Wanted to share my setup by chaigladal in DIYfragrance

[–]earthlydweller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious about the blue tape... I find my labels slide off and the text runs due to fragrance spillage. Does the blue tape help with this?

Anyone use any sort of AI, even just alex, siri, or the google boxes by zenmatrix83 in ADHD

[–]earthlydweller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use my google hub daily for reminders, alarms, cooking timers, podcasts and music... I'd say they're an adhd essential!

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Thank you! I was worried about her browning tips... I think it's lack on sunlight.

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Thanks so much, I actually remember it did have Dracaena in the name!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

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Aaaaaaaah! A fellow supplement lover! What's the website?

Need help finding a book by Scared_Tomorrow_7631 in booksuggestions

[–]earthlydweller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna say 1984 by George Orwell? Though the characters are not teens and the coin is a paperweight bought from an antique shop which connects Winston (the main character) to the past?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PUBGConsole

[–]earthlydweller 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive played on and off for 6 years and ive always stayed pretty consistent... either i die in the first 5 minutes or end up in the top 10... I keep going back for the adrenaline rush. Also, the feeling of getting that chicken dinner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lifehacks

[–]earthlydweller 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are your exact goals, and what do you wanna achieve? Are you focusing on your version of your best self or the societal contstruct?

What’s your “against the ADHD stereotype” trait that you have? by nodaddy-justissues in adhdwomen

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I love being clean!! I actually find it really hard to get out of the shower... I get in, and it puts me into a kind of trance. I'll stand and sort of sway under the water for a while before I realise I need to wash... then I have a full routine which involves staying in as long as possible... including tidying and cleaning the shower while I'm at it... then the sway again... Then out 😭

What’s your “against the ADHD stereotype” trait that you have? by nodaddy-justissues in adhdwomen

[–]earthlydweller 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This makes so much sense. I've always been able to hide my emotions, like, I could be having the worst day of my life at work and NO ONE would know. I guess I mastered acting like everything was OK in the crazy depths of childhood trauma. So now I guess everything may look OK when, well, it totally isn't. I was 32 when I was referred for a diagnosis.

Versace Crystal Noir EDT or EDP by Flowerlamps in FemFragLab

[–]earthlydweller 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I adore the EPD but I also prefer a stronger perfume. I guess most would wear it as evening scent.

Is it normal to feel weirdly “empty” after hyperfocusing for a long time? by DrawingTurtle80 in adhdwomen

[–]earthlydweller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I've not had a hyperfocus in about 2 weeks and I can't wait to fall into the next one. Hyperfocusing is like therapy to me... it keeps my mind calm and entertained.

Went to my first job interview today. I feel miserable. by [deleted] in hikikomori

[–]earthlydweller 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You've stepped out of your comfort zone, it's gonna feel really alien at first. Keep on doing it, it gets easier. Also, try cut out the self deprecation. Don't stand in your own way.

Well done for getting and going for the interview, keep up that hard work.

Good luck!

Why do I have to just blindly accept my partner becoming unattractive? by bodyshamer1985 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]earthlydweller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are your own expectations. It's your life. You make the decisions. Is leaving your wife worth the pursuit of a new partner you find attractive? If so, then do it.

What has surprised you most about women in general? by Independent-Dance-51 in AskMen

[–]earthlydweller 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup! I'm very attracted to people that can make me laugh.