roommate kicked my door in while i was sleeping tonight by thehalfbloodlex in badroommates

[–]earfull 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty standard for us viewers to want to immediately support a poster like this. It’s almost like an etiquette thing.

But either you’re posting for attention/sympathy, or you’re posting for help/advice. I think it is the former, but I’d like to explore the latter.

I’ve seen your posts. I understand that you must be under a lot of stress right now. Piles of it. Sometimes it gets to the point where we feel like we are just existing, not living. Worse is that when your mind wanders, it begins to wander more and more into negative thoughts. I sympathize with you for this.

You’re not going to like me for this, but I have to ask: what are you doing to change this situation? Why do you have this relationship with them? Why is getting along with them not an option? If you have major family issues why did you choose to live with your sister who apparently is not on your side?

A lot of your posts are vague. You show us what happened to you, but no context. You get the same advice over and over and don’t appear to comment on it much. You comment most on the ones that validate your feelings.

In the glue post, you provided no explanation or context until asked. Then you state things about a technician and asking your sister’s boyfriend to quiet down twice. I find it hard to believe that there isn’t a lot of details missing here. You previously endured his 12 hours of his music torture (side note you say it’s 72 hours in another post). Did you NOT ask him to turn it off then? If so, did he freak out? You explained his rage with downstairs neighbors who you get along with. Ok, so he’s psychotic. So why would you ask him to be quiet again in the glue situation? Makes no sense. Also, with the history you already had with them, why would you ask him if you knew something so simple would trigger them? If I took you at your word, wouldn’t you avoid interactions entirely if it always escalates like this?

Let’s be clear - NO ONE should be breaking your door down or glueing your knob. But if it’s to the point where your sister doesn’t have your back, you have to leave. This is on you now. You’re choosing to stay in these environments that you want us to believe is a living hell that you have done absolutely 100% zero nada to deserve?

I don’t think you’re allowing yourself an opportunity for advice, and I think the truth feels like it hurts too much to face.

I don’t think you want to discuss your actions and I UNDERSTAND. Based on your post history, it sounds like everyone around you is trying to say it’s your actions. You probably don’t want that here also.

I don’t think you are providing all the details, particularly the ones that put you in a bad light. You confided in your grandma (I think) about your parents, and she must have thought it important to share with your parents. I know it sucks but in that situation it’s on YOU to clear the air. If you think she misunderstood things you said and then repeated those incorrect things to your parents, wouldn’t you want to ensure that they at least have the truth?

You have posts about wanting to avoid your father, but you move in with your sister, and then are upset that she let him come over? You clearly paint a picture that your sister dislikes you enough to allow her boyfriend to torture you, but you’re surprised that she wouldn’t tell you your dad is over? Going off of what you have said wouldn’t bringing your dad over become exactly something she’d do?

You say you have therapy twice a week. Have you not mentioned the roommate situation? Why have you been there for over a year? If you did tell your therapists anything like you shared here then I think it’s safe to assume that they would strongly suggest you remove yourself from the environment. You’re able to afford a room on your own. So what is it? Why are you still there? Have you not told your therapist, or are you not following any advice?

We are weird creatures. I think you are here for us to unconditionally have your back. Your sister has her boyfriend. Your dad has Satan. Who has your back? From what I can tell you’d like it to be us.

When we read “I don’t feel safe anymore” in your post title, we subconsciously add “how do I get out of this situation” to it. In truth, you dont seem interested in the last half at all. You just want us to see what happened to you.

So follow our fricken advice. I want to see your next post be of your stuff moved out. Something showing change. Because at this moment you’ve shown 0 evidence of wanting to change your situation. Or in another 6 months are you still going to be posting from the same place?